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Venting and discouraged, considering possible move to the Portland area

Posted on 5/26/20 at 5:00 pm
Posted by motoxfmx27
Member since Nov 2011
156 posts
Posted on 5/26/20 at 5:00 pm
I'm apologizing in advance because this is going to be long. I'm a very rare poster. I read this forum daily, but I stay logged out unless I'm posting. I've seen some good advice given to others on here over the years. I'm looking for some advice myself. I'm not looking for attention, pity, or sympathy.

I don't know where to start. I was laid off from my low skill job (building hundreds of box spring frames each week) exactly 2 months ago, give or take a couple days. It was a pretty decent paying job, admittedly due to the company being owned by the father of a childhood friend. I've been given no return to work date and don't expect one in the reasonably near future. I'm chalking it up as permanently lost employment and trying to figure out my next move(s). I just turned 33, which I guess is still fairly young. My employment background is all either construction or manufacturing related. I'm very mechanically inclined. I definitely know my way around vehicles, motorcycles, dirt bikes, etc., but I'm completely self-taught in those areas (no schooling, certificates, etc.). I've worked a couple manufacturing factory jobs in the past and also once worked for my self-employed father as a mason. It's been over a decade since I've done any masonry or factory work. I started college for mechanical engineering right out of high school, but I obviously didn't finish. There are no real opportunities where I live, at least it seems that way to me. I'm honestly sick of the area I live in and have been for years, but comfort, family, and my most recent job has kept me where I am. I've got a couple friends in the Portland area that I have visited at least once a year for the last few years. I've enjoyed the limited time I've spent in that area. I've expressed to my friends up there that I like the area. One of my friends that I have the most in common with has offered me a room in the past. I'm highly considering making the move as early as the end of this year or possibly around spring next year. I've lived in the same place in Arkansas my entire life and would love to try a new place out, even if it only ends up being temporary. I'm worried about not being able to find a decent job if I were to go through with the move. If I were to make the move and drive 2000+ miles, I wouldn't be staying for anything less than a year. I'm very discouraged right now and don't know what to do. I appreciate any advice anyone wants to give.

Thank you.
This post was edited on 5/26/20 at 5:05 pm
Posted by The Third Leg
Idiot Out Wandering Around
Member since May 2014
10052 posts
Posted on 5/26/20 at 5:03 pm to
You’re in luck, they don’t use paragraphs in Portland.
Posted by northshorebamaman
Cochise County AZ
Member since Jul 2009
35496 posts
Posted on 5/26/20 at 5:04 pm to
The dream of the 90's is still alive..
Posted by WillyLoman
On Island Time
Member since Dec 2007
1719 posts
Posted on 5/26/20 at 5:04 pm to
Get into a tech school and get certified as a motorcycle mechanic.
Posted by 50407Tiger
Member since Oct 2019
1227 posts
Posted on 5/26/20 at 5:05 pm to
Don’t worry, be happy.

If you’re miserable, make a change for the better.

I’m sure there are opportunities everywhere, just have to be willing to take advantage of them.
Posted by WillFerrellisking
Member since Jun 2019
700 posts
Posted on 5/26/20 at 5:05 pm to
If you have nothing holding you back then role with it. You’ll never know if you like/hate it unless you give it a try.
Posted by uway
Member since Sep 2004
33109 posts
Posted on 5/26/20 at 5:06 pm to
You're 33. You have time to:
- Move
- Find an entry level job with a contractor that will teach you a trade
- Bust your arse at that job and save everything you can in order to start your own business doing that one day
- Find a 28 year old wife
- Lay a foundation for a very fulfilling life

By the time you turn 40.

Don't take on unnecessary debt, whatever you dom
Posted by TheArrogantCorndog
Highland Rd
Member since Sep 2009
14815 posts
Posted on 5/26/20 at 5:06 pm to
Car plants in Alabama are reopening... get a job there
Posted by Monday
Prairieville
Member since Mar 2013
5005 posts
Posted on 5/26/20 at 5:07 pm to
I'm sorry that you are going through this. My advice has nothing to do with Portland but maybe for your future. You need some attainable goals to work towards professionally. Wether that be towards a certificate or two year program in a field or something else that you are interested in. Having a goal can help you hit benchmarks to never be in this position again. Take this time now to gather yourself and make some moves that will benefit YOU. Comfort will kill dreams and you need to get out of the cycle that you find yourself in. Good luck buddy! You'll find it.
Posted by VirgilCaine
Orchard Park
Member since Dec 2010
2865 posts
Posted on 5/26/20 at 5:08 pm to
Hate to hear about the job - that always stings.

