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re: Why is it socially acceptable to be “terrible with names”?

Posted on 11/8/25 at 11:33 am to
Posted by HogPharmer
Member since Jun 2022
3349 posts
Posted on 11/8/25 at 11:33 am to
I can't wait to hear BabyTac's take on this.
Posted by GreenRockTiger
vortex to the whirlpool of despair
Member since Jun 2020
57646 posts
Posted on 11/8/25 at 11:35 am to
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I wanna punch someone when they say that to me. It’s the same as saying you’re not important enough to remember. It’s so rude and low class.
I think it’s worse after you’ve been introduced several times over several years.

My husband’s boss’s wife always does this to me. So I say something stupid like ‘oh I’m the third wife’ or ‘just the girlfriend, wife is out of town.’

You see me at least once a month, you know who I am .
Posted by Spankum
Miss-sippi
Member since Jan 2007
60153 posts
Posted on 11/8/25 at 11:46 am to
Why is it socially acceptable to be “terrible with names”

I think this will only become more and more prevalent with electronic communication. When you communicate electronically, you always have the name on your phone, so there is no incentive to remember.
Posted by GRTiger
On a roof eating alligator pie
Member since Dec 2008
68582 posts
Posted on 11/8/25 at 11:57 am to
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You see me at least once a month, you know who I am .


Maybe she's shite hammered every time.

Posted by GreenRockTiger
vortex to the whirlpool of despair
Member since Jun 2020
57646 posts
Posted on 11/8/25 at 12:42 pm to
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Maybe she's shite hammered every time.
she’s just a bitch
Posted by LSU Coyote
Member since Sep 2007
56144 posts
Posted on 11/8/25 at 12:43 pm to
You are just a forgettable person.
Posted by LSU Coyote
Member since Sep 2007
56144 posts
Posted on 11/8/25 at 12:43 pm to
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she’s just a bitch

You aren't acting like a good Catholic with this post.

Wait nvm, you are.
Posted by EastWestConnection
Denver/Shenzhen/Belfast
Member since Jul 2024
1035 posts
Posted on 11/8/25 at 12:44 pm to
anytime I meet an attractive woman I purposely forget her name. It subconsciously makes me desirable to them because they think im a challenge to obtain because most people remember their names immediately on account of their hotness. thats a little tip to help you out with the hotties.


I mean it hasnt worked for me yet but I feel like its guaranteed at some point.
Posted by Havoc
Member since Nov 2015
37121 posts
Posted on 11/8/25 at 1:13 pm to
You dumbass,
quote:

Later in the function that person will say what is your name again

That’s a compliment. It means you’re relevant enough that the person wants to make sure they have your name right.
The alternative is they could see you again and not give a frick what your name is.
Posted by philly444
stuck in contraflow
Member since Nov 2008
12128 posts
Posted on 11/8/25 at 1:14 pm to
You are very wrong buddy. I’m sure you think whatever you have going on in that little noggin of yours seems important. More important than people you are talking to that you’ve deemed inferior for some self righteous reason. But it’s not. And you are not. You sound like a grumpy old man that after years of life, still doesn’t know how to communicate with other humans. Get lost loser.
Posted by HughsWorkPhone
Member since Sep 2017
1419 posts
Posted on 11/8/25 at 1:14 pm to
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Why is it socially acceptable to be “terrible with names”?


Because it is literally a thing

I can remember a face the place and the conversation no problem, but grasp at the name later.

I never forget a face. I can watch a movie and immediately recognize an obscure actor from a show 10 years ago. My wife thinks it’s crazy

I will probably never remember her friends husbands name after a couple of dinners though.

I am not choosing what to remember
Posted by shutterspeed
MS Gulf Coast
Member since May 2007
70153 posts
Posted on 11/8/25 at 1:27 pm to
Depends on how many people you encounter on a regular basis. For some it's just not feasible to learn or store so many names--especially if you don't deal with those people consistently.
Posted by Smeg
Member since Aug 2018
14221 posts
Posted on 11/8/25 at 1:30 pm to
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One time I told a person my name twice and I still got a “what is your name again” later in the function. Like what the heck lol.

Because nobody gives a frick about your boring arse. You're not as important as you think you are.
Posted by NewIberiaHaircut
Lafayette
Member since May 2013
12282 posts
Posted on 11/8/25 at 1:40 pm to
Because I don’t care what your name is. I didn’t want to talk to you the first time. That’s why.
Posted by danilo
Member since Nov 2008
24585 posts
Posted on 11/8/25 at 1:42 pm to
Life is easier when you DGAF about meaningless bullshite. Try it.
Posted by Robin Masters
Birmingham
Member since Jul 2010
34823 posts
Posted on 11/8/25 at 1:45 pm to
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You talk with someone new, introduce yourself to them and they do the same. Later in the function that person will say what is your name again. I was talking to you and told you my name, listen better please. Don’t just zone out when I talk to you. I used to not care about this but I am growing increasingly less tolerant of this. One time I told a person my name twice and I still got a “what is your name again” later in the function. Like what the heck lol.


I agree with you to a certain extent.

When people say they aren’t good with names what they mean is, remembering names is not a skill they work on.

But the reality is that if you were important to them then they would remember your name.
Posted by GruntbyAssociation
Member since Jul 2013
8343 posts
Posted on 11/8/25 at 2:03 pm to
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If someone can't remember your name in the same conversation, you're not important to them at all


This is most people and I don’t take it personally because I reciprocate the feeling. It’s not vicious but until you get to know someone personally and find there’s common ground, you usually don’t care.
Posted by AlaTiger
America
Member since Aug 2006
21514 posts
Posted on 11/8/25 at 2:07 pm to
Some people have social anxiety and they get nervous when the meet new people and the name doesn’t register. It’s something you can work on, but it can be like a stutter. The brain skipping ahead when nervous.

Some people can’t speak in public. Others get nervous in other situations. It could be laziness and that they don’t care. It could also be the complete opposite. Best to take a moment to figure it out and not judge too harshly at first.

Everyone can improve, though. It’s a skill worth working on.
Posted by TexasTiger33
Member since Feb 2022
13954 posts
Posted on 11/8/25 at 3:02 pm to
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I’m sure you think whatever you have going on in that little noggin of yours seems important.
All true
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More important than people you are talking to that you’ve deemed inferior for some self righteous reason. But it’s not. And you are not.
Sometimes true
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You sound like a grumpy old man
Ain't even 40 yet, but sure am Grumpy...
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that after years of life, still doesn’t know how to communicate with other humans
That is literally my occupation - I just prefer associating with Family Members Only

You got destroyed in your own thread, loser...
Posted by Lawyered
The Sip
Member since Oct 2016
36595 posts
Posted on 11/8/25 at 3:02 pm to
It’s a sign of people being lazy and uninterested

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