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re: what circumstances led you to break up with your last S/O?
Posted on 7/14/14 at 6:42 am to fnchdrms87
Posted on 7/14/14 at 6:42 am to fnchdrms87
she punched me in the face while she was driving
Posted on 7/14/14 at 6:43 am to bencoleman
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She was severely bi-polar and had been cheating on me, the final straw and what ultimately caused me to spend the better part of two years in jail was coming home early from work and finding her in bed with a twelve year old off her school bus route.
dont date white trash
problem solved
Posted on 7/14/14 at 6:46 am to StraightCashHomey21
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she punched me in the face while she was driving
Don't date trash
Problem solved
Posted on 7/14/14 at 6:48 am to yellowfin
Bitches be crazy
and now is someone else's problem
Married some dude after 3 months b/c he knocked her up. Those military marriages tend to work out
and now is someone else's problem
Married some dude after 3 months b/c he knocked her up. Those military marriages tend to work out

Posted on 7/14/14 at 6:55 am to Iona Fan Man
@ Kashonly
I'm enjoying your posts. Keep your head up.
I'm enjoying your posts. Keep your head up.
Posted on 7/14/14 at 7:10 am to Iona Fan Man
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I have honestly never been in a healthy relationship where there is mutual shared interests beyond sex.
I know I say this a lot, but you should just get her pregnant. You two have a kid and all of a sudden you have a huge mutual interest. All the other stuff, like not really liking each other, will seem small when you start raising a kid together. Sorry to hear you and your girl aren't getting along, but I really think a baby will fix everything. Good luck

Posted on 7/14/14 at 8:09 am to LucasP
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I know I say this a lot, but you should just get her pregnant. You two have a kid and all of a sudden you have a huge mutual interest.


Posted on 7/14/14 at 8:13 am to DirtyMikeandtheBoys
Why you hate babies bro?
Posted on 7/14/14 at 8:13 am to LucasP
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you should just get her pregnant. You two have a kid and all of a sudden you have a huge mutual interest. All the other stuff, like not really liking each other, will seem small when you start raising a kid together. Sorry to hear you and your girl aren't getting along, but I really think a baby will fix everything. Good luck
Posted on 7/14/14 at 8:16 am to Matisyeezy
My ex SO gave me an ultimatum. I laughed at it. She wanted marriage. I thought it was way too soon. She ended up getting mad a month later because I wasn't gonna give in. She left.
She got married to a guy a year and half later and is now divorced.
She got married to a guy a year and half later and is now divorced.
Posted on 7/14/14 at 8:28 am to Iona Fan Man
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I can find dime a dozen "types" of girls, all day every day...but not that unique, over-it-all, old soul grandma that can call a spade a spade, comedic beauty....been over a decade and not a day goes by that I don't think of her.
Was her name Amy?
Posted on 7/14/14 at 8:31 am to fnchdrms87
She gave me bj number before me
Posted on 7/14/14 at 8:33 am to rantfan
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She gave me bj number before me
lolwut
This post was edited on 7/14/14 at 8:34 am
Posted on 7/14/14 at 8:59 am to Paige
Previous one...
Her famly didnt like me. thought i was "braggadocious." I was very observant/respectful of their family dynamic(step-Dad and sisters). I never felt as if I was accepted which led to me trying to share more about myself. Led to the "Braggadocious" claim. looking back it is a good thing. THey are dumb, self righteous and take themselves wayyy too seriously. I am too independant for them.
The girl also had issues relating to her real dad. VERY selfish. would never last.
Current SO may not work out afterall. She is a great girl. But she gets really childish sometimes. Hard to cope with when we have a disagreement. very stubborn.
Her famly didnt like me. thought i was "braggadocious." I was very observant/respectful of their family dynamic(step-Dad and sisters). I never felt as if I was accepted which led to me trying to share more about myself. Led to the "Braggadocious" claim. looking back it is a good thing. THey are dumb, self righteous and take themselves wayyy too seriously. I am too independant for them.
The girl also had issues relating to her real dad. VERY selfish. would never last.
Current SO may not work out afterall. She is a great girl. But she gets really childish sometimes. Hard to cope with when we have a disagreement. very stubborn.
Posted on 7/14/14 at 9:08 am to fnchdrms87
she didn't want me leaving the house to do shite on my own, ever. every day after work she basically wanted me to come home, eat dinner, and sit on the couch watching romantic comedies, or go to the mall, or other shite for her. she'd give me a hard time for going play tennis with my bro-in-law, going jogging, watching an LSU game with my brothers, etc, etc, etc, despite the fact that we spent 5+ days out of the week together. even my weekend excursions were limited to a morning or an afternoon. anything i did wrong (including doing anything on my own) was a good enough reason for her to cut me off and hold a grudge against me for multiple days. after months of fighting and marriage counseling (who sided with me entirely, lol) i finally said frick this and told her i was going to do what i was going to do because it was unreasonable to expect me to be at home all the time. we got into a shouting match about it and the next day she moved back in with her parents (she was still going to LSU). i got served divorce papers two months later.
that relationship was the best thing that ever happened to me. i would have never learned how to stand up for myself if i hadn't gotten stuck with someone like her (who i was pretty madly in love with at one point). now i just don't give a frick. if someone doesn't like me or what i'm doing they can find someone else to be with. it's not worth it trying to make someone else happy if you make yourself miserable in the process, no matter how 'in love' you are with the other person. i'm a lot less idealistic now, but frankly it makes for a better life.
that relationship was the best thing that ever happened to me. i would have never learned how to stand up for myself if i hadn't gotten stuck with someone like her (who i was pretty madly in love with at one point). now i just don't give a frick. if someone doesn't like me or what i'm doing they can find someone else to be with. it's not worth it trying to make someone else happy if you make yourself miserable in the process, no matter how 'in love' you are with the other person. i'm a lot less idealistic now, but frankly it makes for a better life.
Posted on 7/14/14 at 9:10 am to fnchdrms87
Did not particularly enjoy her company. When I realized I didn't even enjoy the sex, it was time to go.
Posted on 7/14/14 at 9:11 am to fnchdrms87
Nothing happened, I had dated her for 1.5 years and decided I didn't want to marry her so I cut my losses.
Posted on 7/14/14 at 9:29 am to fnchdrms87
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I thought she was crazy and spending time with her and her 3 kids was a chore. I was a little bit nicer than that when I cut her loose though.
I was nice the whole way through. I did everything to ensure their happiness. That was the problem. She never appreciated any of it. Life is SO much better now!
ETA: Lasted a year and a half here as well.
This post was edited on 7/14/14 at 9:30 am
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