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re: When do you stop having sex?

Posted on 9/18/25 at 5:47 pm to
Posted by HubbaBubba
North of DFW, TX
Member since Oct 2010
50783 posts
Posted on 9/18/25 at 5:47 pm to
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My dad is 74. I asked him about it not too long ago and he said age hasn’t slowed him down a bit. He does have to pop a pill but other than that the desire and ability is still there. The sexy time for me and the wife is probably better now than anytime in the past 20 years. I think that’s mainly due to us being empty nesters and having house to ourselves for the first time since we were married. shite, we act like a bunch of horny teenagers these days.


I'm 69. Wife is 59. She told me six months ago that she enjoyed PIV sex more now than anything else we do. She said it just makes her orgasms extremely intense. At that time, I weighed 238 pounds and my stamina was for shite, but her telling me that made me realize I had allowed myself to get lazy and eating way too much of highly pleasurable foods, high in fats and starches. I started that week to go out for walks. I had retired, loved to cook, and I stopped, so had packed on some winter weight, gotten lazy, wasn't going to the fitness center and was kinda' checked out after being in a high-pressure corporate environment, making lots of money, but just stressed to the max and going to die from the stress, so when I retired I have channeled my time and energy to learning new recipes, working on my own recipes and doing yard work.

Since then, I've dropped to my current weight of 193# and working my weight down to my goal weight of around 175#. My daily walks are both outside and at the fitness center, walking, on average, between 6 to 9 miles in a day depending on other activities. Last week it was a little over 42 miles for the week, but I had a couple of days where I didn't get to work out due to traveling home to check on my Mom back in Shreveport.n She's 91 years old. Still going strong and mentally sharp as a tack. Good. I have her genes. I'm also adding in weight training. Adding muscle at my age is difficult but it's not going to be from lack of effort. My energy level is waaaaay up. I got knee braces to protect my joints and have added (so far) up to 2 miles of running each day with my short-term goal being to run in a 5K race and continue working towards 10K events. Right now, my walking/sporadic running pace is around 16 minutes a mile and I want to try and get that down over the next six months to between 11-12 minutes per mile. I don't think I'll ever win any races, but now that I'm an empty nester and retired, may as well focus on me for a while.

Anyway, as I mentioned, my stamina is waaaay up and she's a much happier camper as I'm now like an incredible machine! Howard Cosell would be elated! So, like your dad, I take daily Cialis. Always ready WHEN SHE IS, and she's much more likely to be flirty and surprise me. So yeah. We're still pretty active. to your Dad!
Posted by uptowntiger84
uptown
Member since Jul 2011
5089 posts
Posted on 9/18/25 at 7:28 pm to
When you die is the only correct answer.
Posted by HeadSlash
TEAM LIVE BADASS - St. GEORGE
Member since Aug 2006
54828 posts
Posted on 9/18/25 at 7:33 pm to
Younger ladies are the answer
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
120032 posts
Posted on 9/18/25 at 7:36 pm to
Al Picino is 82 and the young gal he is dating recently had his baby. Not sure if it was a nature thing or if she did the injecting sperm thing, but with boner pills, I am sure people are fricking on their death beds.
Posted by fkmonark25
Member since Jan 2018
58 posts
Posted on 9/18/25 at 7:39 pm to
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When do you stop having sex?


At about minute 3:50.
This post was edited on 9/18/25 at 7:55 pm
Posted by Nole Man
Somewhere In Tennessee!
Member since May 2011
8641 posts
Posted on 9/18/25 at 7:41 pm to
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This is the correct answer. I think many women lose their desire for sex as time goes on and they expect their husbands to just accept this and live with it. Life is short, find someone who brings you happiness.


