re: So I'm suppose to help a woman move UPDATED #6

Two things I’m sure of:

1. This woman ain’t fricking OP.

2. OP has paid for webcam girls on multiple occasions.

What I find most entertaining about this story is that the OT seems more invested in the OP’s decision than the OP is.

It’s like the OP is a spectator in his own life.

I feel like I’m witnessing a case study in post-modern philosophy.

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SORRY FOR THE DELAY. Had a friend stop by.

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I think it makes you look more like an a-hole


I don't mind being an a-hole to her. I really don't. The only problem is, with her, she's not picking up on it. I've delt with her before. And frankly, at this point, I'm not sure if being direct and saying no would have any impact. It's like trying to insult a dog while it just sits there wagging its tail. And I'm serious about this shite.

And as my text shows I said: I'm not going to be available to help you move. I suggest using a moving service or renting a U-Haul.

Initially, the only reason I very, very reluctantly agreed to help is because she asked me to help in front of her and my parents. I tried to brush off her requests for help but she brought it up three times at the dinner table. And I never told her yes until she approached me a fourth time in the parking lot. And even then I tried to get out of it, but, like I said, she can't take a hint. So I said yes, while my face was saying no you bitch. Then a week later she texted me, which is where this thread began.

And as you can see by the texts, she asked me when I would be free, and I said I was available Wednesday afternoon to Friday. She ignored that and wanted me to help her on Monday. That pissed me the frick off. I didn't want to help her in the first place. Now she isn't satisfied with the days I offered to help.

Note: I'm not getting paid for this nor getting any pussy. I will probably lose money on gas. The last time I did this shite for her, she paid for like $10 worth of gas but I used like a tank of gas to help her move her shite. I expect no different this time. And she ain't poor. She has money. And her parents are rich. And I'm not catholic, so I won't get any bonus points for helping her.

She is simple minded. And after this, more simple minded than I originally thought. She's like a high functioning 8 year old girl that doesn't understand what no means.

I'm starting to wonder how simple minded she really is. I'm beginning to think I could walk in on her while she's on the toilet and take a piss in her lap and tell her, "oops, I didn't see you there!" and she would say "that's OK". I mean, sometimes the things I say go right over her head.

Maybe I should tell if she doesn't suck the poison out of my dick I will die in 24 hrs.

Like I said, I'm tired of this shite. I don't want no mo.

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This is a pretty big amendment, or at least a supplement to your original story which started off with the text request.

I'm really hoping you made all this up - in which case, not bad at all. Pretty good job, actually.

If by some chance this is all true, I feel badly for you. You come across as not only ultra passive, but also both unpleasant and unpopular. There is a circular causation between the latter two, and they feed off each other. I'm not sure which came first for you, but the one you have some control over is being unpleasant. Change that and the other may follow.

Oh, and don't buy into the OT shtick and govern your life by it.

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I’ve helped lots and lots and lots of people move over the course of my life, and few are ever there for me when I needed help moving. It’s not really the point though. Truth is, as this story has progressed, it seems it’s not about timing after all. It’s about a reluctance to help at all.

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To our beta-arse OP friend's credit, he was obliging at first. Then she tried to force his hand and didn't accept his generosity as offered, which led to his passive aggressive campaign of resistance.

Is she moving out of a fully furnished house, 1 bedroom apartment or a dorm room?

If all she needs is your back and truck to get moved she can’t have that much shite.

Damn this girl sounds just like a couple of my sisters. Only time they want to get in tough with me is when they need something.

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Damn this girl sounds just like a couple of my sisters. Only time they want to get in tough with me is when they need something.

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My sister-in-law is the same way. Always has her hand out for whatever she can get but you can’t count on her for jack.

If I could pull the last ten years of my wife’s texts with her, it would literally be nothing but her asking us for crap. Not even a “hey, how are you guys doing”. Ever.

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I'm starting to wonder how simple minded she really is. I'm beginning to think I could walk in on her while she's on the toilet and take a piss in her lap and tell her, "oops, I didn't see you there!" and she would say "that's OK".

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You didn't make this up on the fly, this is the intro to your fantasy about her.

UPDATE #3
WEDNESDAY 10:52 AM

Me: I can help Thursday. Early morning is best.


I know she was praying to get help moving. So I was praying last night that she found someone to help her besides me. Two can play at that game!

No reply yet! Maybe prayer or my assholery may have worked?