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re: Would you pursue a committed relationship with a girl who is 30 & still loves night clubs?

Posted on 12/15/18 at 4:42 pm to
Posted by tiggerthetooth
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Posted on 12/15/18 at 4:42 pm to
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Women should be in the kitchen barefoot and pregnant at that age. Tending to family. Not living large in the night clubs every night.




Nothing wrong with being childless, being a frequent flyer at a night club is a flag for thottery. Shes not paying for those nights out in dollars....
Posted by Funky Tide 8
Tittleman's Crest
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Posted on 12/15/18 at 4:42 pm to
Do you enjoy going to new Orleans night clubs? If you dont then the answer is pretty obvious.
Posted by rintintin
Life is Life
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Posted on 12/15/18 at 4:44 pm to
It really depends.

Are you talking about a girl with a good job who has her shite together but likes to go out and have fun on the weekends?

Or are you talking about a girl who works part time and blows half of her income on partying and drugs and knows everyone at every club?

If the latter then run, but I'm guessing you're being more judgmental and it's more like the former and you're just a boring person. She'll probably leave you anyway so you have nothing to worry about.

Posted by BluegrassBelle
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Posted on 12/15/18 at 4:45 pm to
shite, props to that girl if she can rally after going HAM at the club at 30 by Monday.
Posted by Ingeniero
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2013
18290 posts
Posted on 12/15/18 at 4:52 pm to
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I am 37, not married, no kids, because I knew that wasn’t for me

Pics?
Posted by rsbd
banks of the Mississippi
Member since Jan 2007
22171 posts
Posted on 12/15/18 at 4:52 pm to
Who the frick still says nightclubs??
Posted by LaBR4
Baton Rouge
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Posted on 12/15/18 at 4:53 pm to
Her pics didn't load. What imagine hosting site did you use? Try again
Posted by SG_Geaux
Beautiful St George
Member since Aug 2004
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Posted on 12/15/18 at 5:43 pm to
There are a Lot of people that never grow out of that.

Was never my cup of tea.
Posted by shel311
McKinney, Texas
Member since Aug 2004
110896 posts
Posted on 12/15/18 at 5:51 pm to
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What’s the opinion of the OT? If a woman is almost 30 years old and still loves getting hammered at New Orleans night clubs in the French Quarter, is this a red flag? I’m talking about whether or not the girl would be long-term material and would be worth pursuing a committed relationship with.

Of course that's a red flag for a long term relationship, not really up for a debate.
Posted by Mingo Was His NameO
Brooklyn
Member since Mar 2016
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Posted on 12/15/18 at 6:17 pm to
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Of course that's a red flag for a long term relationship, not really up for a debate.


I'm not that much younger than that, and myself and all of my friends (including the females, many of which have or near 6 figure incomes and professional degrees) still go to bars all the time. We don't really go "clubbing," but we hang out at bars even during the week.
This post was edited on 12/15/18 at 6:25 pm
Posted by BluegrassBelle
RIP Hefty Lefty - 1981-2019
Member since Nov 2010
99073 posts
Posted on 12/15/18 at 6:23 pm to
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Of course that's a red flag for a long term relationship, not really up for a debate.


I mean there’s plenty of variables where it is debatable. What type of club are we talking about? Does she have kids? Does she have her shite together outside of the club and is just enjoying the single life while she can?
Posted by LSUintheNW
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Member since Aug 2009
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Posted on 12/15/18 at 6:25 pm to
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Would you pursue a committed relationship with a girl who is 30 & still loves night clubs?


Just imagine how many miles of dicks she's had....
Posted by northshorebamaman
Cochise County AZ
Member since Jul 2009
35500 posts
Posted on 12/15/18 at 6:26 pm to
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I'm not that much younger than that, and myself and all of my friends (including the females, many of which have or near 6 figure incomes and professional degrees) still go to bars all the time. We don't really go "clubbing," but we hang out at bars even during the week.

