re: Should I Propose?

If she is the first person you think of taking if someone gave you 2 LSU National Football Championship Game Tickets you should propose.

If you do propose plan to have a longer than normal engagement due to your schooling situation. If she is worth it, don’t let her go.

Depends on each of your life situations. Be damn sure that both of you understand that your relationship will be a lot different once you get accepted to law school, as you will not have nearly the free time that you did when you were a teacher. That said, you will have to make some kind of commitment if you want the relationship to last while you are in law school in another state.

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We’re the same age (24)

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No

I let a good one get away at about the same point in life. Thought I needed to get out into the world and establish myself first and she was not done with school yet. If she is truly wife material you should do so.

Be prepared to discuss the probability of going out of state and whether you intend to return if that is a factor for her. And be realistic about how you are going to pay for school and cost of living while educating. Is that something you two can handle together now?

People do leave their families and homes behind to embark on life's adventure together but some are too attached to their present reality to do so. ALSO: A word of wisdom that many if not most young people do not comprehend - you never really own someone else. Ultimately in the long run they must choose to be with you. But it is still OK to love them regardless. Best of luck.

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Not if you find enjoyment in blowjobs

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We have no issues in that department

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Because you haven't put a ring on it, dumb arse. Why is it you book smart people are the dumbest when it comes to common sense?

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Take it from a guy who made the mistake and didn’t. Was I too young? Hell yes. Would I be happier today if I had asked that girl? Unequivocally yes. There’s zero doubt in my mind that I’d be in a much better place with my life today if I’d asked “the one that got away” in my early 20s. Nada. Zilch. Will there be issues? Yes. But trust me, a decade and a half of thought has taught me that I made a huge mistake. Just. fricking. Ask. fricking do it and report it to the OT.

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You need to stop putting the pussy on a pedestal. You making it in to this great big Greek goddess of Pussalaya.

Hell no I wouldn’t propose after only nine months…Yall haven’t even got to the phase of the relationship where y’all can feel comfortable farting in front of each other yet. You haven’t even gotten past the butterfly feelings when you see each other…Once you start law school, you are not going to be able to dedicate the same amount of time together that you are now. A much better plan would be to wait till you are at least done with your first year of law school before you go jumping into an engagement.

No. Wait.

Experience some more real life first.

You're not wrong, his attitude is exactly why he hasn't found better or the one he's actually supposed to be with. Regardless of what anyone here believes in, if that was "the One" you'd be with her. She was supposed to be exactly who she was and you were supposed to learn something from that situation.

You did not, instead you contracted "oneitus".

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Take it from a guy who made the mistake and didn’t. Was I too young? Hell yes. Would I be happier today if I had asked that girl? Unequivocally yes. There’s zero doubt in my mind that I’d be in a much better place with my life today if I’d asked “the one that got away” in my early 20s. Nada. Zilch. Will there be issues? Yes. But trust me, a decade and a half of thought has taught me that I made a huge mistake. Just. fricking. Ask. fricking do it and report it to the OT.

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I know I said nine months is not long enough earlier, but there's something to be said for the above way of thinking. If she's the one, she's the one, don't let her get away.