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re: Those who had expensive weddings

Posted on 2/2/19 at 10:42 pm to
Posted by TH03
Mogadishu
Member since Dec 2008
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Posted on 2/2/19 at 10:42 pm to
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They are asking my parents for $15k. Her parents are chipping in $15k, and they are cashflowing the remaining $20k.


This sounds trashy as hell tbh.
Posted by Bushmaster
19th Hole
Member since Oct 2008
39954 posts
Posted on 2/2/19 at 10:44 pm to
This is all gonna end up great.
Posted by RockyMtnTigerWDE
War Damn Eagle Dad!
Member since Oct 2010
108317 posts
Posted on 2/2/19 at 10:57 pm to
If someone has cash to blow, go for it.

If you need people chipping in then you shouldn't even think about it. It is a waste of funds, and the only thing they will remember most is the money they could have used for real investments.
Posted by mmmmmbeeer
ATL
Member since Nov 2014
10013 posts
Posted on 2/2/19 at 11:00 pm to
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If you need people chipping in


Exactly. If one set of parents were loaded they wouldn't be splitting the cost...seems to indicate both sets of parents are stretching things a bit to chip in $15k. If the brother's fiance knows this to be true, frick her. He needs to run while he can.
Posted by jcaz
Laffy
Member since Aug 2014
18861 posts
Posted on 2/2/19 at 11:03 pm to
Damn.
A wedding in the South shouldn’t come near that.
They serving prime steaks and aged wine for 500
Guests?
Posted by tketaco
Sunnyside, Houston
Member since Jan 2010
21520 posts
Posted on 2/2/19 at 11:04 pm to
Wife and I did a quick wedding to get on the tricare insurance.

Gonna do a big wedding in Acapulco, MX. 50 people, catered, on the beach, mariachi band and fire works. $5k.
Posted by Dellort
Member since Jun 2014
553 posts
Posted on 2/2/19 at 11:10 pm to
I’ve had several friends spend $100k+.

Wish I was making this up. Some had it and while others didn’t. Got to keep up with the Jones’s.
Posted by TH03
Mogadishu
Member since Dec 2008
171955 posts
Posted on 2/2/19 at 11:14 pm to
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Damn.
A wedding in the South shouldn’t come near that.
They serving prime steaks and aged wine for 500
Guests?


What? Have you ever planned a wedding?

With a nice venue, good caterer, and a good band, a big wedding can easily go over $50k quickly. Not to mention an open bar that doesn't come out of plastic bottles or boxed wine.
This post was edited on 2/2/19 at 11:15 pm
Posted by SirSaintly
Uptown, New Orleans
Member since Feb 2013
3187 posts
Posted on 2/2/19 at 11:14 pm to
If that's your sis-in-law in a few years, tell them to save the $50k and just have a trashy beach wedding in the FL panhandle
Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
104454 posts
Posted on 2/2/19 at 11:17 pm to
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Surprised so many people here care about how much people spend on their wedding


Being judgmental is the OT's second favorite pastime.
Posted by dbuchanon
Member since Nov 2014
21044 posts
Posted on 2/2/19 at 11:23 pm to
As a parent, id prefer my daughter did something simple and ill gift the new couple a 20 grand for anything theyd need starting out. These 50k + weddings are a total waste of money imo.
Posted by Sentrius
Fort Rozz
Member since Jun 2011
64757 posts
Posted on 2/2/19 at 11:24 pm to
I'd rather spend that kind of money for a down payment on a nice house, an insane honeymoon or a new truck, not one fleeting little night that doesn't amount to much in the long run.

If you're not rich, someone famous and/or extremely powerful and important, expensive weddings are a goddamn racket and there's no justification for them.
Posted by SirSaintly
Uptown, New Orleans
Member since Feb 2013
3187 posts
Posted on 2/2/19 at 11:24 pm to
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Being judgmental is the OT's second favorite pastime.



Which is hilarious, b/c they all lie about how rich they are and then bitch about expensive weddings

Posted by TH03
Mogadishu
Member since Dec 2008
171955 posts
Posted on 2/2/19 at 11:26 pm to
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not one fleeting little night that doesn't amount to much in the long run.



My wedding was awesome. We talk about it all the time and we have plenty of pictures and video to look back on too.

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expensive weddings are a goddamn racket


This is true.
Posted by Golfer
Member since Nov 2005
75052 posts
Posted on 2/2/19 at 11:29 pm to
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Damn. A wedding in the South shouldn’t come near that. They serving prime steaks and aged wine for 500 Guests?


Even if the entire cost of a wedding was limited to the reception dinner. The meal you described would be over $100/head, and thus, over the $50k amount discussed here.
Posted by Bullfrog
Running Through the Wet Grass
Member since Jul 2010
60508 posts
Posted on 2/3/19 at 12:03 am to
It is easy to spend $40,000 on a Baton Rouge wedding for 220-250 folks.

Not sure if the dress is in there.
Posted by TH03
Mogadishu
Member since Dec 2008
171955 posts
Posted on 2/3/19 at 12:06 am to
Venues alone in Dallas run $10k+ for a Saturday night.

People in the wedding business chose wisely. They upcharge every step of the way.
Posted by Sentrius
Fort Rozz
Member since Jun 2011
64757 posts
Posted on 2/3/19 at 12:26 am to
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My wedding was awesome. We talk about it all the time and we have plenty of pictures and video to look back on too.


That too, can be had at home with something like a big cookout on the 2XL Big Green Egg with like lots of burgers, ribs, steaks, chicken, and so on with plenty of alcohol flowing, the obligatory cake and a spotify playlist on blast.

Lots of leftovers for everyone to take home and probably cost like 2000 to 2500.

Not this 30K to 50K bullshite.
Posted by PhiTiger1764
Lurker since Aug 2003
Member since Oct 2009
14480 posts
Posted on 2/3/19 at 12:41 am to
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Not this 30K to 50K bullshite

We are going through the planning process now. And fortunately for us, her parents are paying for it. It will cost in this range.

It's going to be a 400 person wedding in Baton Rouge. The low end of that range is really not ridiculous at all for that amount of people. It's going to be a nice wedding, but not some extravagant show.

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That too, can be had at home with something like a big cookout on the 2XL Big Green Egg with like lots of burgers, ribs, steaks, chicken, and so on with plenty of alcohol flowing, the obligatory cake and a spotify playlist on blast.

This sounds like it would be a good casual engagement party in the summer.. not a wedding.
Posted by Sentrius
Fort Rozz
Member since Jun 2011
64757 posts
Posted on 2/3/19 at 1:40 am to
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We are going through the planning process now. And fortunately for us, her parents are paying for it. It will cost in this range.


Well sure, I'm not opposed to other people paying money for me and my fiancé to have something nice but it's still preferable for that money to go to something more long term like a down payment on a house, a new truck, a school fund for the kids or a rainy day fund for emergencies.

It may be fun being Prince Charming and Cinderella but it's still only one night and then you turn back into a pumpkin in the morning and have to go back to the real world.
quote:

This sounds like it would be a good casual engagement party in the summer.. not a wedding.


It's a no stress, easy, comfortable, and quiet celebration for family and close friends only. Everyone else deemed not important enough gets engagement/marriage announcements in the mail or they can check out instagram and facebook and put likes and comments on it.

Not everyone wants a 400 person extravaganza with tens of thousands of dollars down the drain for one night only.
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