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UPDATED: OT flyers - seating question

Posted on 6/8/24 at 12:27 pm
Posted by jbgleason
Bailed out of BTR to God's Country
Member since Mar 2012
19537 posts
Posted on 6/8/24 at 12:27 pm
You board a plane to take your preferred and reserved AISLE or WINDOW seat. As you prepare to sit, the nice gentleman in the middle seat asks if you will swap with his wife two rows back so they can sit together.

She is also in the MIDDLE seat.

What does the OT do?

Does flight length matter?

This just happened to me and I want to see how I turned out. Will update after the OT rules on the subject.

UPDATE. I am sitting in my aisle seat. Dude is next to me fuming and shooting me side glances. He asked and as soon as I saw she was in a middle seat too I said "sorry but I am a pretty big guy and the middle seat isn't comfortable for me." He shot back "it's only a 80 minute flight" (which pissed me off a bit) and I said "exactly, she should be OK for that short period. I was a little surprised the OT sided with me on this.
This post was edited on 6/8/24 at 12:44 pm
Posted by When in Rome
Telegraph Road
Member since Jan 2011
35981 posts
Posted on 6/8/24 at 12:27 pm to
I always say yes because I am a pushover, but the reality is that they should have booked tickets together and nobody should feel obligated to switch.
This post was edited on 6/8/24 at 12:29 pm
Posted by GreenRockTiger
vortex to the whirlpool of despair
Member since Jun 2020
53831 posts
Posted on 6/8/24 at 12:28 pm to
quote:

What does the OT do?
tell him no
Posted by Bama Bird
Member since Dec 2011
Member since Mar 2013
21815 posts
Posted on 6/8/24 at 12:28 pm to
I'm not giving up my window seat for a middle. They should've paid for Main if it mattered that much to them
Posted by lsuguy84
Madisonville
Member since Feb 2009
25034 posts
Posted on 6/8/24 at 12:29 pm to
Flight attendants usually chew their arse for that. Aisle and window are more expensive.
Posted by C9
Member since Aug 2019
141 posts
Posted on 6/8/24 at 12:30 pm to
Not giving up my aisle seat for a middle seat due to someone else's lack of planning. Don't try to make your problem my problem.
Posted by Shaun176
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2008
2724 posts
Posted on 6/8/24 at 12:30 pm to
No trade for a middle seat. Not my fault they bought basic economy seats.

I will trade for another seat in same position, same legroom.
Posted by phil good
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2013
1669 posts
Posted on 6/8/24 at 12:35 pm to
Ask him to trade with his wife so she can sit next to me. Obviously he's a fricking douche for not preparing.
Posted by CuseTiger
Member since Jul 2013
8767 posts
Posted on 6/8/24 at 12:35 pm to
Trade for a window or aisle, but not middle. See if they'll buy you a drink or two during the flight in exchange?
Posted by Czechessential
Member since Apr 2024
1437 posts
Posted on 6/8/24 at 12:36 pm to
quote:

As you prepare to sit, the nice gentleman in the middle seat asks if you will swap with his wife two rows back so they can sit together.



this is quite the dilemma, unfortunately without pics of the wife's tits we are unable to render an opinion at this time
Posted by Ingeniero
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2013
20318 posts
Posted on 6/8/24 at 12:38 pm to
Lie and say "I'm sorry I have bad flight anxiety and need to sit window/aisle or I'll panic" because I'm not good at being a dick to someone's face
Posted by Worldly Bum
Member since Jun 2024
223 posts
Posted on 6/8/24 at 12:38 pm to
Hour and a half or less I'd probably do it. Anything longer than that is a hard no.

The age of the couple would probably play a factor too. I'd be nicer to an elderly couple.
This post was edited on 6/8/24 at 12:45 pm
Posted by CorkSoaker
Member since Oct 2008
9822 posts
Posted on 6/8/24 at 12:40 pm to
I would explain how I paid extra for my seat selection, so unless he wants to Venmo me $50 real quick, my arse ain’t moving.
Posted by jbgleason
Bailed out of BTR to God's Country
Member since Mar 2012
19537 posts
Posted on 6/8/24 at 12:44 pm to
UPDATE in OP.
Posted by LRB1967
Tennessee
Member since Dec 2020
21307 posts
Posted on 6/8/24 at 12:45 pm to
I would say no. Their failure to book seats together is their problem not mine.
Posted by TorchtheFlyingTiger
1st coast
Member since Jan 2008
2671 posts
Posted on 6/8/24 at 12:45 pm to
I'd probably move for a kid and parent to sit together but not adults.

Either;
A) short flight and who cares if 2 grown adults are separated for a bit. ( I may be doing a good deed. Maybe whomever booked it just wants a few moments of space but cant admit it.)
B) long flight and I need to be able to stretch legs in aisle or get up occasionally.
Posted by cubbynole
Member since Mar 2024
94 posts
Posted on 6/8/24 at 12:46 pm to
Hell no. Years ago I was on a regional jet…it may have actually been a turboprop, I was on the exit row and the guy next to me asked if I would switch with his wife who was two rows back. I declined, and of course dude got pissy, so I yelled at the guy sitting next to the guys wife and asked if he wanted to swap with the guy next to me so he could sit with his wife. My seatmate told the guy it wasn’t necessary and the FA walked by and smiled at me holding back a laugh.
Posted by thelawnwranglers
Member since Sep 2007
40524 posts
Posted on 6/8/24 at 12:51 pm to
quote:

the nice gentleman in the middle seat asks if you will swap with his wife two rows


First question you always ask is what seat is she in aka aisle

When they say middle you just say that's a no for me dog


Their poor planning doesn't need to turn into your misery
Posted by DaBeerz
Member since Sep 2004
18047 posts
Posted on 6/8/24 at 12:52 pm to
Nope, I have a bad knee that I need to straighten out..so I choose right side aisle only. I would never book a flight if there were only 2 middle seats and sitting apart so that’s their fault. My response would be a quick no thank you and then back to my earbuds
This post was edited on 6/8/24 at 12:54 pm
Posted by lsujag
Member since Jan 2012
2732 posts
Posted on 6/8/24 at 12:58 pm to
Screw them. They paid for the cheapest ticket they could buy. It doesn’t guarantee they will be seated together. If they wanted to sit together they should have shelled out the extra. Also if it’s a kid, they put an adult in the party together with the child.
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