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re: The Sad State of Affairs for Dating

Posted on 9/15/19 at 1:01 pm to
Posted by DustyDinkleman
Here
Member since Feb 2012
19368 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 1:01 pm to
That’s the most boring string of texts I’ve ever read and I’m a vanilla white dude.

You’ll only land fat chicks with that line of questioning.
Posted by jcaz
Laffy
Member since Aug 2014
18812 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 1:05 pm to
Holy shite that’s a keeper. Haven’t even met in person and she’s acting like a pissy wife
Posted by The Boat
Member since Oct 2008
175885 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 1:09 pm to
Unless she was really hot it's not worth worrying about. You'll find another dime a dozen chick in no time.
Posted by finchmeister08
Member since Mar 2011
39737 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 1:10 pm to
PIIHB and move on.
Posted by MrFreakinMiyagi
Reseda
Member since Feb 2007
19705 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 1:12 pm to
She’s a keeper
Posted by Bigfishchoupique
Member since Jul 2017
9481 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 1:14 pm to
This relationship would have a better chance with a man in n it. Sounds like you are a bitch.
Posted by eScott
Member since Oct 2008
11376 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 1:22 pm to
OP needs to get used to being the weird single uncle.
Posted by bucknut
Lufkin, Texas
Member since Dec 2013
1838 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 1:38 pm to
quote:

Her was my final message to her:

I am now going to block you. Who are you again? I don't have to justify my life or my schedule to you. Actually just so you know I don't take my phone with me when I'm working out and sometimes I'll even leave it at home. I don't believe in being constantly attached to my phone.

Multitasking has proven to actually be less productive. I might not always respond immediately but whatever I am doing or whoever I am speaking with will always get my undivided attention and I will not apologize for that. People like you who always try to multitask is why we have wrecks on our roads every day and why the world has become such a cold place.

I am ending this because it's obvious you are controlling. You are coming off as the type who would want to know where her SO is at all times. Just an observation on my end. In the future try to be more considerate and understand that for most people dating is just a part of their life and not even a crazy important part of their life at that. Good luck.


You sound like an incel
Posted by Clames
Member since Oct 2010
18926 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 1:39 pm to
quote:

Are men that desperate that they're willing to do ANYTHING to get a woman to go out with them?


No, you're just a count. Guy probably wasn't all that attached to his beard and was only trying be accomodating on a very minor thing.
Posted by Pechon
unperson
Member since Oct 2011
7748 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 1:41 pm to
quote:

I told a guy I didn't like facial hair and his response was "I can shave."


I had a woman tell me that and I said "Sorry you feel that way, I like the beard and many other women do too". Nothing wrong with that, we all have our preferences.

quote:

Are men that desperate that they're willing to do ANYTHING to get a woman to go out with them?


Not all of us are. I've also met some stage 3 clingers, one even texted me from another number wondering why I didn't talk to her anymore. Had one who wanted to hang out at my house when we haven't met in person yet. More recently I had dated one for a few months, broke up with her after she lied about her past (pretty big thing too), and blew up my phone for four days even after blocking her number. She even decided to reach out to my friends thinking they'd get them on her side.

Fun times, fun times.
Posted by deltaland
Member since Mar 2011
100579 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 1:42 pm to
Phones today have changed dating for the worst because women do expect you to talk to them all day throughout the day. Then when you see each other you have nothing to talk about
Posted by lsuwontonwrap
Member since Aug 2012
34147 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 1:44 pm to
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Woman: Lol I'm sorry you call going to the gym and helping with homework busy?


This is where you end the conversation next time. If she's throwing this kind of attitude in a "getting to know you" message...Jesus Christ.
Posted by Red Stick Tigress
Tiger Stadium
Member since Nov 2005
20358 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 1:51 pm to
quote:

I had a woman tell me that and I said "Sorry you feel that way, I like the beard and many other women do too". Nothing wrong with that, we all have our preferences.


And that's what you should say. As I stated previously, you shouldn't have to change the way you are for anyone.

Posted by 2geaux
Georgia
Member since Feb 2008
2738 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 2:15 pm to
Dating has become texting? I am an old timer but I'll take the personal contact over texting any day!
Posted by biglego
San Francisco
Member since Nov 2007
83177 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 2:56 pm to
She’s not wrong. You start a conversation then don’t reply for 12 hours and all you keep saying is how busy you are, and yet you don’t sound busy at all. Working out and helping with homework? Bruh. You had your phone on you the entire time. It takes 10 seconds to send a message to meet up somewhere.
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
53112 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 2:59 pm to
quote:

Dating has become texting? I am an old timer but I'll take the personal contact over texting any day!

I've never been on a dating app either. I met my wife at a bar
Posted by eScott
Member since Oct 2008
11376 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 2:59 pm to
It's because he wasn't working out and helping with homework, he was with his wife!
Posted by lsu xman
Member since Oct 2006
16713 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 3:01 pm to
You can text while sitting on the can for 5 minutes.
Posted by StringedInstruments
Member since Oct 2013
20529 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 3:04 pm to
quote:

you have zero game and will not be getting laid anytime soon


Agreed.

Dude started the conversation with “how is your week?” Like he was checking in on his mother.

Then rationalizing and defending his lack of texting her.

Posted by efrad
Member since Nov 2007
18702 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 3:13 pm to
quote:

Had one who wanted to hang out at my house when we haven't met in person yet.


yeah i think that's called sex, dude.
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