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re: Update pg. 7: How to handle a girl that worships her father

Posted on 7/15/17 at 10:59 am to
Posted by danilo
Member since Nov 2008
24719 posts
Posted on 7/15/17 at 10:59 am to
Blacker the berry, sweeter the juice
Posted by Wolfhound45
Member since Nov 2009
125693 posts
Posted on 7/15/17 at 11:06 am to
Dump her. Now. Because you will never measure up.
Posted by Breesus
House of the Rising Sun
Member since Jan 2010
69431 posts
Posted on 7/15/17 at 11:07 am to
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Any good parent should NEVER argue infront of their children


That's probably the worst parenting advice ever given on this board
Posted by nelaZZ
Member since Mar 2017
471 posts
Posted on 7/15/17 at 11:52 am to
Seriously..? You think parents should argue infront of children? You must be from Livingston Parish baw.
Thanks for the abnormal amount of serious OT responses. you would never guess the amount of helpfulness around here, if you just read the rant
Posted by Breesus
House of the Rising Sun
Member since Jan 2010
69431 posts
Posted on 7/15/17 at 12:04 pm to
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Seriously..? You think parents should argue infront of children?


Yes. I don't think you should shelter children from the real world.

People argue.

You should solve those arguments in front of your children as well to show them that it's ok to argue.

What you shouldn't do is argue without ever resolving it.
Posted by ThatMakesSense
Fort Lauderdale
Member since Aug 2015
15281 posts
Posted on 7/15/17 at 12:07 pm to
This is why me and the SO only argue in ASL..little tape recorder can't pick up oir abundant swearing and repeat it loudly in public places.
Posted by 2geaux
Georgia
Member since Feb 2008
2732 posts
Posted on 7/15/17 at 12:17 pm to
Set her straight! I married one and in the 1st year she said something about asking her dad and I just said NO this is us. It never was mentioned again.
Posted by kingbob
Sorrento, LA
Member since Nov 2010
69222 posts
Posted on 7/15/17 at 12:24 pm to
How about you ask her father for advice? One thing that my SO really missed when she moved in was her father's red beans, so I've been learned how to cook them the way he did.
Posted by nelaZZ
Member since Mar 2017
471 posts
Posted on 7/15/17 at 12:36 pm to
Ok, I could get on board with that. Seeing both ends of the spectrum at this point, with her family obviously being perfect, and mine far from it, showing a child that arguement happen and must be resolved actually makes a lot of sense.
Posted by WhiteMandingo
Member since Jan 2016
7436 posts
Posted on 7/15/17 at 12:57 pm to
Pee on him, and if he ever looks you in the eye bite him.
Posted by Lester Earl
3rd Ward
Member since Nov 2003
288035 posts
Posted on 7/15/17 at 1:10 pm to
how old are yall
Posted by nelaZZ
Member since Mar 2017
471 posts
Posted on 7/15/17 at 1:27 pm to
Mid 20's.
Here's another fresh on my mind example:
She currently en route to a supermarket 30 minutes away, for a few items that apparently can't be had where her parents are. Causing a stop to drop off said items, on our trip out of town this evening.
Ok, that's fine, except they drove here A DAY AGO, for the sole reason of going to the mall, and eating with us.
Okay, but maybe when they came down here, they weren't close to the supermarket, I think to myself. So I look at it on maps.

I kid you not when I say the Restaraunt and supermarket have to be within eye sight.

And I'm the a-hole for being genuinely confused why they didn't just swwiinngg by on their way out of town.
Morning life problems, now plastered on the OT. frickit
Posted by NikeShox
Toula Baw
Member since Sep 2016
1251 posts
Posted on 7/15/17 at 1:35 pm to
By the ears
Posted by TbirdSpur2010
ALAMO CITY
Member since Dec 2010
134141 posts
Posted on 7/15/17 at 1:45 pm to
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apparently I don't stack up to her father at all.


Must suck to be a sack of shite
Posted by troyt37
Member since Mar 2008
14658 posts
Posted on 7/15/17 at 1:55 pm to
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I married a woman who thought her father was the greatest man on the planet until the day he died.

That man really didn't like me. But he didn't have to, nor did I have to care.

When my wife mentioned things her dad did she wished I was more like him about, I ignored it.

After a while she quit doing it. I've been married to her almost 40 years and you know who is the greatest man on the planet to her now?

Me.

You boys need to learn some patience and not get your panties in a twist so easily.




All of this. It will be 25 years in a few months, and she has yet to find fault in anything the man does. Ignore it. If you can't, you better bail. He is probably always going to be Mr. Perfect.
Posted by Ed Osteen
Member since Oct 2007
58815 posts
Posted on 7/15/17 at 2:10 pm to
Kill her dad
Posted by Sody Cracker
Distemper Ward
Member since May 2016
3409 posts
Posted on 7/15/17 at 2:17 pm to
quote:

It's the constant comparison of her father and myself.



If applicable, start comparing her to your mother. Apologies if this has already been said.
Posted by thejudge
Westlake, LA
Member since Sep 2009
15031 posts
Posted on 7/15/17 at 3:03 pm to
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She will be the epitome of a nagging wife,


Mother fricking this.

Her dad did everything for her and is awesome for it. If you are not willing to give up all hobbies and fun and just do everything she says or wants done then it won't work out.

Sorry. If you want to have hobbies like fish and hunt you better find someone else.

Let me guess. The man has no hobbies and does nothing but work.
Posted by Geauxtiga
No man's land
Member since Jan 2008
34400 posts
Posted on 7/15/17 at 3:06 pm to
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Let me guess. The man has no hobbies and does nothing but work.
Or loves to hunt and fish and took her, always.

The correct answer is keep her and impregnate. That will slow her arse down.

They say women tend to pick someone like their dad though, so you're probably a lot more like him than you think.
This post was edited on 7/15/17 at 3:10 pm
Posted by Geauxtiga
No man's land
Member since Jan 2008
34400 posts
Posted on 7/15/17 at 3:12 pm to
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or you could just remember to put the damn seat down.
Only if the lid has to be down, too! That way we BOTH have to put effort into using it and not just one. Fair is fair.
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