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re: Would you be okay with your wife dancing with another guy?

Posted on 4/13/17 at 9:39 am to
Posted by SidewalkDawg
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Posted on 4/13/17 at 9:39 am to
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I tried the beta goo goo emotional shite take her out to dinner and tell her how awesome she is in the past and it didn't work. Going that route was 100% rejection rate.


You went from one extreme to the other. You need to learn a little about the middle.
Posted by Darth_Vader
A galaxy far, far away
Member since Dec 2011
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Posted on 4/13/17 at 9:42 am to
I'm not trying to insult you or anything. But I honestly feel bad for you. It sounds like your life consists of an unending quest for intimacy with women but all you find is empty, meaningless sex. Really, from what you're saying, it sounds like you live an incredabily lonely existence.

And you may not even realize it yet. You may think you're living the good life. And that more than anything is the saddest part of it all. That you think you're have this great life but really you're wasting your life. And unless you change your outlook and way of thinking, the day is coming when you'll be at the end of your life, still alone, and only then will you realize you wasted your whole life. That's the true meaning of misery. I hope for your sake you realize this before it's too late.
Posted by Mo Jeaux
Member since Aug 2008
59260 posts
Posted on 4/13/17 at 9:44 am to
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I'm so happy that I don't live your misrible life.


What makes you think his life is so "misrible"?
Posted by shotcaller1
Member since Oct 2014
7501 posts
Posted on 4/13/17 at 9:44 am to
Been a 1 girl guy my whole life. Resulted in 3 multi year relationships through and after college with some gaps between. 2 had serious marriage considerations, 1 i am now marrying. These girls had similarly long, stable relationships before as well.

Some of my friends do the virginnugget thing. Not my style tbh. Your "strategy" should be a reflection of an honest you imo. Otherwise, a girl with adequate self worth will pick up on your dishonesty and run
Posted by SidewalkDawg
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Member since Nov 2012
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Posted on 4/13/17 at 9:46 am to
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What makes you think his life is so "misrible"?


He's probably not miserable now. Nailing women in your 20's is fun. There are major diminishing returns in that department as you age, considering sex becomes less and less important.
Posted by TigernMS12
Member since Jan 2013
5539 posts
Posted on 4/13/17 at 9:56 am to
Exactly. If he continues this amature mentality though, he'll never find a real woman to have anything meaningful with.
This post was edited on 4/13/17 at 10:00 am
Posted by goldennugget
Hating Masks
Member since Jul 2013
24514 posts
Posted on 4/13/17 at 9:59 am to
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What makes you think his life is so "misrible"?



Because I don't follow the programmed blue pill life path of courting a woman and getting locked by the time I am 25, I must be miserable.

I bet there are many men, many in this thread and on this board, who would gladly trade their life with mine.

I am 29, in good shape, healthy, no debt outside of student loans, accountable to no one, live in a nice apartment, make $90k in a director level role at a TV station in a Top 50 market with a low cost of living. I can basically do what I want, when I want. No having to check in with a wife or girlfriend any time I want to do anything. No needing to get a woman's approval to make a decision. frick me right?

No, instead I should find a girl, any girl, commit to her, invest heavily in her, buy her shite, be her emotional tampon, pay for all her shite, do everything for her, and then marry her, otherwise I will be miserable according to you guys.

I'll find a girl to commit to one day when I am ready to put my roots down. I'm not ready now. Still have goals I want to achieve. For now I am perfectly satisfied spinning plates and gaming various types of women while I work on my own personal mission.
Posted by SidewalkDawg
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Member since Nov 2012
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Posted on 4/13/17 at 10:02 am to
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frick me right?


Nope, if you enjoy it, good for you. Don't project onto others though. Different strokes for different folks.

I just hope you can stay happy in that life and that the clock on finding a suitable connection with someone doesn't expire before it's too late.

There are definitely people out there that can live perfectly fine without shackling themselves to someone else, maybe you're one of them.
Posted by SidewalkDawg
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Member since Nov 2012
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Posted on 4/13/17 at 10:05 am to
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No, instead I should find a girl, any girl, commit to her, invest heavily in her, buy her shite, be her emotional tampon, pay for all her shite, do everything for her, and then marry her, otherwise I will be miserable according to you guys.


Again with the extremes.

Why can't you just find someone who you want to make happy and who wants to make you happy? There are women out there who will do as much for you as you do for them.

Your idea of women is warped towards the shallow end of feminine traits.
Posted by Darth_Vader
A galaxy far, far away
Member since Dec 2011
64966 posts
Posted on 4/13/17 at 10:10 am to
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There are definitely people out there that can live perfectly fine without shackling themselves to someone else, maybe you're one of them.


Maybe so. I will say this though. The wife of a good friend of mine is a nurse at a nursing home. One night while sitting around the fire we all got on this very subject. She said of all the lifelong bachelors she's seen come in, the one thing they all have in common is they are lonely and regret never getting married and having a family.

I'm sure when they were younger they were having a great time. Only when it was too late did they realize they'd wasted the life they've been given.

I'm not saying this is true of literally everyone. That's justcehatcone lady who sees a lot of people at the end of their life has told me. Take from it what you will.
Posted by SidewalkDawg
Chair
Member since Nov 2012
9830 posts
Posted on 4/13/17 at 10:12 am to
The end of life is almost always filled with regrets and we all die alone. It's a sad reality.
Posted by 19
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Member since Nov 2007
33270 posts
Posted on 4/13/17 at 10:15 am to
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apply the strategy that YOU think would work best with women - you will still have a high rejection rate. That's life.


No, it's not.

That's the life of a beta masquerading as an alpha, with the same weak, worn-out game he thinks he invented.

Until you've been married, in a REAL marriage lasting more than 2 yrs, with children...you would be better served in facing the fact that you really don't know Jack shite about women. Bar sluts and young insecure school girls aren't women.

You're like a dime-store Cassanova.
Posted by Mo Jeaux
Member since Aug 2008
59260 posts
Posted on 4/13/17 at 10:18 am to
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No, it's not.

That's the life of a beta masquerading as an alpha, with the same weak, worn-out game he thinks he invented.

Until you've been married, in a REAL marriage lasting more than 2 yrs, with children...you would be better served in facing the fact that you really don't know Jack shite about women. Bar sluts and young insecure school girls aren't women.

You're like a dime-store Cassanova.


Oh Jesus.
Posted by UMRealist
Member since Feb 2013
35360 posts
Posted on 4/13/17 at 10:23 am to
Honestly yeah.
Posted by MontyFranklyn
T-Town
Member since Jan 2012
23835 posts
Posted on 4/13/17 at 10:24 am to
Late to this thread, but when I saw it I just knew it was filled with Nugget goodies
Posted by LSUfanNkaty
LC, Louisiana
Member since Jan 2015
11144 posts
Posted on 4/13/17 at 10:35 am to
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Let's say she went out for a girls weekend to Miami

That bitch ain't going on no damn girls weekend
Posted by FelicianaTigerfan
Comanche County
Member since Aug 2009
26059 posts
Posted on 4/13/17 at 10:41 am to
If she'll admit to dancing im sure you could get her to admit that maybe a few guys came back to their room to hang out
Posted by Blue Velvet
Apple butter toast is nice
Member since Nov 2009
20112 posts
Posted on 4/13/17 at 10:44 am to
Wow. All of these "alphas" sure are insecure.
Posted by toddzilla
Gulf of Mexico
Member since Nov 2012
1587 posts
Posted on 4/13/17 at 11:00 am to
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..once that toups comes on I can't be contained


This post was edited on 4/13/17 at 11:01 am
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