As cliche as it sounds, rock bottom is a great spot to build from. Look at this as an opportunity to pivot and not a dead end.

How much financial runway do you have in terms of job search, etc? If you were to take the plunge and wait 6 months to find work, would you be able to swing it?

Taking measured risks is the best way to make a fortune in this country, but you have to take the risks. Changing markets can be terrifying to a lot of people, but can pay huge dividends. I moved markets when my wife was 6 months pregnant - was the best career decision I've ever made.

Also - you may be more well positioned than you think. Is masonry appealing to you? Maybe find someone in Portland looking for an apprentice. Any of the trades will always be in demand and an enterprising person can really clean up.
Posted by Oswald
South of the St. George Buffer Zone
Member since Aug 2011
3477 posts
Posted on 5/26/20 at 5:08 pm to
Paging SEC Clint.
Posted by Brosef Stalin
Member since Dec 2011
39205 posts
Posted on 5/26/20 at 5:09 pm to
Portland is full of America hating communists. Hope you like antifa being your new police force.
Posted by red sox fan 13
Valley Park
Member since Aug 2018
15351 posts
Posted on 5/26/20 at 5:10 pm to
Inb4 Learn to Code

Seriously though, if you don’t have prospects in Arkansas, try the move and see what you can find. Ask your friends in Portland to browse for job openings.
Posted by GarmischTiger
Humboldt County
Member since Mar 2007
6609 posts
Posted on 5/26/20 at 5:13 pm to
Advice from a 50-year-old.

You are a single guy in his early thirties. If you want to go to Portland - go to Portland.

I wouldn't trade my wife and kids for the world. I am a very happy man.

But in an alternate universe - knowing what I know now - a reset as a single thirty-something would be a friggin' DREAM.

Go do sh*t that you want to do - now.
Posted by MrLarson
Member since Oct 2014
34984 posts
Posted on 5/26/20 at 5:15 pm to
I wouldn't move to Portland. Visiting there and living there might be two totally different things.


You have some masonry background and places like Nashville and Atlanta are paying top dollar for that right now. You just have to gamble on how long the boom in those cities lasts.
Posted by DeltaTigerDelta
Member since Jan 2017
11299 posts
Posted on 5/26/20 at 5:23 pm to
Housing/ rent will be your #1 expense regardless of where you live. That and taxes will be extremely high anywhere on the west coast. Either look for a job at an auto plant in Bama as previously mentioned (Mazda/Toyota in Huntsville is hiring) or become a certified welder or machinist and relo to Georgia or Alabama, save your money and take some great vacations to the west coast. Work hard and create your own good luck!!
Posted by Cwar11
Shreveport
Member since Jan 2010
2291 posts
Posted on 5/26/20 at 5:24 pm to
First thing, you will get through this. With a plan. Don’t make any decision without a plan & attainable goals as mentioned by another poster. Portland is a very expensive place to live, I’m currently making plans to move to the PNW with a 5yr plan. My daughter just turned 18 & graduated high school. I gotta get her started in college and make sure she sustains in college & then I’m out of Louisiana. Fortunately my wife & I both work in the medical field so we can find a job pretty much anywhere. However we are still scared of the cost of living up there. Best of luck, check out the Alabama gig a previous poster mentioned, it might be worth a shot.
Posted by LazloHollyfeld
Steam Tunnel at UNC-G
Member since Apr 2009
1601 posts
Posted on 5/26/20 at 5:25 pm to
Join the SEALS
Get mad poon



Profit
Posted by motoxfmx27
Member since Nov 2011
156 posts
Posted on 5/26/20 at 5:25 pm to
I appreciate you taking the time to respond as you did. I am reading and appreciate everyone's replies.

I could easily handle a 6 month job search if it were to take that long. I enjoy working outside/working with my hands/building, fixing, and working on things. I wouldn't mind trying to get back in with someone doing masonry.

I've thought about becoming certified in one of the mechanic fields (vehicle or motorcycles) as another poster suggested. I've always been involved in off-roading. I may start looking at schooling for CAD or welding.
Posted by LSUBoo
Knoxville, TN
Member since Mar 2006
101920 posts
Posted on 5/26/20 at 5:26 pm to
Go for it.

If you can fix things or build things there will be jobs available and a lot of trades pay really well. Including masonry.
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