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re: Why do women make men do things they don't want to do

Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:22 am to
Posted by Duckhammer_77
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Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:22 am to
Lots of good advice here:
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“You know this wasn’t really my thing, but the music/lead/choir was pretty/talented/etc and you really seemed to enjoy it, so that makes me happy”.

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You must endure 3 hours of shite and like it so that you can go enjoy those things you like


I'm hosting a sleep over for eight 9 yr old girls this week, then dealing with three sets of family in four days. I wear a smile because my wife knows that come December 26th, I go to the woods and don't emerge until 2nd week of January...and she cannot stop it.
Posted by Breesus
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Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:23 am to
Sometimes I feel like I’m the only person that genuinely enjoys spending time with his wife.
Posted by Jcorye1
Tom Brady = GoAT
Member since Dec 2007
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Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:24 am to
Sometimes women want to be told to shut the frick up. I love my fiance, glad we are getting married, and she's my best friend. That being said, sometimes you just have to do a firm no, and stand your ground. Nobody wants to live with someone they can just walk over.
This post was edited on 12/18/24 at 8:26 am
Posted by Lsupimp
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Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:24 am to
Correct Man response would be something like:

Baby, to be honest, it’s not really my thing, but I loved every moment I got to spend with you and I’m really glad we went! I spent more time looking at how beautiful you are than watching I think. You look GREAT in that dress. Do you want to go get dinner or a coffee, baby?
Posted by jizzle6609
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
17481 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:24 am to
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I just learn to never smile or show emotion


yikes.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
295749 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:25 am to
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Why do women make men do things they don't want to do


Thats on the man. This means the female has no respect for the male, and the male is soft.
Posted by Jcorye1
Tom Brady = GoAT
Member since Dec 2007
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Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:27 am to
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happy wife happy life.


This annoys the hell out of me. Don't be a doormat.
Posted by jizzle6609
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
17481 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:27 am to
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Thats on the man. This means the female has no respect for the male, and the male is soft.


You will catch shite for this from all the weaklings but I agree.

Posted by WhiskeyThrottle
Weatherford Tx
Member since Nov 2017
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Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:27 am to
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Remember, women are emotional creatures. If there is no drama they need to manufacture it. Particularly manufactured indignation. Just understand it’s their nature and focus on the parts of your wife you dig. Like when she leaves, lol.


So, my question is, if you don' give her the drama she's seeking, is that good or bad? I have the same opinion as you, and I usually give in to the little nothing fights so she doesn't start really digging in.

Women imagine that marriage is both people going to do things together and just enjoying the company of each other. Except when it comes to them doing things they don't want to do. That doesn't count.
Posted by Mid Iowa Tiger
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Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:28 am to
My ex-wife was like that.

My current girlfriend (no pics) is not, that’s part of the reason she is still around.

The continually goes something like “do you want to - or - would you have a good time at X” and if the answer from either of us is no the response is well I am going so I’ll just get one ticket.


We both realize we have different tastes and need to spend time apart.


Hell, she gets 7 weeks a year vacation and I get only 5. The extra 2 weeks she has is usually spent in countries I don’t want to go to. Her and her daughter go.
Posted by ShoeBang
Member since May 2012
21803 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:29 am to
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Sometimes I feel like I’m the only person that genuinely enjoys spending time with his wife.


Nice CYA post if your wife knows your handle
Posted by jizzle6609
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
17481 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:29 am to
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so she doesn't start really digging in.


Heres your problem brother.

Why does she even start digging in?

Theres a lack of respect here. You wont address it but thats whats going on ultimately.
Posted by White Bear
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Member since Jul 2014
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Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:32 am to
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Correct Man response would be something like: Baby, to be honest, it’s not really my thing, but I loved every moment I got to spend with you and I’m really glad we went! I spent more time looking at how beautiful you are than watching I think. You look GREAT in that dress. Do you want to go get dinner or a coffee, baby?
what a simp bitch. This is my problem: I cannot nor will I consider exerting the effort to lie like this.
Posted by Muahahaha
Ohio
Member since Nov 2005
6828 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:32 am to
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Why do women make men do things they don't want to do


Drama
Posted by LSUDonMCO
Orlando
Member since Dec 2003
8204 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:34 am to
The power of the Punta! Undefeated with straight men!
Posted by CrappyPants
Member since Apr 2021
1033 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:35 am to
So they can tell their friends "like OMG, my totally perfect husband like took me to a musical and like it was so like wonderful".

When in reality, their friends don't give a shite. It makes them feel better to pretend that husbands are in to that shite and don't just sit around burping and farting watching football.
Posted by piratedude
baton rouge
Member since Oct 2009
2765 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:35 am to
My ex liked local theatre and i went with her, and always found something to enjoy enough to make it tolerable. (except little theatre musicals, I do have standards) i smiled and nodded. when i complained that she never went with me to cultural events I enjoy (tractor pulls, burt reynolds movies, willie nelson concerts, etc), her answer was "but we do things together" Yeah, your things. "but you enjoy them." I learned to tolerate them for you but would never go except to make you happy. so, her things were "our things" and my things were beneath her and her "sophisticated" friends. one of the many reasons that she is the ex.
Posted by jizzle6609
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
17481 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:36 am to
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The power of the Punta! Undefeated with straight men!


False, undefeated to weak straight men.
Posted by jizzle6609
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
17481 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:37 am to
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what a simp bitch. This is my problem: I cannot nor will I consider exerting the effort to lie like this.


Id rather never get married and live alone if this is the alternative.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
295749 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:38 am to
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False, undefeated to weak straight men.
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Yep, some dudes are just doormats. They'll sell their soul to get laid one time.

Most men fail to realize they still have the power. They've just been conditioned by social media whores.
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