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re: True or False - People never get over their first real love
Posted on 7/11/15 at 2:03 pm to redstick13
Posted on 7/11/15 at 2:03 pm to redstick13
I took me a long, long time but I finally did. I wish her well, but I no longer think about what might have been-much.
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Posted on 7/11/15 at 2:04 pm to redstick13
False. Although I thought that to be the case at one time, I eventually met a woman (now my wife) who was superior to my first love and all the others who came later. I couldn't care less what or whom my first love is up to these days. No hard feelings there, I've just moved on.
Posted on 7/11/15 at 2:26 pm to redstick13
I still talk to mine on occasion and we've been done since 1998. We're good friends, that's it. She's still pretty hot but married with 2 kids. We just shared a lot of our lives together and we both talk about our problems.
Posted on 7/11/15 at 2:51 pm to Breesus
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Will you marry me?
I think my current husband might not approve of that.
Posted on 7/11/15 at 2:56 pm to redstick13
I'm definitely over my first love, but there will always be a place in my heart for her and she pops into my head at least once a day(we have a lot of mutual friends and she lives next to my mom so it's unavoidable).
I never think about what could have been; the thoughts of her are all nostalgic as we shared some great experiences. We dated from the time I was 18 up until I was 25, so my relationship with her coincided with the funnest time of my life.
I never think about what could have been; the thoughts of her are all nostalgic as we shared some great experiences. We dated from the time I was 18 up until I was 25, so my relationship with her coincided with the funnest time of my life.
Posted on 7/11/15 at 3:03 pm to redstick13
True- man wonders whether he ponders more over loves lost or loves won.
Posted on 7/11/15 at 4:45 pm to tigerfoot
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True, until il you see pics of em after not seeing them for 26 years.....then so, so, grateful to have been dumped
The above statement is pretty true. Even then, you still have the memories of what was. You just don't want to go beyond that after seeing the pics.
Posted on 7/11/15 at 5:35 pm to redstick13
in my case it's true. we married young, divorced after 2 years.....reconnected, and eventually remarried again after 20 years apart. have loved her since I first set eyes on her. still do.
Posted on 7/11/15 at 5:43 pm to redstick13
this is tricky... while im happy with my wife. And wouldnt trade what i have with her for nothing. I still "think" about my first love sometimes, like when a song pops on, or i smell fresh cut grass at a high school football game, and hear the band play. Just because those are triggers from a time where she was a part of my life. But its nothing like i never got over her or anything... i moved on, so did she. Memories last forever, feelings dont.
Posted on 7/11/15 at 6:00 pm to S
That's deep, bro. <3
Dont think I'll ever be a 100% over mine. Still think about her once/day despite having been with many women since. I'm sure that'll never go away.
Dont think I'll ever be a 100% over mine. Still think about her once/day despite having been with many women since. I'm sure that'll never go away.
Posted on 7/11/15 at 6:53 pm to TheOcean
No doubt breh...same here.
Posted on 7/11/15 at 6:58 pm to redstick13
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True or False - People never get over their first real love
Is the saying true or just bullshite? How many on here still stay harbor feelings for their first real boyfriend or girlfriend and/or maintain contact with them?
False. She turned up preggos at 17 with the guy she banged after me. I dodged a bullet on that one.
Posted on 7/11/15 at 7:05 pm to redstick13
My first love is still nice looking, financially successful and has a very pretty wife. But I do not pine for him. I'm pretty sure we would have made each other very unhappy.
Posted on 7/11/15 at 8:12 pm to redstick13
False
I'm over my first love though I'll always care about her. I don't have feelings for her however.
I love my current girlfriend but i love her differently than my first. Not less, just different. Can't explain it.
I'm over my first love though I'll always care about her. I don't have feelings for her however.
I love my current girlfriend but i love her differently than my first. Not less, just different. Can't explain it.
Posted on 7/12/15 at 12:15 am to Jim Rockford
lol that bitch can get ebola and get raped by humpback wales until she died and i wouldn't lose a wink of sleep
Posted on 7/12/15 at 12:48 am to redstick13
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Is the saying true or just bullshite?
