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Posted on 12/1/16 at 12:24 pm to mikelbr
Posted on 12/1/16 at 12:24 pm to mikelbr
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It's not her, it's him.
Nothing about this situation is original. All the old guys here(and IRL) will warn him to no avail. Fast forward to 2025, he'll be at the bar or on some shitty date wondering "what if I had gotten my shite together that Christmas 2016?" and then order another shot or glass of wine to drown his regret.
OP is in the classic lose lose situation.
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Posted on 12/1/16 at 12:25 pm to tigerpimpbot
Someone cliff me
This chick gonna kill herself or something? Why 17 pages?
This chick gonna kill herself or something? Why 17 pages?
Posted on 12/1/16 at 12:27 pm to rintintin
I get what OP is saying.
Just do it and stick to your guns. If you aren't happy, you need a change.
Just do it and stick to your guns. If you aren't happy, you need a change.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 12:50 pm to rintintin
I get it. And I've been in your shoes. Only thing was, we ended up getting married and now I've got a kid on the way. It just took some maturing on my part to get over the hump. Luckily she was still there when I got done trying to frick my life up. You may end up being happier on the weekends and they're a ton of fun single, but being alone on Tuesday night for some reason used to absolutely torture me. Good luck either way, hope you find what you're looking for.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 1:23 pm to rintintin
Lots of I in that post, hence your kind of a selfish prick.
'she's great but I cant stand coming home'...you are fricked up in the head dude...the problem is you not her.
'she's great but I cant stand coming home'...you are fricked up in the head dude...the problem is you not her.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 1:28 pm to Cruiserhog
everyone share this thread on facebook.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 1:29 pm to rintintin
After 2 years at LSU I was going to transfer to be closer to home. I was from Maryland and went to LSU to play golf with moderate success but after 2 years I was done. Met a girl the last week I was at school and came back. I was whipped.
Went out with here for 3 years then broke it off. The day I broke it off one of her friends took her out to talk and she ended up meeting her future husband.
I met my now wife at LSU because I went back for this girl. She met her husband because I called it off.
It all works out.
Went out with here for 3 years then broke it off. The day I broke it off one of her friends took her out to talk and she ended up meeting her future husband.
I met my now wife at LSU because I went back for this girl. She met her husband because I called it off.
It all works out.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 1:33 pm to mizzoukills
quote:
If you are this person, you have two choices: 1) End the relationship now for her sake (and her sanity), or 2) seek personal therapy to help you handle your demons.
OP, if you're reading this, please get counseling before you go and end this relationship, with a psychiatrist/psychologist, counselor, or whatever. Girls like this are hard to find. You really need to make sure that the way you view things isn't a byproduct of depression. It would suck to throw things away and then later realize that it was a big mistake and things would have been better had you been in a better mental state. Good luck
Posted on 12/1/16 at 1:35 pm to cwil177
He really needs to update the OP. There's more than enough reason to break it off.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 1:38 pm to Evil Little Thing
quote:
There's more than enough reason to break it off.
According to his side of the story...which he drastically changed halfway thru the thread.
First he made her look like a saint and stuck with that.
Then, when people pointed the finger at him, he changed his tune and accused her of being a needy emotionally unstable psycho.
All while admitting (under the radar) that he has commitment and trust issues.
Yeah...I don't necessarily believe his story. I think he's the problem and he knows people are onto him.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 1:38 pm to Evil Little Thing
quote:
He really needs to update the OP.
He really needs to set up a facebook page to broadcast this breakup online!
Posted on 12/1/16 at 1:40 pm to mizzoukills
quote:
I think he's the problem and he knows people are onto him.
All the more reason to end it.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 1:41 pm to Boudreaux35
quote:
He really needs to set up a facebook page to broadcast this breakup online!
I 100 percent agree. If this happens, will someone update the thread?
Posted on 12/1/16 at 1:46 pm to rintintin
Have fun with the lying, cheating hoe you end up with. And 10 years from now, you'll be beating yourself up over why didn't you marry the good girl.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 1:47 pm to Boudreaux35
Posted on 12/1/16 at 1:48 pm to terriblegreen
quote:Yep. Chick has a ton of issues, he's talked to her about them. He's been unhappy for a long time.
I get what OP is saying.
Just do it and stick to your guns. If you aren't happy, you need a change.
Posters are just taking the opposite side for the heck of it, but based on the above, why would he NOT break up with her?
I was in a similar situation though not even as bad as his. lived with GF of 4 years, she was a great girl. None of the bag the OP posted. I just wasn't ready to settle down, still wanted to be out partying, and she was in total settle down/never want to do anything mode, which is fine, just not for me at that time. Given that, and it was one of those where I just fell out of love with her and needed to move on.
I did, and I've been perfectly fine since, and I'm sure she has as well.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 1:49 pm to rintintin
End it for her sake. She should start over as soon as possible.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 1:50 pm to cwil177
quote:Counseling? Not sure if I missed something in the 17 pages, but based on the details he gave, he doesn't need counseling to reaffirm his decision.
OP, if you're reading this, please get counseling before you go and end this relationship, with a psychiatrist/psychologist, counselor, or whatever.
quote:Girls like he described are easy to find. The real gems are hard to find, she does not sound like one of those gems.
Girls like this are hard to find.
quote:If he posted that he's currently battling with depression, I retract lol. Then yea, he may want to make sure he's in a better state before making these kinds of decisions.
counselor, or whatever. Girls like this are hard to find.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 1:52 pm to jvilletiger25
quote:You guys must have picked some really shitty chicks to date/marry if the girl he described is the good one.
Have fun with the lying, cheating hoe you end up with. And 10 years from now, you'll be beating yourself up over why didn't you marry the good girl.
Prayers sent.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 1:55 pm to shel311
Is this happening tonight? Does vine still exist? Maybe record it?
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