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re: Wife's "guy" friend from college

Posted on 4/14/15 at 4:36 pm to
Posted by tigerbutt
Deep South
Member since Jun 2006
26077 posts
Posted on 4/14/15 at 4:36 pm to
frick her right in the pussy
Posted by Shexter
Prairieville
Member since Feb 2014
19103 posts
Posted on 4/14/15 at 4:37 pm to
quote:

Women like to have their brains stimulated


As well as the clitoris.


Nah, they end up fricking the dude in order to keep the conversations going. When they notice the guy losing interest, they give up the sex to keep them around. It's really sad...
Posted by SEClint
New Orleans, LA/Portland, OR
Member since Nov 2006
49475 posts
Posted on 4/14/15 at 4:37 pm to
Bang him before she does.
Posted by weedGOKU666
Member since Jan 2013
3746 posts
Posted on 4/14/15 at 4:38 pm to
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Dude, if your wife doesn't respect you enough to do this behind your back like an adult, then you've got bigger problems. You need to stand up for yourself.


This guy has a good handle on the situation.
Posted by arseinclarse
Member since Apr 2007
35271 posts
Posted on 4/14/15 at 4:38 pm to
quote:

Been in banking for 16 years and think about wakking out daily. No kids and wife has a good job.


Be glad there are no kids. It's easy to walk away.
Posted by lsuwontonwrap
Member since Aug 2012
34147 posts
Posted on 4/14/15 at 4:41 pm to
I'm sure it's been said but this is more than a friendship. And just weird. Why is she looking this guy up after 11 years?
Posted by Croacka
Denham Springs
Member since Dec 2008
61451 posts
Posted on 4/14/15 at 4:41 pm to
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What's messed up is she didn't tell him what the guy said. He had to read it for himself. She's a liar.



He probably said "What that mouth do tho"
Posted by Mr. Wayne
Member since Feb 2008
10082 posts
Posted on 4/14/15 at 4:43 pm to
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So why did she "Reboot" this friendship? Did she know he was a fricktard?


Because she isn't getting something that she wants. Unhappy people try to fill their emptiness with stuff and projects. It could be something that has nothing to do with you. She will probably still blame you for it in order to justify whatever she does. Her calling you insecure is strategic. She is basically calling you pussy and if you don't back down it makes you feel like you are being more of one. The guy is just an easy prey for her to "fix".
Posted by lsuwontonwrap
Member since Aug 2012
34147 posts
Posted on 4/14/15 at 4:44 pm to
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Read on her phone last night that he "loves her" for what she is doing for him.


The fact that she isn't telling you what they are conversing about is a red flag right there...
Posted by Darth_Vader
A galaxy far, far away
Member since Dec 2011
71848 posts
Posted on 4/14/15 at 4:45 pm to
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Read on her phone last night that he "loves her" for what she is doing for him.


The fact that she isn't telling you what they are conversing about is a red flag right there...



There's a lot of truth right there.
Posted by rehtaeh
Member since Oct 2013
4487 posts
Posted on 4/14/15 at 4:45 pm to
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Been married 11 years and the mrs. is approaching 40 and decided to reboot a college friendship with whom she claims she never hooked up. Guy is 41 loser and wife feels she needs to save him. Read on her phone last night that he "loves her" for what she is doing for him. Told her last night I was no longer cool with situation. She says it's innocent, I'm insecure and I should just accept tgat she gappens to have a friend who is a guy. What would you do?


You didn't provide enough facts. How transparent has she been with the friendship? A little bit more about the context of his "love" for her would be in order (and her response would help).

Did you snoop her phone?

You two have problems. She wasn't very supportive of your concerns. If her male friend said he "loves her" in any type of romantic context and she didn't call him out on it, then she's being a bad wife.

Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
32979 posts
Posted on 4/14/15 at 4:46 pm to
you need to treat her the way you are feeling... poorly.

if you try to be the super nice guy to try and make her love you again, you are just rewarding her bad behavior with you acting like a better dude.

tell her flatly that what she is doing is unacceptable and if she keeps doing it, well then you have a serious decision to make.
Posted by GoCrazyAuburn
Member since Feb 2010
39565 posts
Posted on 4/14/15 at 4:46 pm to
Yea, I mean he should already know exactly what she is doing to help him. If she won't go into detail about that, then something is up. If she didn't know she was doing something that wouldn't look right to you, she would have no problem telling you exactly what is going on.
Posted by bayoubengals88
LA
Member since Sep 2007
23479 posts
Posted on 4/14/15 at 4:47 pm to
She's wrong
She knows she's wrong
She'll never admit she's wrong
She's getting something from him that she likes. It could just be lots of attention. They crave it.

I'd be pissed...and I just described 80-90% of all females.
Posted by MiloDanglers
on a dock on a bay
Member since Apr 2012
6558 posts
Posted on 4/14/15 at 4:48 pm to
7 pages with a bunch of blabbering, with no additional input from the OP. What a surprise
Posted by LucasP
Member since Apr 2012
21618 posts
Posted on 4/14/15 at 4:49 pm to
You've gotta admit, it's kind of funny just for being so juvenile and mean-spirited. It's off-topic and it contributes nothing to the discussion. That level of assholery is just funny to me.
Posted by bayoubengals88
LA
Member since Sep 2007
23479 posts
Posted on 4/14/15 at 4:49 pm to
quote:

you need to treat her the way you are feeling... poorly.
And she will turn it ALL on him. It's lose/lose.
Posted by Fun Bunch
New Orleans
Member since May 2008
127758 posts
Posted on 4/14/15 at 4:49 pm to
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7 pages with a bunch of blabbering, with no additional input from the OP. What a surprise


Yeah. Typical bs
Posted by Ash Williams
South of i-10
Member since May 2009
18538 posts
Posted on 4/14/15 at 4:50 pm to
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You've gotta admit, it's kind of funny just for being so juvenile and mean-spirited. It's off-topic and it contributes nothing to the discussion. That level of assholery is just funny to me.




yea but the fact that he posted it a second time after it got whacked the first time just screams "look at me, im cool because i had sex"

its pathetic



This post was edited on 4/14/15 at 4:55 pm
Posted by lsuwontonwrap
Member since Aug 2012
34147 posts
Posted on 4/14/15 at 4:51 pm to
quote:

7 pages with a bunch of blabbering, with no additional input from the OP




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