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re: What age would you be ok with son and friends drinking

Posted on 9/12/15 at 6:50 pm to
Posted by kywildcatfanone
Wildcat Country!
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Posted on 9/12/15 at 6:50 pm to
Trashy is as trashy does.
Posted by WicKed WayZ
Louisiana Forever
Member since Sep 2011
34321 posts
Posted on 9/12/15 at 7:13 pm to
18
Posted by Manatee
Mandeville
Member since Oct 2011
434 posts
Posted on 9/12/15 at 7:48 pm to
Those days are gone.....you are opening yourself up to lawsuits because people cannot accept responsibility for their own kids actions. There was a period when people would collect car keys from all the kids present and parents still sued them.

Posted by DirtyMikeandtheBoys
Member since May 2011
19467 posts
Posted on 9/12/15 at 7:55 pm to
All of my sons high school parties are hosted at my house. Don't get me wrong I have an issue with the drinking, but. I can't figure out a better way to bang high school girls
Posted by The First Cut
Member since Apr 2012
14817 posts
Posted on 9/12/15 at 10:03 pm to
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21. Anything less is trashy as frick and against the law. ...don't be 'that' parent. Sounds like you're the one that needs to grow up fwiw. Not the kid.


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This post was edited on 9/12/15 at 10:08 pm
Posted by RedMustang
Member since Oct 2011
6946 posts
Posted on 9/12/15 at 10:05 pm to
Legal age-21
Posted by TigahJay
New Orleans
Member since Sep 2015
11403 posts
Posted on 9/13/15 at 1:56 am to
Senior year of high school. Don't see the big deal of a couple beers at 18 when no one is driving.
Posted by DawgGONIT
Member since May 2015
2961 posts
Posted on 9/13/15 at 8:11 am to
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21. Anything less is trashy as frick and against the law.


I don't see how the law makes it more ethically and morally right than a parent making a judgment call based off years and years of observation of the subject.

I would say 18 or later. Basically when they graduate HS, I would allow him and friends to drink that night and not ride anywhere.
Posted by bingo
indy-freakin'-anna
Member since Sep 2008
4209 posts
Posted on 9/13/15 at 4:52 pm to
on a practical note, you DO not want to be responsible/liable for providing alcohol or allowing alcohol to be consumed by anyone who is underage and is not your child in your home. the consequences could be huge. it is even a big risk to provide it/allow it to be served at your home to a bunch of irresponsible 21 year olds :).

other than that, you are the parent and have to decide how to raise your own child. i have a college freshman and a second year law school student, have been in your position and would not recommend encouraging underage, hanging out drinking with your child. but, i would also not assume to tell anyone what is "the correct way" to do anything as regards to bringing up children. best of luck! parenting is a long and never ending adventure :)!
Posted by reds on reds on reds
Member since Sep 2013
4969 posts
Posted on 9/13/15 at 5:06 pm to
My parents let me and friends drink at the house sophomore year of high school. Only for football games and stuff like that tho
Posted by lsucoonass
shreveport and east texas
Member since Nov 2003
70143 posts
Posted on 9/13/15 at 5:16 pm to
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Posted by TigerFanInSouthland
Louisiana
Member since Aug 2012
28065 posts
Posted on 9/13/15 at 5:19 pm to
Don't have kids. But my parents allowed it when I went to college. However, they weren't blind to the fact that I drank quite a bit in high school.
Posted by Meatball
Member since Sep 2009
5148 posts
Posted on 9/13/15 at 5:48 pm to
Probably senior year in HS
Posted by Lithium
Member since Dec 2004
64393 posts
Posted on 9/13/15 at 6:17 pm to
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Anything less is trashy as frick and against the law.


Just because something is the law does't make it right. Lithette #3 has a 3.95 Junior in Chemical Engineering. Did a semester in Europe and drinking age is 18. I think it's based on the kid. I started when I was 17 (drinking age was 18) and I've done OK
Posted by GTSwarms
FloRida
Member since Jul 2015
1563 posts
Posted on 9/13/15 at 6:50 pm to




Posted by roberma
Punta Gorda, FL
Member since Jul 2009
310 posts
Posted on 9/13/15 at 7:07 pm to
Since all other countries are 18, our first time being "oK' was in the DR.. Since then, he's not wanted to drink back in the states because he's Mr. " Follow the rules" guy... it was rather odd drinking with our son. But, I grew up in the 18 was the legal age in LA and grandfathered in post Federal crackdown, so I'm good with my son drinking at 18- within reason. Our kids these days are sooo much more less exposed to our freedom.
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
99045 posts
Posted on 9/13/15 at 7:10 pm to
Son - when he's ready

His friends - never
Posted by Andre
Cashier at Stein's Deli
Member since Apr 2009
4301 posts
Posted on 9/13/15 at 7:12 pm to
This is whats wrong with the world. People like you procreate
Posted by Tempratt
Member since Oct 2013
15341 posts
Posted on 9/16/15 at 1:47 pm to
21. Having said that I remember drinking beer at a hifi store grand opening back in the late 70's. Heck my dad and mom both knew I drank beer and did it around them but I never would've been allowed more than one.
It's a totally different litigation riddled world today. As another here called it; pussification of the country.
Posted by TheCaterpillar
Member since Jan 2004
76774 posts
Posted on 9/16/15 at 1:48 pm to
18

My kid in college can drink all the frick he wants.

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