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Would you marry a girl that was always on Snapchat?

Posted on 12/23/19 at 7:36 pm
Posted by BurningHeart
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Posted on 12/23/19 at 7:36 pm
Like recording every little thing going on in her life, sharing her location info, getting friend requests from random pervs who can see the girl's location and DM them over the selfies...

Seems like that's just asking for trouble.
Posted by Chad504boy
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Posted on 12/23/19 at 7:36 pm to
Can she cook?
Posted by HempHead
Big Sky Country
Member since Mar 2011
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Posted on 12/23/19 at 7:37 pm to
Avoid any woman who spends too much time on any form of social media, or hell, just can't step away from their phone. That limits your under-30 trim to a select few, sure, but you'll avoid a lot of headache.
Posted by tiggerthetooth
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Posted on 12/23/19 at 7:37 pm to
Nope. Not a chance. I couldn't tolerate a heavy social media user very well.
Posted by SuperSaint
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Member since Sep 2007
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Posted on 12/23/19 at 7:38 pm to
How’s her a-hole look?
This post was edited on 12/23/19 at 7:39 pm
Posted by LegendInMyMind
Member since Apr 2019
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Posted on 12/23/19 at 7:39 pm to
quote:

Avoid any woman who spends too much time on any form of social media, or hell, just can't step away from their phone. That limits your under-30 trim to a select few, sure, but you'll avoid a lot of headache.

Not a bad life rule at all. They are seeking a form of validation that you will never be able to provide.
Posted by millerf43
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Member since Oct 2019
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Posted on 12/23/19 at 7:41 pm to
Have you interacted with a girl on Snapchat? If so, don't be an idiot. No, I wouldn't marry a girl always on Snapchat.
Posted by BigPerm30
Member since Aug 2011
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Posted on 12/23/19 at 7:42 pm to
I can’t give you advice because you didn’t include a fricking pic.
Posted by HempHead
Big Sky Country
Member since Mar 2011
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Posted on 12/23/19 at 7:42 pm to
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They are seeking a form of validation that you will never be able to provide.


Sometimes, it isn't about validation. Some are addicted to looking at others without ever sharing too much on their own. They aren't nearly as narcissistic as those who crave validation, but the envy and/or vicariousness of their addiction can be just as poisonous.
Posted by LegendInMyMind
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Posted on 12/23/19 at 7:44 pm to
Good point.
Posted by BurningHeart
Member since Jan 2017
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Posted on 12/23/19 at 7:46 pm to
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Have you interacted with a girl on Snapchat? If so, don't be an idiot.


Yes I have. Not sure what this is supposed to mean?
Posted by Brosef Stalin
Member since Dec 2011
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Posted on 12/23/19 at 7:46 pm to
Some of those girls can make good money with their premium snapchat accounts.
Posted by Caplewood
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Posted on 12/23/19 at 7:46 pm to
NO E-GIRLS, NOT EVEN ONCE
Posted by LegendInMyMind
Member since Apr 2019
76113 posts
Posted on 12/23/19 at 7:47 pm to
quote:


Have you interacted with a girl on Snapchat? If so, don't be an idiot. No, I wouldn't marry a girl always on Snapchat.

I was talking more about social media in general.
Posted by HempHead
Big Sky Country
Member since Mar 2011
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Posted on 12/23/19 at 7:47 pm to
While men are social creatures and want recognition, they do not compare at all to the kind of social-status seeking impulses that women have. The men who are comparable are effeminate and useless, in any case.

The mechanisms that social media allows for validation and affirmation would, in any other time than the present, been provided by local structures that reinforce social norms that, hopefully, are conducive to good behavior. Now, of course, with anyone able to achieve celebrity, it becomes a display of vanity and curated experiences meant to "one-up" everyone else. This phenomenon creates the twin vices of self-absorption and envy that are, in my opinion, quite harmful to the human psyche.
Posted by NIH
Member since Aug 2008
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Posted on 12/23/19 at 7:48 pm to
I really don’t understand the people who can’t enjoy one experience without putting it on snapchat.
Posted by Hogbit
Benton, AR
Member since Aug 2019
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Posted on 12/23/19 at 7:48 pm to
Run
Posted by 225Tyga
Member since Oct 2013
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Posted on 12/23/19 at 7:48 pm to
quote:

Would you marry a girl that was always on Snapchat?


Depends on her body, voice and if she gets along with my family
Posted by HempHead
Big Sky Country
Member since Mar 2011
56772 posts
Posted on 12/23/19 at 8:00 pm to
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I really don’t understand the people who can’t enjoy one experience without putting it on snapchat.



Because, for whatever reason, letting other people know that you've experienced something is more important than the experience itself. Instead of telling your buddies afterwards what you got to do (which I do all the time, and is normal, I think), you get this weird projection that almost forces someone to relive the experience through your perspective.
Posted by LegendInMyMind
Member since Apr 2019
76113 posts
Posted on 12/23/19 at 8:00 pm to
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This phenomenon creates the twin vices of self-absorption

If it were only self-absorption, it wouldn't be so bad. People now are absorbed with everyone else. "Keeping up with the Joneses" has never been more true than now. It is far easier for others to portray a certain image, however legitimate it may be, of themselves that impacts how others live their lives. It is why advertisers flock to social media platforms. They know that a majority of people are going to be influenced by who/what they see. The envy you mentioned drives consumerism in a time when it is far too easy to see all that you do not have.
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