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Those who had expensive weddings

Posted on 2/2/19 at 5:33 pm
Posted by 3morereps
The Gym
Member since Jun 2015
6735 posts
Posted on 2/2/19 at 5:33 pm
My brother, who has been dating same girl since high school,asked his longtime girlfriend to marry him.

All in they are looking at $50,000!

They are asking my parents for $15k. Her parents are chipping in $15k, and they are cashflowing the remaining $20k.

My question is, if you had an expensive wedding, say $35k+, are you happy you spent that money on your wedding or do you now regret it?

Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
128950 posts
Posted on 2/2/19 at 5:35 pm to
quote:

They are asking my parents for $15k. Her parents are chipping in $15k, and they are cashflowing the remaining $20k.


Seems like their best option would be to do a wedding for 30K then.
Posted by PolyPusher86
St. George
Member since Jun 2010
3357 posts
Posted on 2/2/19 at 5:36 pm to
People have expensive weddings to impress other people.
Posted by lsu13lsu
Member since Jan 2008
11470 posts
Posted on 2/2/19 at 5:37 pm to
This is one of those quarterly OT Threads.
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
136773 posts
Posted on 2/2/19 at 5:37 pm to
quote:

They are asking my parents for $15k


my parents would have laughed in our faces if I asked for 15K for the guys part in a wedding. in the next breath, they would tell me that I needed to dump that fiancee 5 minutes ago

It is the responsibility of the bride's family to take care of the wedding. The groom takes care of the rehearsal dinner and the honeymoon
This post was edited on 2/2/19 at 5:38 pm
Posted by Beessnax
Member since Nov 2015
9117 posts
Posted on 2/2/19 at 5:37 pm to
quote:

Seems like their best option would be to do a wedding for 30K then.


This is the best answer! Don't fall for the competition of overspending. They should save their own money for a nest egg
Posted by Dawgholio
Bugtussle
Member since Oct 2015
13047 posts
Posted on 2/2/19 at 5:37 pm to
Huge waste of money. I’d do it for $5k and keep the rest
Posted by SeeeeK
some where
Member since Sep 2012
28021 posts
Posted on 2/2/19 at 5:37 pm to
We had a really nice wedding for 12K

People get stupid and just whizz cash away.
Posted by Hangit
The Green Swamp
Member since Aug 2014
38979 posts
Posted on 2/2/19 at 5:37 pm to
They will be better off if they go to a JP and put the money down on a house.

Which one of them wants the Princess wedding? Whichever one it is will keep them poor, squandering their cash until the inevitable divorce.
Posted by BigOrangeBri
Nashville- 4th & 19
Member since Jul 2012
12249 posts
Posted on 2/2/19 at 5:38 pm to
Your brother is stupid and if I were your parents I'd tell him to frick himself
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
128950 posts
Posted on 2/2/19 at 5:38 pm to
quote:

My brother, who has been dating same girl since high school,asked his longtime girlfriend to marry him.



How old are they?
Posted by Capital Cajun
Over Yonder
Member since Aug 2007
5525 posts
Posted on 2/2/19 at 5:39 pm to
Tell you brother to take most of that cash and put as a down payment on a home and use a little bit of it to have a big party after they have a small wedding ceremony with family and close friends.

Have a best man and a maid of honor and skip all the formalities.
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
48275 posts
Posted on 2/2/19 at 5:41 pm to
I spent about 3k on a Vegas wedding. No ragrets
Posted by weadjust
Member since Aug 2012
15074 posts
Posted on 2/2/19 at 5:41 pm to
quote:

All in they are looking at $50,000


You could buy a sweet double wide for 50K
Posted by 3morereps
The Gym
Member since Jun 2015
6735 posts
Posted on 2/2/19 at 5:41 pm to
Princess wedding is her idea. Brother 26. She is 25. There is no doubt it they would be better off finamcially saving the money or using it for a down payment. I try to explain that and the rebutle is yeah, but we'll only get married once and i can make always make more money.

Posted by Ricardo
Member since Sep 2016
4840 posts
Posted on 2/2/19 at 5:41 pm to
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This post was edited on 6/14/20 at 10:03 pm
Posted by SeeeeK
some where
Member since Sep 2012
28021 posts
Posted on 2/2/19 at 5:41 pm to
quote:

You could buy a sweet double wide for 50K


with or w/o wood paneling?
Posted by keks tadpole
Yellow Leaf Creek
Member since Feb 2017
7563 posts
Posted on 2/2/19 at 5:41 pm to
Unless there is liquidity in the mix, expensive weddings are a waste of money and, since 2008, imo, boorish.

Not to mention the statistic probability of paying for a second one.
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
136773 posts
Posted on 2/2/19 at 5:42 pm to
quote:

they are cashflowing the remaining $20k


this really reads like they will be taking out a loan. Please tell me this is true
This post was edited on 2/2/19 at 5:44 pm
Posted by 3morereps
The Gym
Member since Jun 2015
6735 posts
Posted on 2/2/19 at 5:43 pm to
No debt, they would cut a check
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