Yeah, in theory. But when your life is intertwined with kids, finances, houses years of accumulation of wealth and you’re tied to each other, it’s a lot more difficult than that. Imagine walking away from everything you’ve earned and achieved and having to live in apartment in the mid 60s. Maybe your retired. Not working anymore so there’s no income coming in other than Social Security or investments. Then you have to give up half.
This post was edited on 9/18/25 at 8:17 pm
Posted by Amosite301
Member since Jul 2024
9 posts
Posted on 9/18/25 at 8:32 pm to
I’m the pullout king!!!!
Posted by WhiteMandingo
Member since Jan 2016
7439 posts
Posted on 9/18/25 at 9:18 pm to
When the hour buzzer goes off. Hookers dont do over time.
Posted by Penrod
Member since Jan 2011
51968 posts
Posted on 9/18/25 at 9:21 pm to
I’m 63 and averaging about 5 per week. Not stopping or slowing down unless my wife calls a lid. I have a strong belief, with absolutely no evidence, that prostate cancer is held at bay with frequent sex.
Posted by TigersHuskers
Nebraska
Member since Oct 2014
14567 posts
Posted on 9/18/25 at 9:22 pm to
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Usually after I bust


That sucks. I can usually keep going.
Posted by Penrod
Member since Jan 2011
51968 posts
Posted on 9/18/25 at 9:24 pm to
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The sexy time for me and the wife is probably better now than anytime in the past 20 years. I think that’s mainly due to us being empty nesters and having house to ourselves for the first time since we were married.

Age 45 to 55 was the best stretch for us.
Posted by Penrod
Member since Jan 2011
51968 posts
Posted on 9/18/25 at 9:26 pm to
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You asked your elderly dad about railing your elderly mom?

74 isn’t elderly if you’ve taken care of yourself. I have a friend who is 75 and kiteboards about 150 days per year. He does not seem elderly to me.
Posted by Prosecuted Collins
The Farm
Member since Sep 2003
7205 posts
Posted on 9/18/25 at 9:27 pm to
OP had 52 contemplating this is no bueno man. I’d prolly do some soul searching on this. Life is too short to be in a sexless marriage at 50. See a doctor. See a bunch of doctors. Test hormones, get bloodwork etc. it’s not reasonable at your age to feel like this and it’s likely hormonal, get some help brother.

I’m coming on 50. Been single a long time but prefer a vibrant woman and having more fun in that regard than ever.

Men are taught to suffer but it doesn’t have to be that way. Hold your wife accountable for fixing this with you. Find a chubby unicorn, get on T, exercise together, do anything besides letting your cock devolve into a pisser.
Posted by LSUSkip
Central, LA
Member since Jul 2012
24717 posts
Posted on 9/19/25 at 12:29 am to
I don't plan on stopping until it no longer works, or it is no longer safe to do so because of my health.
Posted by LemmyLives
Texas
Member since Mar 2019
13273 posts
Posted on 9/19/25 at 1:09 am to
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or it is no longer safe to do so because of my health.


You know, deep down, that you’ll be, “I might die, but frick it.”
Posted by LemmyLives
Texas
Member since Mar 2019
13273 posts
Posted on 9/19/25 at 1:14 am to
1000%. This is why I mentioned how much women in the age range desperately want connection, and hence sex earlier.

You can slide into a northeastern roommate relationship, or your wife can enjoy the fact that you want her. If she doesn’t, find your divorce apartment. You don’t want to live like that.
Posted by Tarps99
Lafourche Parish
Member since Apr 2017
11464 posts
Posted on 9/19/25 at 2:40 am to
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When do you stop having sex?


You got to keep going until at least she fakes hers.

As a dude it is difficult to fake yours unless you are on certain medications that limits your production of ejaculate fluids.
Posted by RanchoLaPuerto
Jena
Member since Aug 2023
1799 posts
Posted on 9/19/25 at 4:18 am to
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When you die is the only correct answer.


Don’t you believe in heaven?
Posted by Traffic Circle
Down the Rabbit Hole
Member since Nov 2013
4862 posts
Posted on 9/19/25 at 4:26 am to
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slide into a northeastern roommate relationship


Care to elaborate on this?
Posted by castorinho
13623 posts
Member since Nov 2010
86450 posts
Posted on 9/19/25 at 7:44 am to
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I've had better. Not sure about better first replies though. Glad I got this one in quick (pun)
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