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re: Wives, Holidays, and BJ's

Posted on 12/23/15 at 7:54 pm to
Posted by tke_swamprat
Houma, LA
Member since Aug 2004
11220 posts
Posted on 12/23/15 at 7:54 pm to
Tilden me too......wife also a redhead!
Posted by Jake88
Member since Apr 2005
80839 posts
Posted on 12/23/15 at 8:19 pm to
After kids, sex drops to about once every 2-4 weeks, or worse for many. The BJ's still happen but they lack the enthusiasm of the pre-marriage gobbling that they reel you in with.
This post was edited on 12/23/15 at 8:20 pm
Posted by Jake88
Member since Apr 2005
80839 posts
Posted on 12/23/15 at 8:25 pm to
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So are downvotes indicating that it's weird or am I doing receiving BJs wrong?


Bj's are rarely as good as vaginal sex, but some come close. You've probably not found the right girl. For me, it was rare to find a girl who was really good at it. But, I did notice that if a girl brags about her skills, they more than likely are very good at it.
Posted by LanierSpots
Gulf of America / Sarasota FL
Member since Sep 2010
71850 posts
Posted on 12/23/15 at 8:25 pm to
I would have never stayed married as long as I have with only one per year. If true, that is pretty fricked up

Its not normal

Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
99043 posts
Posted on 12/23/15 at 8:25 pm to
quote:

After kids, sex drops to about once every 2-4 weeks, or worse for many.


I don't claim to get it every night but I do way better than this

With 2 kids
Posted by Paul Allen
Montauk, NY
Member since Nov 2007
78697 posts
Posted on 12/23/15 at 8:27 pm to
Once a month is good enough for a married couple that both work and have a demanding lifestyle.
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
138856 posts
Posted on 12/23/15 at 8:32 pm to
quote:

Once a month is good enough for a married couple that both work and have a demanding lifestyle


Do what?????
Posted by Hangit
The Green Swamp
Member since Aug 2014
47746 posts
Posted on 12/23/15 at 8:33 pm to
Married 21+ years. Less gusto.
Posted by LanierSpots
Gulf of America / Sarasota FL
Member since Sep 2010
71850 posts
Posted on 12/23/15 at 8:34 pm to
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Once a month is good enough for a married couple that both work and have a demanding lifestyle.



Yea, not really



Moar


Posted by jmcs68
Member since Sep 2012
40401 posts
Posted on 12/23/15 at 8:40 pm to
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After kids, sex drops to about once every 2-4 weeks, or worse for many.


Yes this does happen and when it does its seriously contributes to the breaking down of your marriage. Kids and work take you away from one another and when they're grown and more independent and the work slacks off you don't know who you are anymore much less your spouse. You grow apart.
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
138856 posts
Posted on 12/23/15 at 8:42 pm to
I think that is why oilfield marriages work out so well

Being out on location makes the heart grow fonder
This post was edited on 12/23/15 at 8:47 pm
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
99043 posts
Posted on 12/23/15 at 8:46 pm to
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Once a month is good enough for a married couple that both work and have a demanding lifestyle.



Not for me
Posted by Paul Allen
Montauk, NY
Member since Nov 2007
78697 posts
Posted on 12/23/15 at 8:46 pm to
Well, good for you.
Posted by cgrand
HAMMOND
Member since Oct 2009
50851 posts
Posted on 12/23/15 at 8:50 pm to
intimacy is not just about sex but it's a huge part of it
you cannot be connected in a way that allows the ups and downs of monogamy to be overcome without regular enthusiastic physical contact. couples who do not regularly prioritize getting nekkid and howling are not going to make either party truly happy
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
138856 posts
Posted on 12/23/15 at 8:50 pm to
shite like this thread is why I am probably never getting married
Posted by LNCHBOX
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Member since Jun 2009
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Posted on 12/23/15 at 8:54 pm to
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Once a month is good enough for a married couple that both work and have a demanding lifestyle.


This is just stupid. My wife is in nursing school and works full time and we still have sex at least 3 times a week. Once a month? We'd both go insane.
Posted by LanierSpots
Gulf of America / Sarasota FL
Member since Sep 2010
71850 posts
Posted on 12/23/15 at 8:55 pm to
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shite like this thread is why I am probably never getting married



Pay no attention to this BS. Ive been married for 28 years and its very uncommon for people to get a bj per year.

3-4 times per month is probably average. Time should not change things if you are still interested in each other


Posted by Jake88
Member since Apr 2005
80839 posts
Posted on 12/23/15 at 9:00 pm to
quote:

Yes this does happen and when it does its seriously contributes to the breaking down of your marriage. Kids and work take you away from one another and when they're grown and more independent and the work slacks off you don't know who you are anymore much less your spouse. You grow apart.


I will say, when we go on vacation alone, her spark comes back and it's more like when we were dating 13 years ago. I look forward somewhat to when the kids are grown. I love having little ones around but, like retirement, it's something to look forward to.
Posted by Jake88
Member since Apr 2005
80839 posts
Posted on 12/23/15 at 9:01 pm to
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3-4 times per month is probably average.


That's good for you, but not typical. Count yourself lucky.
Posted by Paul Allen
Montauk, NY
Member since Nov 2007
78697 posts
Posted on 12/23/15 at 9:04 pm to
You're more than likely under 35 and have been married less than 5 years.
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