My wife and I were middle school sweethearts, and each other's first love. No matter what, who, or where came between us, we always kept coming back to each other. Now, July 19 is our 7th wedding anniversary, and our first child(a Son!
) is due in Sept. To answer the question fully. I would say it is both true and untrue, I would put it at 50/50.
A guy whose first love was my wife. Texted my her the other day to tell her she would always be his only. That he will be 45 and single because he can never have her.
Then tonight he texted her and said he was thinking about killing himself, and he didnt want her blaming herself if he did. Which is literally only him begging for her attention. Trying to find a way to guilt her into talking to him.
So put him in the Never Get Over column.
Ftr, I am in no way threatened by this weasel. My wife has tried to have a stand-offish friendship because he doesn't have many friends and she pities him. If she lets the friendship get too friendly he instantly starts crossing the line.
Course, I kinda think he just needs some pussy to remind him women exist all around him, not solely in his memories. Should I just go up there, and wing-man for him? So he can get a new chick to get hung up on? I doubt NJ chicks are very hard to get into bed.
or
Should I just slap him right in his giant vagina next time I see him?
It isn't just first loves we get permanantly hung up on.There is one woman, my second love, who I will never fully get over.
This post was edited on 7/12/15 at 12:49 am
Posted on 7/12/15 at 2:12 am to redstick13
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I do know of some areas that are opening up. West Africa is doing well. The problem is the market is flooded with very experienced people out of jobs. If memory serves me correct you are looking to get started in the industry?
Well I have 3 yrs exp but I finally graduated college in Jan. After my start date being pushed twice and having to switch service lines twice I have finally started with SLB. It is going good, have been busy as hell. Offshore right now as a matter of fact. Would love to do D&M for them but they dont have any openings that I am aware of and with the current market situation I am a little hesitant to push anything. Diff still keeping my options open for positions in drilling or at least completions. If you have a lead on anything it would be greatly appreciated.
Posted on 7/12/15 at 2:37 am to redstick13
At least somewhat true for me. It took me a LONG time even though she ended up being a lying slut at the end.
Definitely don't keep in contact with her (we're both married with kids), but I've seen her on FB and she's keeping herself up pretty well.
Definitely don't keep in contact with her (we're both married with kids), but I've seen her on FB and she's keeping herself up pretty well.
Posted on 7/12/15 at 2:40 am to VaBamaMan
quote:humble brag
My wife and I were middle school sweethearts, and each other's first love. No matter what, who, or where came between us, we always kept coming back to each other. Now, July 19 is our 7th wedding anniversary, and our first child(a Son! ) is due in Sept.
To answer the question fully. I would say it is both true and untrue, I would put it at 50/50.
A guy whose first love was my wife. Texted my her the other day to tell her she would always be his only. That he will be 45 and single because he can never have her.
Then tonight he texted her and said he was thinking about killing himself, and he didnt want her blaming herself if he did. Which is literally only him begging for her attention. Trying to find a way to guilt her into talking to him.
So put him in the Never Get Over column.
Ftr, I am in no way threatened by this weasel. My wife has tried to have a stand-offish friendship because he doesn't have many friends and she pities him. If she lets the friendship get too friendly he instantly starts crossing the line.
Course, I kinda think he just needs some pussy to remind him women exist all around him, not solely in his memories. Should I just go up there, and wing-man for him? So he can get a new chick to get hung up on? I doubt NJ chicks are very hard to get into bed.
or
Should I just slap him right in his giant vagina next time I see him?
It isn't just first loves we get permanantly hung up on.There is one woman, my second love, who I will never fully get over.
Posted on 7/12/15 at 4:55 am to vjp819
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in my case it's true. we married young, divorced after 2 years.....reconnected, and eventually remarried again after 20 years apart. have loved her since I first set eyes on her. still do.
You sound like my 1st husband. Your story would give him hope that one day we would be together again.( We had been together almost 2 decades before divorcing).
But years from now if my current husband were to die, would I ever go back to the 1st husband. Who knows?
But the one I will always be madly in love with is my fiance who died.
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