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re: When did your wife change?

Posted on 12/19/18 at 11:01 pm to
Posted by Tester1216
South Louisiana
Member since Jul 2018
22149 posts
Posted on 12/19/18 at 11:01 pm to
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Man, you really want to drive home how tough it all is for everyone. Just accept that it’s not as hard for some as it is/was for you



I’m sorry, it appears that way huh? Sime are very fortunate and I couldn’t be happier for them.
Posted by georgia
445
Member since Jan 2007
9109 posts
Posted on 12/19/18 at 11:01 pm to
You should never judge your insides against someone else’s outsides.
Posted by tgrbaitn08
Member since Dec 2007
146214 posts
Posted on 12/19/18 at 11:03 pm to
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It’s a stresser. Many marriages crumble due to such. Glad yours didn’t.



Oh trust me, it almost did. Being displaced for 16 months, bouncing around then finally settling in a 2 bedroom 1 bath apt with a toddler and a pregnant wife while trying work and rebuild our house, fighting daily with my contractor so we could finally get back into our before Christmas of 2006, yeah, that wasn’t the best year and half of my life. Not sure how we made it through.
This post was edited on 12/19/18 at 11:07 pm
Posted by HoustonGumbeauxGuy
Member since Jul 2011
29668 posts
Posted on 12/19/18 at 11:04 pm to
This year when she started working at a new hospital. Her nurse coworkers are immature as frick and she talks just like them now.

I have trouble communicating with her
Posted by Tyga Woods
South Central Jupiter Island, FL
Member since Sep 2016
30391 posts
Posted on 12/19/18 at 11:08 pm to
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Reflective happiness. Like running a marathon, or climbing Mt. Everest.


This is a really good analogy.
Posted by Tester1216
South Louisiana
Member since Jul 2018
22149 posts
Posted on 12/19/18 at 11:11 pm to
I’m really sorry you and your family had to go through that my friend.
Posted by shotcaller1
Member since Oct 2014
7501 posts
Posted on 12/19/18 at 11:28 pm to

We as men are to blame. We communicate that this behavior is acceptable by doing nothing to demonstrate the contrary. Ok yeah we get mad whatever. But if we as a whole started separating ourselves from those women who show even a little bit of a childish behavior, this wouldn’t be as prevalent. It would never happen because the legal system is tilted towards women
Posted by BRgetthenet
Member since Oct 2011
117734 posts
Posted on 12/19/18 at 11:32 pm to
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. We communicate that this behavior is acceptable by doing nothing to demonstrate the contrary.



frick that. I do. I throw a fit and then sleep in the guest bed. I fart myself to sleep like a baby. And I don’t say goodnight.
Posted by northshorebamaman
Cochise County AZ
Member since Jul 2009
35528 posts
Posted on 12/19/18 at 11:33 pm to
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We as men are to blame. We communicate that this behavior is acceptable by doing nothing to demonstrate the contrary. Ok yeah we get mad whatever. But if we as a whole started separating ourselves from those women who show even a little bit of a childish behavior, this wouldn’t be as prevalent. It would never happen because the legal system is tilted towards women
Also our fault. It never should have got this unbalanced.
Posted by summersausage
Member since Jul 2010
1821 posts
Posted on 12/19/18 at 11:36 pm to
Accidental downvote
Posted by DeCat ODahouse
Premium Member
Member since Jan 2017
1375 posts
Posted on 12/19/18 at 11:52 pm to
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17 years of marriage, lost my house to a flood, been there done that with financial issues, deaths, and other things I won’t comment on

Well put. Those and more are probably headed your way if you are just starting out.

Speaking as a marriage veteran of more years than I care to name it’s worth if IF:

You have picked somebody, who, at the end of a long day you can shake your head and laugh with over all the great and stupid things life handed you.

You've taken vacations involving long scenic rides where neither one has to say anything, but if one of you does they can just start in the middle of an idea and the other person can chime in yea or nay.

You hope that one day in retirement you will be able to spend more time with that person.

You both feel vested enough to forgive and forget for the team.

Since you are going to put work into the marriage, put some work into the screening process.


Posted by dawgsjlw
shite hole with your momma
Member since Sep 2014
826 posts
Posted on 12/20/18 at 1:45 am to
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you in for a rough ride until 45-50,
quote:

them hormonal changes are scary


Natures way of telling you to get a younger woman. Nature doesn't ever lie, that is a fact!
Posted by tigerpimpbot
Chairman of the Pool Board
Member since Nov 2011
67021 posts
Posted on 12/20/18 at 4:12 am to
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You laugh. I don’t because it wasn’t fricking funny dealing with a woman who couldn’t focus on jack shite.


I have one of hose. It's pretty annoying
Posted by I Love Bama
Alabama
Member since Nov 2007
37739 posts
Posted on 12/20/18 at 5:39 am to
Interesting thread.

Sometimes I think I want to get married. But hearing my married friends talk about their non existent sex life while I'm detroying 21 year old poon nips that pretty quickly.

Those that are in an unhappy relationship, if you've tried to make it right and it hasn't, why not move on? One one life bro.

Hit the gym
Delete Facebook
Level up in biz


You will have new pussy falling in your lap.
Posted by mofungoo
Baton Rouge
Member since Nov 2012
4583 posts
Posted on 12/20/18 at 5:53 am to
Mine didn't change - her true nature came out
Posted by Zephyrius
Wharton, La.
Member since Dec 2004
7968 posts
Posted on 12/20/18 at 7:44 am to
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When did your wife change?

Changed for the better when she stopped taking the "pill".

NSIAP
Posted by lowhound
Effie
Member since Aug 2014
7585 posts
Posted on 12/20/18 at 8:26 am to
After our first kid. Pretty sure she was post-pardum and was too hard headed to go get help for it. Was never the same and our marriage suffered. You can't put the kid ahead of your marriage either.
Posted by LZ83
La
Member since Sep 2016
17406 posts
Posted on 12/20/18 at 8:26 am to
She changed this morning for work.
Posted by kingbob
Sorrento, LA
Member since Nov 2010
67216 posts
Posted on 12/20/18 at 8:36 am to
honestly, mine was already changing for the worst in the lead up to the engagement. Things only continued to decline from there, but I was too stubborn to turn back.
Posted by thegambler
Louisiana
Member since Oct 2012
1445 posts
Posted on 12/20/18 at 8:42 am to
When she started taking zoloft. Totally different person. Unlikeable.
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