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re: The Sad State of Affairs for Dating

Posted on 9/15/19 at 9:16 am to
Posted by cgrand
HAMMOND
Member since Oct 2009
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Posted on 9/15/19 at 9:16 am to
you have zero game and will not be getting laid anytime soon
Posted by Winston Cup
Dallas Cowboys Fan
Member since May 2016
65497 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 9:16 am to
Next time send her an unsolicited dick pick. She clearly just wants to bang.
Posted by jimbeam
University of LSU
Member since Oct 2011
75703 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 9:17 am to
Wow
Posted by Janky
Team Primo
Member since Jun 2011
35957 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 9:17 am to
Well, that wasn’t beta at all.
Posted by Proximo
Member since Aug 2011
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Posted on 9/15/19 at 9:17 am to
Posted by cgrand
HAMMOND
Member since Oct 2009
38815 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 9:17 am to
also, abide by the rules of the 2-way radio...more than ten words is a phone call
Posted by Winston Cup
Dallas Cowboys Fan
Member since May 2016
65497 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 9:17 am to
The good news is now you will have plenty of free time to masturbate
Posted by helluvaday
Member since Jun 2018
443 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 9:17 am to
I would have left it at the first paragraph. You went a little too much into detailing/excusing yourself.

But yeah, that lady seems unhinged too.
Posted by LSUButt
Lowcountry
Member since Jan 2006
14930 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 9:18 am to
quote:

BeachsideSaint


Although she certainly shouldn't have called you out because she doesn't know you and it's rude, you can't just leave a conversation for 12 hours and say you were busy. Y'all are both wrong to a certain degree.

In this day in age, replies that take a long time are by choice. Either because the person is playing a game or because they don't care. By long time I mean anything over...lets say 2 hours. If I were trying to get to know someone and over the course of 3 days they responded twice a day I'd be frustrated. I would have just stopped responding to you, but she's clearly a crazy that felt the need to "lol" then come at you.

In the future, if you want to actually date and get to know someone, be more receptive to texting back, call them, actually meet in person.
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
136811 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 9:20 am to
quote:

Her was my final message to her:

I am now going to block you. Who are you again? I don't have to justify my life or my schedule to you. Actually just so you know I don't take my phone with me when I'm working out and sometimes I'll even leave it at home. I don't believe in being constantly attached to my phone.

Multitasking has proven to actually be less productive. I might not always respond immediately but whatever I am doing or whoever I am speaking with will always get my undivided attention and I will not apologize for that. People like you who always try to multitask is why we have wrecks on our roads every day and why the world has become such a cold place.

I am ending this because it's obvious you are controlling. You are coming off as the type who would want to know where her SO is at all times. Just an observation on my end. In the future try to be more considerate and understand that for most people dating is just a part of their life and not even a crazy important part of their life at that. Good luck.
looks like you both dodged bullets

Sheesh
Posted by BeachsideSaint
Member since Sep 2019
12 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 9:21 am to
quote:

Someone who wants you to immediately reply and start a long series of text conversations does not actually want to meet you. They just want attention from you.

You have to discern who is serious about dating and who is not. You are correct in delaying your responses and keeping conversations short. The conversations that you do have should be driven toward an initial meeting. That’s when you deliver conversation-wise.



Agreed. I try to keep the messages short and usually 4 or 5 messages and then see if she wants to meet up. Like you said too many women on these dating apps just seem to want attention.
Posted by castorinho
13623 posts
Member since Nov 2010
82032 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 9:22 am to
quote:

Her was my final message to her:

I am now going to block you. Who are you again? I don't have to justify my life or my schedule to you. Actually just so you know I don't take my phone with me when I'm working out and sometimes I'll even leave it at home. I don't believe in being constantly attached to my phone.

Multitasking has proven to actually be less productive. I might not always respond immediately but whatever I am doing or whoever I am speaking with will always get my undivided attention and I will not apologize for that. People like you who always try to multitask is why we have wrecks on our roads every day and why the world has become such a cold place.

I am ending this because it's obvious you are controlling. You are coming off as the type who would want to know where her SO is at all times. Just an observation on my end. In the future try to be more considerate and understand that for most people dating is just a part of their life and not even a crazy important part of their life at that. Good luck.



Absolutely unnecessary and borderline cringey.
Posted by LSUwag
Florida man
Member since Jan 2007
17319 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 9:23 am to
Good choice to dump her. She sounds horrible based on that conversation.

Advice: Women are all lazy and hate to work but they always want to feel like they work more than you. Don’t talk about work unless you work in a similar field. Talk about generic stuff instead.avoid talking about yourself. Women like to talk about themselves.

I pity anybody who in in the dating scene today. The internet has ruined it.
Posted by BeachsideSaint
Member since Sep 2019
12 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 9:26 am to
And here's the thing, I understand that 12 hours is a long time and I was willing to apologize for taking so long. I'm not usually crazy busy on Saturdays but this Saturday was an exception and the day got away from me. But the fact that she seemed to not understand that showed a lack of empathy to me. That's the type of thing that psychopaths are known to have.
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
97645 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 9:27 am to
Both of you are crazy, probably would have worked out
Posted by BurningHeart
Member since Jan 2017
9520 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 9:27 am to
quote:

Her was my final message to her:

I am now going to block you. Who are you again? I don't have to justify my life or my schedule to you. Actually just so you know I don't take my phone with me when I'm working out and sometimes I'll even leave it at home. I don't believe in being constantly attached to my phone.

Multitasking has proven to actually be less productive. I might not always respond immediately but whatever I am doing or whoever I am speaking with will always get my undivided attention and I will not apologize for that. People like you who always try to multitask is why we have wrecks on our roads every day and why the world has become such a cold place.

I am ending this because it's obvious you are controlling. You are coming off as the type who would want to know where her SO is at all times. Just an observation on my end. In the future try to be more considerate and understand that for most people dating is just a part of their life and not even a crazy important part of their life at that. Good luck.



Posted by BeachsideSaint
Member since Sep 2019
12 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 9:30 am to
quote:

Both of you are crazy, probably would have worked out


Would you care to explain your reasoning behind this?
Posted by helluvaday
Member since Jun 2018
443 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 9:31 am to
Because your response should have been

quote:

 I don't have to justify my life or my schedule to you. good luck.


And then blocked. Or just blocked.

Posted by upgrayedd
Lifting at Tobin's house
Member since Mar 2013
134865 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 9:33 am to
What a bizarre response. She's probably telling her friends she's happy that she dodged a bullet with you.
Posted by prplhze2000
Parts Unknown
Member since Jan 2007
51414 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 9:33 am to
You work, you achieve, she doesn't. Yet she reserves the right to bitch about what it requires for you to be successful while she doesn't do it herself.
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