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re: Would you rather share your emotions with a woman or a tree?

Posted on 5/23/24 at 10:44 am to
Posted by Gaggle
Member since Oct 2021
7278 posts
Posted on 5/23/24 at 10:44 am to
This is fricking bullshite because men are actually telling the truth not lying their asses off to try to make some political point
Posted by Lsupimp
Ersatz Amerika-97.6% phony & fake
Member since Nov 2003
84096 posts
Posted on 5/23/24 at 10:45 am to
She won’t weaponize them now. she has to wait until way down the road when you least expect it for maximum effect . It’s in the Lady Handbook. Page 431.
Posted by RonFNSwanson
1739 mi from the University of LSU
Member since Mar 2012
23798 posts
Posted on 5/23/24 at 10:47 am to
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It’s a newer social media trend, so if you want to check it out, search it up there.


No thanks
Posted by LSUGrrrl
Frisco, TX
Member since Jul 2007
41129 posts
Posted on 5/23/24 at 10:48 am to
I just c&p for my 17 year old son. The best advice I got before I got married was to actively listen to my husband without judgement and only offer comment when asked or when he was done.

My dad taught me to say, “I know you can do this but is there any way I can help?” If he says no, then just kiss him and move on.

ETA: Men teach your daughters to say this.
This post was edited on 5/23/24 at 10:58 am
Posted by CunningLinguist
Dallas, TX
Member since Mar 2006
19068 posts
Posted on 5/23/24 at 10:50 am to
Y’all picked your wives poorly if you cannot have an empathetic conversation with your wife.
Posted by Trauma14
Member since Aug 2010
6303 posts
Posted on 5/23/24 at 11:19 am to
quote:

American women mistaken "supportive" for "subserviant"


Shortest and most accurate description of the current state of affairs. This vey statement can describe why there was so much backlash of Harrison Butker's comments.
Posted by Trauma14
Member since Aug 2010
6303 posts
Posted on 5/23/24 at 11:23 am to
quote:

I just c&p for my 17 year old son. The best advice I got before I got married was to actively listen to my husband without judgement and only offer comment when asked or when he was done.

My dad taught me to say, “I know you can do this but is there any way I can help?” If he says no, then just kiss him and move on.

ETA: Men teach your daughters to say this.


The most important thing a man wants in a relationship is respect. If a wife can effectively show respect to her husband, he will bend over backwards and forwards for her and love her for eternity.
Posted by High C
viewing the fall....
Member since Nov 2012
57392 posts
Posted on 5/23/24 at 11:29 am to
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I thought the whole "I just want you to listen" angle was female.


It is. The problem is that for many women that is a one way street. They “just want you to listen” to them and what they have to say, but they have trouble doing the same and being the listener. As a few have said, many women will listen only to spin what you say to make it about them.
Posted by Lsupimp
Ersatz Amerika-97.6% phony & fake
Member since Nov 2003
84096 posts
Posted on 5/23/24 at 11:31 am to
Men with chill wives smile a lot. Respect and a peaceful home are the two most nonnegotiable things. If the home isn't peaceful, it's disrespectful by definition. That's why the most emotionally intelligent women stop chirping about their negative emotions and just sit with him on the porch. Men want women to bring it down. Women know this, they just don't execute because of the aforementioned negative emotions.



Posted by LSUtoBOOT
Member since Aug 2012
16465 posts
Posted on 5/23/24 at 11:38 am to
Three trees can keep a secret as long as two are in the wood chipper.
Posted by molsusports
Member since Jul 2004
36664 posts
Posted on 5/23/24 at 12:05 pm to
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Respect and a peaceful home are the two most nonnegotiable things.



I really wish I understood that when I was in my early 20s. For too long I considered it part of a relationship for a woman to occasionally lose her shite about something trivial.

I didn't understand the concept of women (subconsciously) testing men for their boundaries and emotional stability. Sure would have saved me some time and nonsense if I had known better.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
130097 posts
Posted on 5/23/24 at 12:12 pm to
Never been cheated on by a tree.

Plus I could climb the tree and That's awesome. Maybe make a fort if the branches fall. Or a tree house.
Trees are awesome and don't judge you or nag you or try to emasculate you
Posted by StringedInstruments
Member since Oct 2013
19786 posts
Posted on 5/23/24 at 12:13 pm to
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Plus I could climb the tree and That's awesome. Maybe make a fort if the branches fall. Or a tree house. Trees are awesome and don't judge you or nag you or try to emasculate you


Posted by Lsupimp
Ersatz Amerika-97.6% phony & fake
Member since Nov 2003
84096 posts
Posted on 5/23/24 at 12:34 pm to
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I really wish I understood that when I was in my early 20s. For too long I considered it part of a relationship for a woman to occasionally lose her shite about something trivial.I didn't understand the concept of women (subconsciously) testing men for their boundaries and emotional stability. Sure would have saved me some time and nonsense if I had known better.




Amen, brother. It's a painful thing to walk away from a woman you love because she values her journey into her emotional world more than she values your peace. But it's out of your control as a man. You have to guard your peace first.
Posted by AllDayEveryDay
Nawf Tejas
Member since Jun 2015
8481 posts
Posted on 5/23/24 at 1:01 pm to
I chose option 3. Bury my emotions until they manifest into a disorder down the road. Like dad and grand dad did!

Kidding. But you have to factor in the general vileness of the internet as selection bias. This is like throwing a grenade in the gorilla pit. I'm not really sure what that means but it fits.
Posted by G Love
Denver, CO.
Member since Jan 2011
605 posts
Posted on 5/23/24 at 10:37 pm to
Tried this tonight. Tree would have been better.
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