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Why is Forgiving Yourself so Hard?
Posted on 3/14/16 at 11:37 pm
Posted on 3/14/16 at 11:37 pm
I don't understand it. I've lived a pretty carefree life up until the last couple years but some stupid decisions I've made have landed me in a constant state of beating myself up. Things I know I shouldn't have done and still did them anyway. I always hear "You have to forgive yourself" but that's a lot easier said than done. I'm generally a happy person but sometimes I'll do something that I know I shouldn't have and I'll go back to beating myself up and fretting over it for weeks.
I think the reason that I will live in guilt is because I know I shouldn't have done whatever it is I did. It's just real frustrating feeling bad about something especially when it's something that I could've controlled.
Any tips on just forgiving yourself?
I think the reason that I will live in guilt is because I know I shouldn't have done whatever it is I did. It's just real frustrating feeling bad about something especially when it's something that I could've controlled.
Any tips on just forgiving yourself?
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Posted on 3/14/16 at 11:38 pm to TigerFanInSouthland
Did you break bad, bro?
Posted on 3/14/16 at 11:39 pm to TigerFanInSouthland
Pain pills?
Posted on 3/14/16 at 11:39 pm to TigerFanInSouthland
don't sweat the small stuff
everything is small stuff
everything is small stuff
Posted on 3/14/16 at 11:39 pm to TigerFanInSouthland
Posted on 3/14/16 at 11:39 pm to TigerFanInSouthland
It's hard to forgive yourself when you think you're not worthy of forgiveness. It's false humility. You have to see your worth and what you're capable of.
Posted on 3/14/16 at 11:40 pm to RabidTiger
Na, just made a stupid decision this weekend (one that I've made before and seen the outcome of it) feeling pretty awful about it.
This post was edited on 3/14/16 at 11:42 pm
Posted on 3/14/16 at 11:40 pm to TigerFanInSouthland
It's that time of night when the OT gets weird
Posted on 3/14/16 at 11:41 pm to TigerFanInSouthland
Posted on 3/14/16 at 11:41 pm to TigerFanInSouthland
quote:
Na, just made a stupid decision this weekend feeling pretty awful about it
do something even dumber and you'll forget about it
Posted on 3/14/16 at 11:41 pm to TigerFanInSouthland
Might as well tell us what you did.
Posted on 3/14/16 at 11:43 pm to TigerFanInSouthland
I'm harder on myself than anyone. I have found people are far more forgiving and accepting of my faults than I am. I've learned to appreciate where I am though, hard times are a part of that. I don't hate on myself near as much anymore.
Posted on 3/14/16 at 11:44 pm to TigerFanInSouthland
I'm a sociopathic narcissist so it's very difficult for me to relate.
Posted on 3/14/16 at 11:44 pm to TigerFanInSouthland
Did you experiment with a guy?
Posted on 3/14/16 at 11:44 pm to GEAUXT
Dear Journal,
Today I read an ambiguous post on tigerdroppings and had no idea wtf the OP was talking about.
Posted on 3/14/16 at 11:45 pm to willymeaux
Don't sweat the petty things and don't pet the sweaty things.
Posted on 3/14/16 at 11:45 pm to TigerFanInSouthland
damn bruh
getting all deep on me
getting all deep on me
Posted on 3/14/16 at 11:45 pm to RogerTheShrubber
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I'm harder on myself than anyone.
^^this is more along the lines of my thinking.
I understand people hate themselves but I wouldn't put myself in that category. I just have a hard time being at peace with some of the dumb shite that I've done in my short life.
Posted on 3/14/16 at 11:46 pm to SabiDojo
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Might as well tell us what you did.
I already made my guess
Posted on 3/14/16 at 11:46 pm to The Boat
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Did you experiment with a guy?
?
This post was edited on 3/14/16 at 11:48 pm
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