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re: Women Can't Find "Economically Attractive" Men

Posted on 9/13/19 at 10:59 am to
Posted by SlowFlowPro
With populists, expect populism
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Posted on 9/13/19 at 10:59 am to
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The solution is for black women to date out but most don't want to hear that.

there are other barriers other than ethnic/racial pressure not to. many, many moons ago I made a thread bout OKC data and race and black women are seen as the least desirable of all sex/race combos (even by black men)

Posted by LSU fan 246
Member since Oct 2005
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Posted on 9/13/19 at 10:59 am to
It seems to be more common now with younger black girls being more open to white guys.

According to the graphs in here, besides skin color, the edicated black woman has more in common with white guys as probably ever before
Posted by TxTiger82
Member since Sep 2004
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Posted on 9/13/19 at 10:59 am to
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that's why the numbers game is just bad all around, like i said earlier. if 20% of women are going for 1% of men, there will be lots of sex and few marriages. but 99% of men are now competing over 80% of women, with similar conal distribution of attention-contact

people are being excluded


Oh wow, you have bought into this bullshite, too. Look man, there's more to mating and marriage than economics. That's where this line of thinking falls short (with a giant thud).

Have fun explaining to me why I'm wrong. Meanwhile, you still won't get it.
Posted by SlowFlowPro
With populists, expect populism
Member since Jan 2004
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Posted on 9/13/19 at 11:02 am to
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Look man, there's more to mating and marriage than economics.

not really

especially when there is such a large sex difference in major social symbols (for this discussion, college degree)

if the population of college graduates is 60/40 and a college degree is a major social requirement for marriage consideration of that population, there are going to be a LOT of people who simply don't have partner options. like all the males in China who will never marry because there simply aren't enough women to do so.
Posted by Saint Alfonzo
Member since Jan 2019
30970 posts
Posted on 9/13/19 at 11:07 am to
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there are other barriers other than ethnic/racial pressure not to. many, many moons ago I made a thread bout OKC data and race and black women are seen as the least desirable of all sex/race combos (even by black men)


Hard to know what factors play into that OKC data on desirability. Could be any number of things.
Posted by Saint Alfonzo
Member since Jan 2019
30970 posts
Posted on 9/13/19 at 11:13 am to
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It seems to be more common now with younger black girls being more open to white guys. According to the graphs in here, besides skin color, the edicated black woman has more in common with white guys as probably ever before


Black women are getting less inclined to wait for a black man, deal with frickboys and/or street dudes and have started to expand their options.
This post was edited on 9/13/19 at 11:14 am
Posted by tokenBoiler
Lafayette, Indiana
Member since Aug 2012
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Posted on 9/13/19 at 11:14 am to
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Quite literally had a guy message me with “Well, the reason I’m unemployed is because I caught a DUI charge on the job.” and completely lost his shite when I politely said I appreciated his message but I wasn’t interested. So apparently we’re now demonized for wanting stability?


I haven't gotten past this post in catching up to the thread yet, but I'd bet $1.00 that someone between here and the end mansplains to you about how all women want jerks and that's why nice guys like them are lonely.

But no incels here of course :eyeroll:
Posted by LSU fan 246
Member since Oct 2005
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Posted on 9/13/19 at 11:17 am to
Good for them.

I assume you're black iirc. Do you think having the family accept a white guy in the home is a big hurdle for the woman? Or the biggest hurdle?
Posted by tokenBoiler
Lafayette, Indiana
Member since Aug 2012
5089 posts
Posted on 9/13/19 at 11:18 am to
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Who wants to talk to someone that sucks and can't hold a conversation?




OT ballers do.
Posted by Saint Alfonzo
Member since Jan 2019
30970 posts
Posted on 9/13/19 at 11:26 am to
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I assume you're black iirc. Do you think having the family accept a white guy in the home is a big hurdle for the woman? Or the biggest hurdle?


I'm a white guy. My wife's family seems to like me just fine. Results will vary.
This post was edited on 9/13/19 at 12:21 pm
Posted by Seldom Seen
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Posted on 9/13/19 at 11:28 am to
Posted by xxTIMMYxx
Member since Aug 2019
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Posted on 9/13/19 at 11:54 am to
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Those guys don't stay around until 30


Smart ones do
Posted by Dire Wolf
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Member since Sep 2008
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Posted on 9/13/19 at 12:03 pm to
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that's why the numbers game is just bad all around, like i said earlier. if 20% of women are going for 1% of men, there will be lots of sex and few marriages. but 99% of men are now competing over 80% of women, with similar conal distribution of attention-contact


Water finds its level.

I’ve been a casual observer from the sidelines of the dating game for some time now. I’ve found that marriage and dating is kinda like baseball. You have your minor leagues and the big league.

Some people are triple a, aa or single a. The 5 tool rich and sexy are in the majors. You can get in better shape or get a better job to jump a league but for the most part you are going to be picking from a pool on your level.

The problem is men tend to realize their lot in life a lot sooner than women.

Posted by Captain Crackysack
Member since Oct 2017
2231 posts
Posted on 9/13/19 at 12:14 pm to
Boom. Bitches love money. This idea dates back to the big bang. So get you some money, bang some hot women, and then kick them to the curb when it's time for an upgrade
Posted by SlowFlowPro
With populists, expect populism
Member since Jan 2004
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Posted on 9/13/19 at 12:23 pm to
well in a much longer post i go into why specifically with marriage, women just don't have options

women are less likely to "marry down"

women are a much larger share of college graduates

women participate in hookup culture in college that decreases the value of sex and marriage and trains them to compete over small #s of men

and

the college-educated are the primary demographic that's still getting married

people are jumping from sex to marriage to dating in this thread but it's about marriage. women are in trouble in terms of finding mates
Posted by ZappBrannigan
Member since Jun 2015
7692 posts
Posted on 9/13/19 at 12:57 pm to
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women participate in hookup culture in college


Us guys did too. And it's not like it's a new thing, our dads and granddads were popping off in whatever cooch let em in their time.

God bless the GI Bills.
Posted by georgia
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Member since Jan 2007
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Posted on 9/13/19 at 1:15 pm to
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hat's a lot of time and effort you coulda put into making your man a sammich, rather than posting all that cathartic shite.


Because it’s easier to say this than to actually admit that not all women can be pegged into one type.
Whatever helps you sleep at night, but you’re still part of the problem.
Posted by Sweltering Chill
Member since Aug 2017
2150 posts
Posted on 9/13/19 at 1:42 pm to
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people are jumping from sex to marriage to dating in this thread but it's about marriage




Why? Why is it all about marriage?

Look, i’m a married guy.. but there are plenty of days when i think that maybe marriage isn’t really for everyone......... Maybe the idea that marriage is the end all/ be all is becoming more antiquated.. now i realize that that will go over like a lead balloon here on a message board where the majority of members live primarily in the South, but just maybe consider that.
Posted by Aubie Spr96
lolwut?
Member since Dec 2009
44826 posts
Posted on 9/13/19 at 1:57 pm to
Retail business. It's been a great business for us and my wife is a great marketer. Perfect fit for her.
Posted by sacrathetic
Member since May 2019
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Posted on 9/13/19 at 2:01 pm to
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This post was edited on 5/21/20 at 2:01 pm
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