re: Update (w/a twist): This girl wants a first date that isn't a bar or restaurant.

Clearly she wants to skip straight to anal

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Nice!

So she was telling you what she likes and not shooting down ideas, i think that's an important distinction and gives her a pass on being demanding.

I like some of the ideas thrown out here. Especially since you've already hung out with her, something like bowling sounds good.

If the heat isn't too big of an issue, I think the zoo is one of the better ideas as well.

Lazer tag. You can thank me later.

First dates are a test. Find out two things: How cool is she, How confident is she in herself. Give this a shot: Take her to good will, yall pick out what each other is going to wear on date and you can have fun with it. If she is insecure about it or cant have fun with that then she is probably a drag and single at 31 for a reason.

After picking out crazy clothes to wear head downtown, get some frozen yogurt, walk around and talk to each other. You will learn everything you need to know to see if you want to pursue second date

Take that bitch to the NOLA go-kart track. Go on a nature hike through Jean Lafitte National Park. You got a boat? TAKE THE BITCH FOR A BOAT RIDE!

Dude.

That sounds like so much fun.

I hope I wouldn't lose points for not really being a dessert person. No froyo for me.

But the silly clothes. How fun!

Pack a picnic basket and a bottle of wine and watch the sun set as you sit in traffic on I-10.

Find out what her interest are

Women want men to be thoughtful and creative

Asking her what she wants to do is not what she wants hear.

She wants a surprise, a plan....anything that shows you put some thought into planning time with her.

Having TD help is a step in right direcion

Have her come over to your place.
Make sure you ask her what she likes for breakfast.

(That's only fair. After all, she's cooking it.)

Chuck E. Cheese