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When did being a single mother become cool?

Posted on 3/19/19 at 1:02 pm
Posted by volod
Leesville, LA
Member since Jun 2014
5392 posts
Posted on 3/19/19 at 1:02 pm
Okay. This might get me banned, but please hear me out.

I dont understand why so many young women (especially in minority communities) gravitate toward teenage pregnancy. Many of then will proclaim it doesn't mean they cant be successful. It is true that you can still have a good career as a single mom, but that is not the point.

The real reason single parenthood is bad is because it deprives the child of having their father. A strong male role model is crucial to a child's development.

I know that a mother with strong religious or family support can rear good children and that an immature father can potentially be a detriment instead of an asset. However, in most healthy family environments, two parent homes are superior to single parent homes.

It really bothers me how some women proclaim to be strong mothers, yet they will continually get pregnant irresponsibly. They never seem to learn from past mistakes.

Edit: many dont try to do the right thing by her kids. They should train their kids to be more productive members in society. Instead they continue the same failed way of thinking. And I know men share half of the blame as well. But that's what it is HALF. They are equally responsible.
This post was edited on 3/19/19 at 1:06 pm
Posted by 50_Tiger
Arlington TX
Member since Jan 2016
41967 posts
Posted on 3/19/19 at 1:03 pm to
When the Government allowed single moms to marry them.


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Posted by Radiojones
The Twilight Zone
Member since Feb 2007
10728 posts
Posted on 3/19/19 at 1:03 pm to
It has not nor will it ever be cool. It is literally the quickest way to guarantee a life of poverty.
Posted by NoShow
Member since Feb 2013
2339 posts
Posted on 3/19/19 at 1:03 pm to
It became cool when the government started paying you to be one.
Posted by Salmon
I helped draft the email
Member since Feb 2008
85077 posts
Posted on 3/19/19 at 1:04 pm to
Who thinks it’s cool other than the single moms trying to justify their mistakes?
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
281843 posts
Posted on 3/19/19 at 1:04 pm to
About the time welfare made it possible to support a family without a father in the home.
Posted by mark65mc
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2007
11434 posts
Posted on 3/19/19 at 1:04 pm to
quote:


When did being a single mother become cool?


When the govt decided to take the place of fathers.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
129918 posts
Posted on 3/19/19 at 1:04 pm to
Lyndon B Johnson


Made making bastards a viable career choice

Worst president ever
Posted by LouisianaLady
Member since Mar 2009
82164 posts
Posted on 3/19/19 at 1:04 pm to
I can't speak for minority communities, but I feel like most of the young girls who got pregnant when we had just graduated high school honestly thought their current boyfriends were going to stick around. I don't think they originally set out to be single mothers.
Posted by ReauxlTide222
St. Petersburg
Member since Nov 2010
86531 posts
Posted on 3/19/19 at 1:04 pm to
quote:

I dont understand why so many young women (especially in minority communities) gravitate toward teenage pregnancy.
I don't think they're signing up to pop some kids out as teenagers.

They just irresponsibly frick like rabbits and accidentally get pregnant.
Posted by VABuckeye
NOVA
Member since Dec 2007
37479 posts
Posted on 3/19/19 at 1:04 pm to
Do you really think they gravitate towards teen preganancy or are they simply too stupid to care about safe sex and taking preventative mearsures?
Posted by SidewalkDawg
Chair
Member since Nov 2012
10111 posts
Posted on 3/19/19 at 1:04 pm to
I know right. The fathers of my 3 kids are all absent from the picture, but I do my best to provide for them, their mother, and her current boyfriend.
Posted by LouisianaLady
Member since Mar 2009
82164 posts
Posted on 3/19/19 at 1:05 pm to
quote:

I don't think they're signing up to pop some kids out as teenagers.

They just irresponsibly frick like rabbits and accidentally get pregnant.


Exactly this.
Posted by Centinel
Idaho
Member since Sep 2016
44032 posts
Posted on 3/19/19 at 1:05 pm to
January 8th, 1964 to be exact.

Posted by AUCE05
Member since Dec 2009
43755 posts
Posted on 3/19/19 at 1:06 pm to
Man. Nice trout line. You bout to reel them in.
This post was edited on 3/19/19 at 1:06 pm
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
129918 posts
Posted on 3/19/19 at 1:06 pm to
Shiny hook
Posted by Finch
Member since Jun 2015
3505 posts
Posted on 3/19/19 at 1:08 pm to
When it became the easiest way to earn an income
Posted by BayouBlitz
Member since Aug 2007
18126 posts
Posted on 3/19/19 at 1:08 pm to
When did it become cool to knock up a girl and then vanish?

I know several single mothers who decided not to be miserable in a bad marriage. With the exception of one, they are all doing great, and are doing a great job of raising their kids.
Posted by upgrayedd
Lifting at Tobin's house
Member since Mar 2013
136982 posts
Posted on 3/19/19 at 1:09 pm to
I don't think it's become a "cool" thing, but we've raised them to hero status for some fricked up reason
Posted by Supermoto Tiger
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2010
10316 posts
Posted on 3/19/19 at 1:11 pm to
quote:

When did being a single mother become cool?

I'm guessing that it was "cool" unitl maybe 2-3 weeks after she spit the kid out??
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