re: Starting to date an ex fatty

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Slim. It’s good that she wasn’t desirable in college, at worst she sucked a lot of dicks. She knows how to work the weight off, and how difficult it is, so I’d doubt she’d slip that far again.

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Haha, yeah good one Gaston


In reality...

Haven’t Met her mom yet but I have met them guts

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A girl I started seeing used to be fat. I found out the other night while going through some of her wild Facebook photos that she used to be large. If I had to guess I’d say she lost somewhere between 50-75 pounds between college and where she’s at now. To her credit she wasn’t always fat she was skinny in high school then blew up in college. My question is what are the chances that fatness comes back? I don’t want to jump onto a ticking time bomb

She’s been skinny for about a year now I believe maybe 2

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You should try and find out how she went about losing the weight. that could tell the story on whether or not she'll be able to continue to maintain her current physique. If she took the easy way out (surgery) or did something extremely drastic with her eating habits then she'll likely gain it back. If she actually adjusted her way of life and lost the weight at a realistic rate over an extended period of time, then I'd feel more comfortable about her maintaining.

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To her credit she wasn’t always fat she was skinny in high school

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So she wasn’t a

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hawgsincebirth

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50-75 pounds between college and where she’s at now

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If she had gained the normal 10-15lbs in college I would not be that alarmed but 50-75lbs? Yea, she will have trouble not getting fat again that is almost a certainty... Sorry man.

I have a friend that seems to only date ex fatties. Every damn one of them are mental. All of the relationships end because of infidelity on their part. Guess having dick thrown at them all the time is a new thing for them and they just cant resist.

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Just make it clear that you have limits as far as weight on girls you date that you’re willing to accept, and going above that outside of pregnancy will lead to problems if the girl refuses to do anything about it

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Years ago when I used dating apps a girl asked what I look for in a girl. I said a few of the normal bullshite things every guy says when asked this question and I also said that she couldn't be huge, chubby is fine.

From looking at the pictures this girl looked like average weight, 5'6 135 or so. She asked what do you mean by huge? I said can't be over 200 that's getting close to my size. This girl lost her shite on me hardcore. Definitely dodged a bullet there.

The good thing about an ex fat chick is that they’re typically more willing to put out than the non-fats.

You aren’t marrying her.

Smash that booty and when she blows up, move on.


You marry runners.

All depends on the person. Used to work with a woman that lost a significant amount of weight. Almost a decade later she still kept the weight off even after two kids. Some people just don't want to go back the way they were