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What Is It Like Being a Parent?

Posted on 2/11/19 at 9:50 am
Posted by SaintlyTiger88
Louisiana
Member since Apr 2013
1985 posts
Posted on 2/11/19 at 9:50 am
One of the experiences in my life that I’m really looking forward to is becoming a parent. I understand that having kids presents a variety of challenges and from what I’ve heard, in order to be a good parent, there is a lot of self-sacrifice involved... time, energy, money etc.

My question for you parents is, what is it really like? Do you feel joy knowing that you created a life and the satisfaction that comes from raising children? Those with step-children/adopted kids, what is your experience like?

That moment when you first saw your child after they were born, would you say that was one of the greatest moments of your life?
Posted by ell_13
Member since Apr 2013
85067 posts
Posted on 2/11/19 at 9:51 am to
Pecker will be here soon to explain it all.
Posted by TH03
Mogadishu
Member since Dec 2008
171037 posts
Posted on 2/11/19 at 9:51 am to
Have you ever owned a dog?
Posted by Dandaman
Louisiana
Member since May 2017
707 posts
Posted on 2/11/19 at 9:52 am to
It's like jogging. It sucks the whole time, but every now and then, you feel good about it and get some euphoric experiences and somehow it seems worthwhile.
This post was edited on 2/11/19 at 9:53 am
Posted by DmitriKaramazov
Member since Nov 2015
4470 posts
Posted on 2/11/19 at 9:53 am to
Exhausting.
Posted by PortHudsonPlaya
Houston
Member since Jul 2017
3170 posts
Posted on 2/11/19 at 9:54 am to
I would think it’d be a lot like the dog scenario. Where you see the best parts out in public with good owners and well trained dogs.

Then you go get a dog and it’s nothing like that, and is your most regretted decision for about 10 years or until it dies.
Posted by Boudreaux35
BR
Member since Sep 2007
21527 posts
Posted on 2/11/19 at 9:54 am to
Craziest roller coaster you'll ever ride. And it NEVER ends. Well, I suppose it CAN end, but only way it ends is in a manner no parent ever wants to experience. So, I'll just say it never ends.
Posted by NYCAuburn
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Member since Feb 2011
57002 posts
Posted on 2/11/19 at 9:55 am to
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What Is It Like Being a Parent?


You forget about things like sleeping through the night when you want to or just sleeping in.


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That moment when you first saw your child after they were born, would you say that was one of the greatest moments of your life?


Its more the interaction when they get older and them looking up to you, IMO
This post was edited on 2/11/19 at 9:55 am
Posted by GetCocky11
Calgary, AB
Member since Oct 2012
51308 posts
Posted on 2/11/19 at 9:55 am to
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What Is It Like Being a Parent?


You get a $2,000 tax credit per kid. That has to be nice.
Posted by ell_13
Member since Apr 2013
85067 posts
Posted on 2/11/19 at 9:55 am to
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your most regretted decision for about 10 years or until it dies
You probably shouldn't procreate with this perspective.
Posted by hombreman9
USA
Member since Feb 2009
3781 posts
Posted on 2/11/19 at 9:55 am to
Don’t let these morons get you down. You get out of it what you put into it. Sure, you will get frustrated, lose your temper, and it will consume all of your time. That said, it’s the best thing I’ve ever done.
Posted by PipelineBaw
TX
Member since Jan 2019
1422 posts
Posted on 2/11/19 at 9:55 am to
Being tired is now just a part of life. Seriously you will always be exhausted. Anyone saying the opposite is either a liar or a drug peddler
Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
98203 posts
Posted on 2/11/19 at 9:56 am to
No matter how sweet they are starting out, they all turn into surly teenagers.
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
73856 posts
Posted on 2/11/19 at 9:56 am to
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You get a $2,000 tax credit per kid. That has to be nice.

not even a drop in the bucket
Posted by Bert Macklin FBI
Quantico
Member since May 2013
8984 posts
Posted on 2/11/19 at 9:56 am to
It is the greatest thing you could ever do but it is also the hardest, most frustrating, and never ending thing you will ever do.

It is a nonstop roller coaster of wonderful moments followed by head scratching moments.

I wouldn't trade it for the world.
Posted by ell_13
Member since Apr 2013
85067 posts
Posted on 2/11/19 at 9:57 am to
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Don’t let these morons get you down. You get out of it what you put into it. Sure, you will get frustrated, lose your temper, and it will consume all of your time. That said, it’s the best thing I’ve ever done.
Some of y'all are doing it wrong.
Posted by TH03
Mogadishu
Member since Dec 2008
171037 posts
Posted on 2/11/19 at 9:57 am to
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You get a $2,000 tax credit per kid.


Yeah if you're poor. This is the OT. No one gets this credit.
Posted by LSURussian
Member since Feb 2005
126962 posts
Posted on 2/11/19 at 9:57 am to
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What Is It Like Being a Parent?
It's sort of like doing your own taxes.

There are hours of boredom in between moments of sheer terror....
Posted by LSUBoo
Knoxville, TN
Member since Mar 2006
101923 posts
Posted on 2/11/19 at 9:57 am to
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there is a lot of self-sacrifice involved... time, energy, money etc.


Yes, but if you have a good partner some of that can be minimized.

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My question for you parents is, what is it really like?


Tiring, but rewarding.

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Do you feel joy knowing that you created a life and the satisfaction that comes from raising children?


Yes.

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That moment when you first saw your child after they were born, would you say that was one of the greatest moments of your life?


Yes.
Posted by GetCocky11
Calgary, AB
Member since Oct 2012
51308 posts
Posted on 2/11/19 at 9:59 am to
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You get a $2,000 tax credit per kid.


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Yeah if you're poor. This is the OT. No one gets this credit.



It doesn't phase out until you hit an income of $400k for joint filers. Even by OT standards, that is high.
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