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re: would you stiff a server that gave you bad service, yet good food?

Posted on 12/29/18 at 10:24 am to
Posted by doubleb
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2006
40318 posts
Posted on 12/29/18 at 10:24 am to
Pay your bill and find the cook and give him five bucks and leave.
Posted by Napoleon
Kenna
Member since Dec 2007
70972 posts
Posted on 12/29/18 at 10:27 am to
I do, I'm on vacation. I take Christmas, Mardi gras and Fourth of July weeks off to travel every year.


L.A. not LA.


I didn't leave $0, I left $1.50. I started a countdown from 20% when I asked for the bill the second time. I know it was a half hour because we finished and "Blackish" came on TV, it was finished before we got our meal. The police officers had to wait a long time for their drinks too and looked annoyed.
(one thing I noted is LAPD seems friendlier and more approachable than police back home)

Elena's Greek and Armenian; Glendale.



My bad. Thought this would be a 3-4 reply thread late at night.

Tipping is an odd thing. I am the guy that usually tips even for to-go (5-10%) and counter ($1-3) so I felt bad about not tipping. Though seeing as it's a family place and obviously all 'employees' are family the tip wasn't as important as it would be to someone making $2.13 an hour.

Just that it's one of my must go to places in L.A. Thats okay, Juanita's on Olivera will take that spot.



Got a FatBurger the other night based on a FDB board recommendation. Good, but wouldn't be a top ten burger in NOLA (IMO).

Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
51784 posts
Posted on 12/29/18 at 10:29 am to
Nah I wouldn't feel bad about that. The server wasn't doing their job. I'll cut them a little slack if they are slammed.
Posted by OKellsBells
USA
Member since Dec 2016
5264 posts
Posted on 12/29/18 at 10:39 am to
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Elena's Greek and Armenian; Glendale.


You said it’s a family owned joint and you usually enjoy it. Maybe there was a death or crisis in their family causing the crew to not function well.

They definitely didn’t deserve your tip that night, but no need to smear them online yet - nothing wrong with giving the owner a call the next day and letting them know about your experience.
Posted by Godfather1
What WAS St George, Louisiana
Member since Oct 2006
84898 posts
Posted on 12/29/18 at 10:47 am to
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would you stiff a server that gave you bad service, yet good food?


Absolutely.

Service is part of the meal experience. That server has nothing to do with the quality of the food.
Posted by Fourteen28
Member since Aug 2018
1156 posts
Posted on 12/29/18 at 10:53 am to
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Only if I was a Democrat


Too chicken shite to say “black?”
Posted by SpecialHazard
SOCAL
Member since Jan 2018
1572 posts
Posted on 12/29/18 at 10:53 am to
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Don't reward mediocre effort.



A lot of good replies that I'm on board with but I think this one sums it up the best.
Posted by jimmy the leg
Member since Aug 2007
39795 posts
Posted on 12/29/18 at 11:25 am to
I would ask to see the chef, compliment them and tip them on the spot, and then not leave shite for the poor service. Meritocracy in action.
Posted by Feral
Member since Mar 2012
12656 posts
Posted on 12/29/18 at 12:22 pm to
You're a more patient man than I am if you barged into the kitchen for your ticket after a 30 minute wait and multiple requests for the bill. I'd have guestimated the bill and thrown some cash on the table, regardless of whether it was short or over.

Enough is enough.
Posted by Bard
Definitely NOT an admin
Member since Oct 2008
55653 posts
Posted on 12/29/18 at 12:54 pm to


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It's $40.25. I leave $42 on the table and leave. I feel sort of bad about it, seeing that I long ago served people. Yet it wasn't busy and there were no odd requests or issues.
Just downright horrible service.


I waited tables at places ranging from "just don't come in naked" to strict dress codes when I was in college, due to that experience there's no way on God's green earth I would have left anything for that server other than my reasoning for not tipping them. For truly crappy service I've been known to yelp/google-review/etc.
Posted by Gatorbait2008
Member since Aug 2015
22953 posts
Posted on 12/29/18 at 12:59 pm to
Server isn't part of the good food. They are there to serve it. Cooks make the food good. So you tip based on their service.
Posted by CoachMoorGut
Member since Sep 2018
725 posts
Posted on 12/29/18 at 1:11 pm to
I will write a tip of a penny to send a message that I'm not a guy who just doesn't tip, you just sucked.

Being a waiter/ess shouldn't be hard. If you can get an order right and keep drinks refilled you're golden. I can understand the kitchen is slow sometimes.
Posted by dawgsjlw
shite hole with your momma
Member since Sep 2014
826 posts
Posted on 12/30/18 at 7:41 am to
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I used to do this. So if the person was supposed to get back $8.31, I’d just give back $9. I hated keeping loose coins in my pockets for change.
Yeah but they actually rounded down. It also isn't about the amount of money but the principle of the whole thing. If you charge me a certain amount and I give you cash, I expect you to give me back the proper change. If I paid with a debit/credit, would you have charged me more to make the total to a round number? If not, then don't do that bullshite when I pay with cash. So hopefully the sorry server enjoyed her chump change.
Posted by biglego
San Francisco
Member since Nov 2007
80403 posts
Posted on 12/30/18 at 9:08 am to
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The server doesn't cook your food.


I don’t know why people can’t understand this. Food quality is the kitchen, service is the waiter.
Posted by noonan
Nassau Bay, TX
Member since Aug 2005
36951 posts
Posted on 12/30/18 at 10:02 am to
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Why not just raise the price of the food items and wages of the waiter/waitresses? The better the wait staff, the higher his/her wage.


So pay more for shitty service?
Posted by PortHudsonPlaya
Houston
Member since Jul 2017
3170 posts
Posted on 12/30/18 at 10:08 am to
If the service is that bad I don’t leave anything. If the service is good, I usually tip more than I should.
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