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re: Spin-off: are you still friends with your ex(es)?

Posted on 4/7/14 at 2:14 am to
Posted by Wolf
Member since Sep 2005
1336 posts
Posted on 4/7/14 at 2:14 am to
I dated my wife older sister a few years before we got together (Late middle school and early HS). That ended on friendly terms and wasn't really serious so there was no bad blood there. As for the other 2 in between, the first one i was cool with up until she moved up north a few years ago and the other one i wouldn't piss on if she was on fire. I have no idea what happened to her phyco arse (She sliced my hand with a butcher knife)
This post was edited on 4/7/14 at 2:16 am
Posted by LouisianaChessie
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since May 2010
2582 posts
Posted on 4/7/14 at 2:22 am to
Absolutely not.
Posted by TbirdSpur2010
ALAMO CITY
Member since Dec 2010
134141 posts
Posted on 4/7/14 at 2:56 am to
Yup. Don't live near her though and we broke up on good terms, so it's not exactly a big deal.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129146 posts
Posted on 4/7/14 at 2:58 am to
No
Posted by molsusports
Member since Jul 2004
37107 posts
Posted on 4/7/14 at 3:04 am to
For the most part theoretical friends I suppose. As in I don't keep in contact but it wouldn't be hostile if we ran into each other randomly. Once you're done dating generally its not going to be a regular friendship.

I suppose moving a few times over the last 10-15 years changes things for me too. I'm not even in the same time zone as most of them.
Posted by Doc Fenton
New York, NY
Member since Feb 2007
52698 posts
Posted on 4/7/14 at 3:28 am to
Not really
Posted by GEAUXmedic
Premium Member
Member since Nov 2011
42049 posts
Posted on 4/7/14 at 3:37 am to
I'm friends with my son's mom, cause we never really had a serious relationship... and im friendly with my ex wife cause she decided to stop being a twat. They're both 1200 miles away from me though so im good.
Posted by Doc Fenton
New York, NY
Member since Feb 2007
52698 posts
Posted on 4/7/14 at 3:47 am to
Yeah, it's usually easier if things were never really serious. I've often dated women for just a couple of weeks, and then remain friends after; a lot of that is knowing that we're still attracted to each other though, and a couple of times it's resulted in 2nd shot relationships a year or two later.
Posted by Sophandros
Victoria Concordia Crescit
Member since Feb 2005
45219 posts
Posted on 4/7/14 at 5:49 am to
Some I am.

Depends on what the relationship was like and how the breakup went.
Posted by StraightCashHomey21
Aberdeen,NC
Member since Jul 2009
126599 posts
Posted on 4/7/14 at 5:50 am to
yea we are still cool after we had a talk a few months ago. But shes on some kid shite deleting me on fb then adding me back. My gf gets really insecure about her.

I'll be cool with the ex, I really don't care esp b/c she just got married after dating a dude for 4 months who lived 5 hours away. Just proves I made the right choice after 3 years and she is crazy and only wanted to get married, didn't matter who it was.

We broke up on bad terms, she punched me in the face then started screaming she was prego to my mom infront of my house. First time we saw each other about a year later when i was home on leave, being the new found skank she was(pretty sure she cheated on me) she grabs some random dude infront of me and starts making out. Next day she says she has a new bf down at ft bragg 4 months later boom shes married.
This post was edited on 4/7/14 at 5:55 am
Posted by TeamWillow
Madmartigan's
Member since Jan 2010
403 posts
Posted on 4/7/14 at 6:01 am to
quote:

We broke up on bad terms, she punched me in the face then started screaming she was prego to my mom infront of my house.





:beltwayproblems:
Posted by prostyleoffensetime
Mississippi
Member since Aug 2009
12234 posts
Posted on 4/7/14 at 6:05 am to
Yeah I'm friends with one of them. Probably a little more than friends. I hate snapchat, but she sends me one or two about every day. It's one of those deals where I can see me and her trying it out again and making it work pretty easily, but she's not wanting to get into a relationship. Seems like she just wants to stay in contact enough to make sure I don't forget about her until she is ready to start something.
Posted by Dam Guide
Member since Sep 2005
16540 posts
Posted on 4/7/14 at 6:18 am to
Nope, I burned those bridges to the ground, had no reason to keep them though. None of them are ex wives or baby mamas.
Posted by WTIGER
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2011
991 posts
Posted on 4/7/14 at 6:24 am to
No way
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
32982 posts
Posted on 4/7/14 at 6:55 am to
quote:

Yeah I'm friends with one of them. Probably a little more than friends. I hate snapchat, but she sends me one or two about every day. It's one of those deals where I can see me and her trying it out again and making it work pretty easily, but she's not wanting to get into a relationship. Seems like she just wants to stay in contact enough to make sure I don't forget about her until she is ready to start something.


man, it sounds like she has you exactly where she wants you. strings you along with no real interest in you, but keeps you around for whenever she needs a little confidence boost.

:friendzone:
Posted by FootballNostradamus
Member since Nov 2009
20509 posts
Posted on 4/7/14 at 6:56 am to
quote:

A couple of them... though it definitely took time to get there and we don't really "hang out" just talk pretty often.


This.

I know a couple people who never took that real break to move on and I don't think they ever have. They're forever hoping it will turn around, because they never really turned the corner.

I'm friendly with 1. F the other.
Posted by cjared036
Houston, tx
Member since Dec 2009
9569 posts
Posted on 4/7/14 at 7:03 am to
I'm friendly but not past asking how things are. She's selfish as hell. Looking back on it all she had a pretty bad attitude...

She also said some crap that found it's way back to me.

I get pressure from mutual friends on why we are not closer friends. But they are just as dumb as her....
Posted by Monday
Prairieville
Member since Mar 2013
5134 posts
Posted on 4/7/14 at 7:09 am to
Nope.
Posted by Thib-a-doe Tiger
Member since Nov 2012
36547 posts
Posted on 4/7/14 at 7:12 am to
All of them live in Texas
Posted by prostyleoffensetime
Mississippi
Member since Aug 2009
12234 posts
Posted on 4/7/14 at 7:16 am to
quote:

man, it sounds like she has you exactly where she wants you. strings you along with no real interest in you, but keeps you around for whenever she needs a little confidence boost


You're pretty close. She does have real interest in me though. She's best friends with my cousin and has told her there's something there. I'm about to get super busy at work and she's about to start her first job out of grad school, so I'm just going to float the boat for a little while and whatever happens happens. If nothing happens then I'll move on. It's no big deal to me anymore.
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