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re: When you tell your SO there is no God. Kids need to man the frick up

Posted on 10/26/17 at 7:05 pm to
Posted by jmon
Loisiana
Member since Oct 2010
10349 posts
Posted on 10/26/17 at 7:05 pm to
She’s a lucky girl!
This post was edited on 10/26/17 at 7:06 pm
Posted by LZ83
La
Member since Sep 2016
17446 posts
Posted on 10/26/17 at 7:06 pm to
What's truly sad is, I think he is serious.

Posted by LZ83
La
Member since Sep 2016
17446 posts
Posted on 10/26/17 at 7:06 pm to
You say show me your God. I say prove there isn't one.
Posted by CorkSoaker
Member since Oct 2008
9823 posts
Posted on 10/26/17 at 7:07 pm to
Are you a victim of child molestation?
Posted by Wildcat In Germany
Metro Atlanta
Member since May 2017
3094 posts
Posted on 10/26/17 at 7:09 pm to
quote:

My stepson has been a wreck for a year after his girlfriend was obliterated in a road side wreck.


Instead of being a POS you should probably show some compassion and concern. Try to get him in to counseling. Losing a significant other unexpectedly can take a toll on a person no matter what age they are.
Posted by MrLarson
Member since Oct 2014
34984 posts
Posted on 10/26/17 at 7:10 pm to
quote:

Lakeboy7


Ive always hated you on most topics.


I told my wife today that for six months that all I've wanted to do is take my money out of my accounts and just disappear.

Happy anniversary

None of this is a troll.
Posted by StupidBinder
Jawja
Member since Oct 2017
6392 posts
Posted on 10/26/17 at 7:10 pm to
quote:

My problem is working against a step family that bails him out from being a grown man.

No matter the frick up he is bailed out by them.



Would like to shoot the shite with you.


Nothing you can do about the step family. All you can do is try to influence him the best you can, and that’s impossible if you’re just going to angrily tear him and his beliefs down.
Posted by nvasil1
Hellinois
Member since Oct 2009
17899 posts
Posted on 10/26/17 at 7:11 pm to
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My problem is working against a step family that bails him out from being a grown man

After two years though, it should be pretty evident by now that he's not going to just get over it on his own. Particularly if his behavior is enabled or excused by the rest of the family.

Be the adult; forget about the religion stuff, stop being a hard arse and find a psychotherapist he can talk to. That will be much better for your stepson in the long run instead of the current family dysfunction. Speaking from personal experience, it works.
Posted by SilverStallion
Member since Aug 2017
1999 posts
Posted on 10/26/17 at 7:12 pm to
Man, Satan is gonna roast your nuts until they turn to almonds. You’re gonna go to wack one out in hell and your dick is just gonna be a pile of ash.

If you were my step dad, I’d tell you to kick rocks and catch these hands if you bout it.


Psa: you’re a piece of shite.
Posted by boosiebadazz
Member since Feb 2008
86426 posts
Posted on 10/26/17 at 7:12 pm to
Maybe they’ve been bailing him out, but I can imagine seeing his girlfriend explode right in front of him could and would frick him up. There’s a time and place for tough love, but this isn’t it.

I hope you have strong family men as friends you can talk to about this. This is heavy shite, and this ”I was on my own since 15 so just toughen up” shite isn’t going to help. That was your experience, not his.
This post was edited on 10/26/17 at 7:14 pm
Posted by Tigerbait357
Member since Jun 2011
71193 posts
Posted on 10/26/17 at 7:13 pm to
Oh no that wasn't directed towards you, I was speaking in general
Posted by boosiebadazz
Member since Feb 2008
86426 posts
Posted on 10/26/17 at 7:13 pm to
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I told my wife today that for six months that all I've wanted to do is take my money out of my accounts and just disappear.


Were y’all having problems before the stepson issue?
This post was edited on 10/26/17 at 7:15 pm
Posted by BananaHammock
Member since Aug 2011
13150 posts
Posted on 10/26/17 at 7:15 pm to
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Hell, anyway to right the ship?

Not a chance if the surroundings are what they are (full of enablers).

Hate to state the obvious, but you probably had some gut feelings of your wife’s character flaws (the enabling) along the way and couldn’t do anything about it.

Also, hiding your atheism from your wife this long didn’t help.

It sounds like you regret the way you approached it, but kudos for speaking your mind. Not enough of us do that.
Posted by BR Tiger
Baton Rouge
Member since Mar 2004
4762 posts
Posted on 10/26/17 at 7:16 pm to
So you entered into a marriage without having discussed a pretty important, basic foundation of life? That is your basic belief in God or no god? That was a bad move there, dude.

You talked about alcohol abuse. Do you have a history of alcoholism by any chance? I only ask because you are coming across the same way I have seen a lot of people interact when they have had a problem with alcohol and quit without dealing with the issues that led Jen down that road.

Good luck finding your way out of this situation. I’m not sure how you navigate this.
Posted by BogeyGolf
Minot
Member since Nov 2016
974 posts
Posted on 10/26/17 at 7:16 pm to
I'll say a prayer for you tonight with my son and it'll be there if you ever decide to accept. I think it's my only and best levered way to help the situation. Good luck brother, do the best you can.
Posted by StupidBinder
Jawja
Member since Oct 2017
6392 posts
Posted on 10/26/17 at 7:16 pm to
quote:

I told my wife today that for six months that all I've wanted to do is take my money out of my accounts and just disappear.

Happy anniversary

None of this is a troll.


Dude. Counseling. Today.

Individual, then marriage, then family with your son. In that order.

You can fix all of this but you need to start now. You’re life is falling apart and you’re speeding it along.
Posted by SilverStallion
Member since Aug 2017
1999 posts
Posted on 10/26/17 at 7:18 pm to
Counseling?

Just put a bullet in this dude and be done with it. He’s taking up valuable oxygen in the world
Posted by ccomeaux
LA
Member since Jan 2010
8184 posts
Posted on 10/26/17 at 7:18 pm to
You may not have to deal with it much longer
Posted by arkiebrian
NWA
Member since Nov 2006
4167 posts
Posted on 10/26/17 at 7:18 pm to
quote:

I understand people saying "I'm praying for you" it's a nice gesture and all but that is all it is.

With you on that...seems petty to me.
Posted by Lakeboy7
New Orleans
Member since Jul 2011
28324 posts
Posted on 10/26/17 at 7:19 pm to
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take my money out of my accounts and just disappear.


Take care of your family man.
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