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Posted on 12/23/15 at 8:19 pm to HogBalls
After kids, sex drops to about once every 2-4 weeks, or worse for many. The BJ's still happen but they lack the enthusiasm of the pre-marriage gobbling that they reel you in with.
This post was edited on 12/23/15 at 8:20 pm
Posted on 12/23/15 at 8:25 pm to Pectus
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So are downvotes indicating that it's weird or am I doing receiving BJs wrong?
Bj's are rarely as good as vaginal sex, but some come close. You've probably not found the right girl. For me, it was rare to find a girl who was really good at it. But, I did notice that if a girl brags about her skills, they more than likely are very good at it.
Posted on 12/23/15 at 8:25 pm to HogBalls
I would have never stayed married as long as I have with only one per year. If true, that is pretty fricked up
Its not normal
Its not normal
Posted on 12/23/15 at 8:25 pm to Jake88
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After kids, sex drops to about once every 2-4 weeks, or worse for many.
I don't claim to get it every night but I do way better than this
With 2 kids
Posted on 12/23/15 at 8:27 pm to yellowfin
Once a month is good enough for a married couple that both work and have a demanding lifestyle.
Posted on 12/23/15 at 8:32 pm to Paul Allen
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Once a month is good enough for a married couple that both work and have a demanding lifestyle
Do what?????
Posted on 12/23/15 at 8:33 pm to Jake88
Married 21+ years. Less gusto.
Posted on 12/23/15 at 8:34 pm to Paul Allen
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Once a month is good enough for a married couple that both work and have a demanding lifestyle.
Yea, not really
Moar
Posted on 12/23/15 at 8:40 pm to Jake88
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After kids, sex drops to about once every 2-4 weeks, or worse for many.
Yes this does happen and when it does its seriously contributes to the breaking down of your marriage. Kids and work take you away from one another and when they're grown and more independent and the work slacks off you don't know who you are anymore much less your spouse. You grow apart.
Posted on 12/23/15 at 8:42 pm to jmcs68
I think that is why oilfield marriages work out so well
Being out on location makes the heart grow fonder
Being out on location makes the heart grow fonder
This post was edited on 12/23/15 at 8:47 pm
Posted on 12/23/15 at 8:46 pm to Paul Allen
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Once a month is good enough for a married couple that both work and have a demanding lifestyle.
Not for me
Posted on 12/23/15 at 8:50 pm to jmcs68
intimacy is not just about sex but it's a huge part of it
you cannot be connected in a way that allows the ups and downs of monogamy to be overcome without regular enthusiastic physical contact. couples who do not regularly prioritize getting nekkid and howling are not going to make either party truly happy
you cannot be connected in a way that allows the ups and downs of monogamy to be overcome without regular enthusiastic physical contact. couples who do not regularly prioritize getting nekkid and howling are not going to make either party truly happy
Posted on 12/23/15 at 8:50 pm to Paul Allen
shite like this thread is why I am probably never getting married
Posted on 12/23/15 at 8:54 pm to Paul Allen
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Once a month is good enough for a married couple that both work and have a demanding lifestyle.
This is just stupid. My wife is in nursing school and works full time and we still have sex at least 3 times a week. Once a month? We'd both go insane.
Posted on 12/23/15 at 8:55 pm to Rouge
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shite like this thread is why I am probably never getting married
Pay no attention to this BS. Ive been married for 28 years and its very uncommon for people to get a bj per year.
3-4 times per month is probably average. Time should not change things if you are still interested in each other
Posted on 12/23/15 at 9:00 pm to jmcs68
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Yes this does happen and when it does its seriously contributes to the breaking down of your marriage. Kids and work take you away from one another and when they're grown and more independent and the work slacks off you don't know who you are anymore much less your spouse. You grow apart.
I will say, when we go on vacation alone, her spark comes back and it's more like when we were dating 13 years ago. I look forward somewhat to when the kids are grown. I love having little ones around but, like retirement, it's something to look forward to.
Posted on 12/23/15 at 9:01 pm to LanierSpots
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3-4 times per month is probably average.
That's good for you, but not typical. Count yourself lucky.
Posted on 12/23/15 at 9:04 pm to LNCHBOX
You're more than likely under 35 and have been married less than 5 years.
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