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re: Update pg. 7: How to handle a girl that worships her father

Posted on 7/17/17 at 3:07 am to
Posted by Hold That Tiger 10
Member since Oct 2013
24636 posts
Posted on 7/17/17 at 3:07 am to
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Just break up w/ the dumb bitch


His GF would probably greatly benefit from this. He has been called out at least twice on the rant for completely making shite up and posting stuff as fact, when he's dead wrong. I am sure this thread is just another example of that.
Posted by 50_Tiger
Arlington TX
Member since Jan 2016
42837 posts
Posted on 7/17/17 at 7:43 am to
We really need the GF input on this
Posted by Hangit
The Green Swamp
Member since Aug 2014
45244 posts
Posted on 7/17/17 at 8:02 am to
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We really need the GF input on this


This is absolutely correct. We also need the OP to step up his participation in his thread. His follow up game is lacking.

Since he does not really tend to his thread I am starting to believe he may be a Volod alter.
Posted by Boudreaux35
BR
Member since Sep 2007
22281 posts
Posted on 7/17/17 at 8:22 am to
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2 year relationship. Just moved in together, and apparently I don't stack up to her father at all.


You just now realized this? After 2 years? I call bullshite. You knew this and thought you could change it by moving in with her. She's going to dominate you until you get out.
Posted by FreddieMac
Baton Rouge
Member since Jun 2010
24832 posts
Posted on 7/17/17 at 9:35 am to
Not sure what is more pathetic. The way this guy is complaining about this woman father or his whining about not being compared to her father. Millennial alert, he wants a participation trophy from his girlfriend. Welcome to the it's all about me, look at me generation.

If you meet a normally adjusted woman that had a great set of parents, why would you not want to emulate that relationship. That is called normal.
This post was edited on 7/17/17 at 9:38 am
Posted by Boudreaux35
BR
Member since Sep 2007
22281 posts
Posted on 7/17/17 at 10:41 am to
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Explained how I did not appreciate comparisons, how I respected her father and his relationship with his family.


quote:

I think you would be tired of dealing with this too.


I'm sure someone in this thread has already mention this technique (after all, its the OT), but here is what you need to do the next time she compares you negatively to her dad. Tell her that you know one area where you are better than her dad, in the sack....At least according to her mom. I will guarantee you will benefit from that discussion shortly.
Posted by ZappBrannigan
Member since Jun 2015
7692 posts
Posted on 7/17/17 at 10:58 am to
I had this exact conversation this weekend.

"My dad taught my brother to sit or put it down..."

I'm not your dad, look before you sit like I look before I pee.


Posted by ZappBrannigan
Member since Jun 2015
7692 posts
Posted on 7/17/17 at 12:35 pm to
This is like a LucasP setup.


Who are you!?
Posted by Goldrush25
San Diego, CA
Member since Oct 2012
33873 posts
Posted on 7/17/17 at 1:14 pm to
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We really need the GF input on this


Two sides to every story. Of course he's going to paint himself as perfectly reasonable and her as completely irrational.
Posted by Geauxnoose
Member since Dec 2015
544 posts
Posted on 7/17/17 at 1:54 pm to
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Next time yur dooin it, ask her how her dad would do it better. Then tell her what you think her mom would do better from her end.


Best comment in this thread!
Posted by Dam Guide
Member since Sep 2005
16522 posts
Posted on 7/17/17 at 2:10 pm to
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Best comment in this thread!


It really is

If she wants to screw her father that is up to her, but you are not her father. Your relationship with her will be based on how you two interact with each other and will not be the same as two completely different people. If she wants that, then she needs to go screw her father.
Posted by Hangit
The Green Swamp
Member since Aug 2014
45244 posts
Posted on 7/17/17 at 5:11 pm to
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If she wants to screw her father that is up to her, but you are not her father


Yet, she wants him to be her father. Are you suggesting that next time they are making the sweet love that he should talk to her the whole time? Should he tell her things her dad would say, like "I am here to change your oil, Your account is close to over drawn so I shifted a couple hundos into it"?

I like the idea of calling her whatever pet name he uses for her. OP, does he call her Puddin', Baby girl, Biscuit head. or what?
This post was edited on 7/17/17 at 5:12 pm
Posted by Honky Lips
Member since Dec 2015
2828 posts
Posted on 7/17/17 at 7:25 pm to
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Millennial alert


You wanna know why Gen X has the highest divorce rate of all time? Just listen to the crap they're spewing in this thread.

One sure way to be in a miserable marriage is to have to pretend you're somebody else.
Posted by HaveMercy
Member since Dec 2014
3000 posts
Posted on 7/17/17 at 7:36 pm to
Yep, that's true - I made it through the 1st 5 pages in this thread. Geez.

My advice to the OP and any dating person contemplating marriage is this: if you've got issues while you're dating; marriage and or children will only amplify those issues. When you date someone, you're in a vacuum of sorts, add forever and kids to the equation and walls begin to press inward - much like the garbage chute in the original Star Wars.
If it's not sunshine and unicorns when your dating; expect rocky roads in a marriage.

PS: sounds like GF's Daddy has been completely whipped by his wife and GF is attempting to do the same to the OP. Some men adapt well to that role; others do not.
This post was edited on 7/17/17 at 7:40 pm
Posted by Lacour
Member since Nov 2009
32949 posts
Posted on 7/17/17 at 7:37 pm to
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PS: sounds like GF's Daddy has been completely whipped by his wife and GF is attempting to do the same to the OP. Some men adept well to that roll; others do not.


Deep sigh.
Posted by Honky Lips
Member since Dec 2015
2828 posts
Posted on 7/17/17 at 7:49 pm to
We all know your "deep sigh" is because Havemercy pretty much described your life.
Posted by llfshoals
Member since Nov 2010
20275 posts
Posted on 7/17/17 at 8:38 pm to
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We all know your "deep sigh" is because Havemercy pretty much described your life.
How long have you been married?
Posted by Honky Lips
Member since Dec 2015
2828 posts
Posted on 7/17/17 at 8:40 pm to
11 years
Posted by llfshoals
Member since Nov 2010
20275 posts
Posted on 7/17/17 at 8:48 pm to
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11 years
He's got double the experience you do, and I've got almost twice his.

He made choices that in addition to making his family happy, they make make him happy.

When you get another decade under your belt, perhaps you'll find out how important that is.
Posted by Honky Lips
Member since Dec 2015
2828 posts
Posted on 7/17/17 at 8:55 pm to
That doesn't mean squat. I've known countless men who were married 20-30 years and "threw in the towel" many years ago.

Maybe letting her wear the pants works for you two. In our house we like each other for who we are. If I married my wife and told her to act like my mother I'd be a controlling POS.
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