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re: When did your wife change?
Posted on 12/19/18 at 8:08 pm to keakar
Posted on 12/19/18 at 8:08 pm to keakar
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you in for a rough ride until 45-50, then she will mellow out again before getting a little more crazy then normal around 55-60
frick that. I'll pay bitches to keep me company from 25-30 then trade em in.
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Posted on 12/19/18 at 8:10 pm to mikelbr
Pretty sure you still lose half on the trade in.
Posted on 12/19/18 at 8:10 pm to teke184
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There’s a difference between changing as a person and having mental problems requiring medicine and/or therapy.
Explain your answer. Give evidence or examples of both to support your claim.
Posted on 12/19/18 at 8:10 pm to teke184
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Getting someone to accept they either need to talk to someone or get medicated is an uphill battle.
I guess crazy doesn’t know they’re crazy but seems to me someone somewhat normal would be aware of just how miserable they are.
This post was edited on 12/19/18 at 8:11 pm
Posted on 12/19/18 at 8:11 pm to Patfic15
Mine went from crazy to crazy af.
Posted on 12/19/18 at 8:16 pm to Patfic15
You gotta romance her again. Fire up the spark.
Posted on 12/19/18 at 8:17 pm to BRgetthenet
My wife went off the deep end in the first year or two of marriage, being paranoid as frick and clingy, amongst other things, then claiming all the issues were my fault and I needed therapy because my sanity slipped dealing with it.
I know I’m no picnic but if the change in my behavior is in direct response to her bullshite, then she needed to be examining herself instead of saying “Maybe you need your dose upped” in response. Medicating the problem doesn’t fix anything as much as put a band aid on it if you aren’t dealing with underlying issues.
Turned out she had undiagnosed depression and ADHD amongst other things but it took several years to make her go to the doctor and get properly screened so they could see if she needed medicine.
She still has issues but they are decidedly milder now that her thoughts are more under control and she doesn’t just get into the bed and shut off from everyone because she is depressed.
I know I’m no picnic but if the change in my behavior is in direct response to her bullshite, then she needed to be examining herself instead of saying “Maybe you need your dose upped” in response. Medicating the problem doesn’t fix anything as much as put a band aid on it if you aren’t dealing with underlying issues.
Turned out she had undiagnosed depression and ADHD amongst other things but it took several years to make her go to the doctor and get properly screened so they could see if she needed medicine.
She still has issues but they are decidedly milder now that her thoughts are more under control and she doesn’t just get into the bed and shut off from everyone because she is depressed.
Posted on 12/19/18 at 8:19 pm to VABuckeye
Mine would have dared me to flip the switch. Complete with gesturing and all. She’s the best.
Posted on 12/19/18 at 8:19 pm to teke184
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teke184
Almost the same story with mine.
Posted on 12/19/18 at 8:23 pm to northshorebamaman
All women are crazy. It’s just how good they can hide it that makes the difference
Posted on 12/19/18 at 8:29 pm to Patfic15
The day she got pregnant. We've been glorified roommates ever since.
Girls just turned two last week.
Girls just turned two last week.
Posted on 12/19/18 at 8:32 pm to Tester1216
Typically they may be aware of how miserable they are but not the “why” or “how do I fix it?”
They think drastic things will fix the problem when instead it just makes things worse.
They think drastic things will fix the problem when instead it just makes things worse.
Posted on 12/19/18 at 8:33 pm to Patfic15
The ring
Posted on 12/19/18 at 8:35 pm to TigerFanatic99
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The day she got pregnant. We've been glorified roommates ever since.
Girls just turned two last week.
Mine are 2 and 3. We're basically in a not-for-profit business partnership at this point, but it's getting better.
It doesn't help that she works full-time and I work full-time plus a couple side jobs. That adds more of the burden at home to her. It ain't easy
Posted on 12/19/18 at 8:38 pm to LSU Tigershark
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The day she got pregnant. We've been glorified roommates ever since. Girls just turned two last week. Mine are 2 and 3. We're basically in a not-for-profit business partnership at this point, but it's getting better. It doesn't help that she works full-time and I work full-time plus a couple side jobs. That adds more of the burden at home to her. It ain't easy
This really makes me sad.
I know it’s hard but you’ve got to make your marriage a priority. When the kids leave you’ll have NOTHING ago take about and you’ll be living with a stranger.
Posted on 12/19/18 at 8:40 pm to LSU Tigershark
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We're basically in a not-for-profit business partnership
Helluva way to put it.
Posted on 12/19/18 at 8:45 pm to 4LSU2
I can not believe all of the problems you guys have. Especially in your tax brackets
Posted on 12/19/18 at 8:45 pm to Tyga Woods
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Also, at that age, they aren’t the older women yet but usually have nothing in common with a young woman. Just ride it out...
Posted on 12/19/18 at 8:45 pm to 4LSU2
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Helluva way to put it.
It's a tongue-in-cheek way to put it, but the honeymoon is definitely over. We love each other very much, but between work and the kids, our relationship has definitely evolved or been more stressful.
Posted on 12/19/18 at 8:47 pm to Patfic15
Around the time I caught her cheating on me.
My attorney told me that the largest majority of divorces he handles, deal with women in their mid 40's
My attorney told me that the largest majority of divorces he handles, deal with women in their mid 40's
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