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Posted on 7/17/24 at 12:40 pm to Aspercel
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If someone isn’t going to meet my emotional needs, I’m not going to meet their physical
Sorry that Doom Spiral happened to you. We should all have our emotional and sexual needs met.
Posted on 7/17/24 at 12:41 pm to Lsupimp
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I’m here to tell you that it’s not “ cheating “ if your spouse cuts off sex . It’s self preservation.
Of course it is.
If she absolutely won’t have sex with you and there’s nothing she’s willing to change then you leave. Violating your vows is violating your vows.
Posted on 7/17/24 at 12:42 pm to Aspercel
quote:marriage counselors will tell you this. Lack of sex is a symptom of other problems in the marriage.
Cutting off sex usually has a direct correlation for things lacking elsewhere.
Posted on 7/17/24 at 12:43 pm to Lsupimp
Who says that happened to me? 
I’m just stating a boundary that I have in life. I think a lot of women probably feel the same.
I’m just stating a boundary that I have in life. I think a lot of women probably feel the same.
Posted on 7/17/24 at 12:44 pm to madamsquirrel
No. 5-10 times per week.
Posted on 7/17/24 at 12:44 pm to Dadren
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nothing she’s willing to change
To be fair, both probably need to make changes, not just her.
Posted on 7/17/24 at 12:52 pm to Aspercel
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If someone isn’t going to meet my emotional needs, I’m not going to meet their physical ones.
But, don't you think most women have a very limited view of what "emotional" needs are? You also have an emotional need for financial security, safety, etc. He's meeting those emotional needs. What does he get for it?
Asking honestly. Do you initiate hugs and attention to your husband/man by telling him how great it is that he's able to provide and keep the family safe? Do you do that every day? Of course not. Every once and a while.
When he sweats his arse off for hours on the weekend, do you tell him how much you appreciate the hard work?
You may...but most don't. Women just expect that men will do that for the women on every other task performed. Every time.
Posted on 7/17/24 at 12:58 pm to Ex-Popcorn
Precisely. Women are human beings, their worth is assured at birth by virtue of their uterus. The value is innate. Men are human doings, completely replaceable and disposable and have to earn their worth by succeeding in the male hierarchy.If your man has done that, is winning, has brought the security and status you need, and you aren’t affectionate and loving to him, you are telling him that he is not worthy. Which is what makes men fall in to despair.
TLDR; blow your husband tonight after work. He needs it.
TLDR; blow your husband tonight after work. He needs it.
Posted on 7/17/24 at 12:59 pm to madamsquirrel
I have it but not as often as I like.
Posted on 7/17/24 at 1:00 pm to Ex-Popcorn
Dude… that’s big of you to assume I’ve ever had a man financially and physically take care of me, whether married or not
Definitely not the case.
There’s a lot of projection in that whole second paragraph. I’ve also never had a man sweat and do hard work for me to respond to if I want something done, I generally do it myself. I’m pretty handy.
To somewhat vaguely respond to you, I always make sure any man I’ve either dated or been married to knows how much I appreciate things
I think expecting to not be verbally and emotionally abused and every now and then want communication really isn’t that much to ask for if you are sleeping with someone
Definitely not the case.
There’s a lot of projection in that whole second paragraph. I’ve also never had a man sweat and do hard work for me to respond to
if I want something done, I generally do it myself. I’m pretty handy. To somewhat vaguely respond to you, I always make sure any man I’ve either dated or been married to knows how much I appreciate things
I think expecting to not be verbally and emotionally abused and every now and then want communication really isn’t that much to ask for if you are sleeping with someone
Posted on 7/17/24 at 1:02 pm to Lsupimp
I know you asked about me man hating earlier, but you are coming off pretty bitter and weird towards the end of this thread
Posted on 7/17/24 at 1:03 pm to madamsquirrel
if you're not having sex, you're not married you have a room mate
Posted on 7/17/24 at 1:06 pm to Aspercel
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Bitter and weird.
You could have just responded in good faith. At least you didn’t say “ creepy “ or use an incel reference. Which is generally what women do when they become emotionally overloaded and fall back on shame to try to control the conversation.
Posted on 7/17/24 at 1:06 pm to Aspercel
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Dude… that’s big of you to assume I’ve ever had a man financially and physically take care of me, whether married or not
Definitely not the case.
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I’ve also never had a man sweat and do hard work for me
Got it. Cat lady. Carry on.
Posted on 7/17/24 at 1:07 pm to madamsquirrel
Its about once every 2 weeks after being married 15 years. I figure that is about average or better so I guess I can't complain too much.
Posted on 7/17/24 at 1:10 pm to Ex-Popcorn
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Horse lady
Fify. I don’t like cats.
This post was edited on 7/17/24 at 1:11 pm
Posted on 7/17/24 at 1:11 pm to Lsupimp
You aren’t creepy
You can’t tell me your last few posts don’t come off as bitter or a little weird.
You can’t tell me your last few posts don’t come off as bitter or a little weird.
This post was edited on 7/17/24 at 1:12 pm
Posted on 7/17/24 at 1:11 pm to Don Quixote
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if you're not having sex, you're not married you have a room mate
and a room mate thats a female. The worst kinda room mate.
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