Bars are awesome but I can't do clubs anymore.
Posted by JuiceTerry
Roond the Scheme
Member since Apr 2013
40868 posts
Posted on 12/15/18 at 6:28 pm to
FQ nightclubs?

We talking about One Eyed Jacks or Tropical Isle, brah?

Cause that matters
Posted by liz18lsu
Naples, FL
Member since Feb 2009
17303 posts
Posted on 12/15/18 at 6:28 pm to
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Pics


NSFW
This post was edited on 12/15/18 at 6:28 pm
Posted by RazorBroncs
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Member since Sep 2013
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Posted on 12/15/18 at 6:38 pm to
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run ! and don't look back !


THIS, SO MUCH THIS

That type of female is only after one thing - attention. She may seem like she's fine with settling down with one man and may even be committed to the relationship at first, but as soon as it gets "boring" in her eyes she'll be off with the next man that gives her the slightest bit of attention.

My brother married the woman in your scenario and she was nothing but drama, although their relationship seemed alright from the outside. At first the nights going out drinking and partying were awesome because they could do it together and have fun, but then over the years he became settled down and family oriented while she couldn't handle that. It got to the point where she was going out on weeknights with anyone she could find - girls that had just turned 21 and were a decade younger, a lady she met at the gym hours before, by herself even.

Their relationship still seemed ok on the outside, until one random day she up and left with some beefy dude she had met at the gym a month prior. My brother is a good looking guy that makes good money working with disabled kids, so it's not like she left for a better guy. She just craved the attention new guy gave her and wanted that party lifestyle into her mid-30s.

It should also be noted that she despised kids their whole relationship and wouldn't ever have one with him, only to wind up with the new guy who already had one from a previous relationship and got knocked up by him shortly after.

TL;DR - that type of woman is most likely a narcissistic attention whore sociopath

ETA - my brother was 34 and her 32 when they divorced and had been married for 4 years. Its not like they were too old to go out every now and then (which they did), she just made it an every other night kind of thing and it killed their marriage
This post was edited on 12/15/18 at 6:58 pm
Posted by liz18lsu
Naples, FL
Member since Feb 2009
17303 posts
Posted on 12/15/18 at 6:41 pm to
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narcissistic attention whore sociopath


But, is she hot?
Posted by Mingo Was His NameO
Brooklyn
Member since Mar 2016
25455 posts
Posted on 12/15/18 at 6:47 pm to
quote:

That type of female is only after one thing - attention. She may seem like she's fine with settling down with one man and may even be committed to the relationship at first, but as soon as it gets "boring" in her eyes she'll be off with the next man that gives her the slightest bit of attention.

My brother married the woman in your scenario and she was nothing but drama, although their relationship seemed alright from the outside. At first the nights going out drinking and partying were awesome because they could do it together and have fun, but then over the years he became settled down and family oriented while she couldn't handle that. It got to the point where she was going out on weeknights with anyone she could find - girls that had just turned 21 and were a decade younger, a lady she met at the gym hours before, by herself even.

Their relationship still seemed ok on the outside, until one random day she up and left with some beefy dude she had met at the gym a month prior. My brother is a good looking guy that makes good money working with disabled kids, so it's not like she left for a better guy. She just craved the attention new guy gave her and wanted that party lifestyle into her mid-30s.

It should also be noted that she despised kids their whole relationship and wouldn't ever have one with him, only to wind up with the new guy who already had one from a previous relationship and got knocked up by him shortly after.

TL;DR - that type of woman is most likely a narcissistic attention whore sociopath



How you can't see the difference between this and like to go out and have fun on the weekends tells me you're an idiot. 29 isn't old, it's not like she's some 45 year old broad that's never been married.
Posted by OMLandshark
Member since Apr 2009
108567 posts
Posted on 12/15/18 at 6:48 pm to
No. 35, maybe, but not 28 or 29 like you’re implying.
Posted by el Gaucho
He/They
Member since Dec 2010
53019 posts
Posted on 12/15/18 at 6:49 pm to
I think you should


More 22 year olds for me

Trump should restart the draft since I’m too old for it
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