re: When browsing tinder or bumble

I woukd just look at high girl pics and like. Then skip the fatties.

Were a lot of hit pics past the profile pic. Add in Instagram at the bottom...could see some nice arse shots cause every hot girl in Florida now wears things or Brazilian bikinis...and frick it's fun to go to the beach or springs.

I used to right swipe everyone. You can filter out the fatties and uggos later.

Wood, would not

There just photos after all...

Safe to assume that most of those are fake, right?

If the first pic looks good I'll look at the rest of her pics

I do a lot of vetting before I meet up with a match though. I don't want to be catfished. I've caught several women using 5 year olds pics, for example, then I find their instagram or facebook and see that they have added 50+ pounds since then.

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That's why it's key to get their snap chat handle. Look up the facebook/instagram from there to make sure they're not using pictures from 2013.

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People will say its stalking but I say its vetting. I don't want to waste my time. Exactly once I went out with a Tinder match without vetting and she brought her 4 year old daughter along and I noped my way out of there. Never again.

Besides the girls do the same thing. I went out with a Bumble match and she was telling me about all kinds of shite she found about me online. The women want to make sure they aren't meeting up with a creep or serial killer or rapist.

I want to make sure you look like you do in your pictures, you aren't fat, you don't have kids, you don't have trashy tattoos or piercings, you don't do drugs, or any other red flags. And even then you can do all the research you want and there will be some things you won't catch.

I have only been catfished once, but it was fricking bad. I'm talking an additional 50-75 pounds to the pics on the profile. Have vetted ever since when I have been single.