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re: Sex/Marriage Bombshell!
Posted on 3/17/24 at 9:56 am to RCDfan1950
Posted on 3/17/24 at 9:56 am to RCDfan1950
Wtf is this shite
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Posted on 3/17/24 at 9:57 am to Mad Dog Droopy
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Says the guy seeking out videos telling him about sex with his wife.
No "seeking" for me, MD, as I haven't watched any sex video in over half century. I watch the YouTube version of Soft White Underbelly for it's positive stories of people who have overcome serious challenges. Form Mafia hit men to run of the mill narcissists to street dwellers across the spectrum. I stumbled on to this as the Host mentioned that it had got 5 million views and more responses than any of his THOUSANDS of interviews.
Good luck with your relationships.
Posted on 3/17/24 at 9:57 am to Will Cover
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"limerence."
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They can't stop thinking about their crush. It's a very strong infatuation that is mind and body consuming. It's a very intense sort of love.
It's essentially a feeling of ectasy.
Is it better to go through life without experiencing this emotional takeover, or experience it and deal with the consequences?
Posted on 3/17/24 at 10:00 am to The Torch
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A day fishing or hunting sounds a lot better than a day laying in bed with the Ole Lady.
I don’t want to attend a ball game for 72 hours, but I’d like to go for two or three hours. Similarly, there is nothing I’d like to do more than bed my wife - NOTHING! But I don’t want to lay in bed with her all damn day.
Posted on 3/17/24 at 10:03 am to Turnblad85
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Is it better to go through life without experiencing this emotional takeover, or experience it and deal with the consequences?
Nah, you need that. It’s what initially binds you, but to have a successful long term relationship you need to develop a connection that goes beyond infatuation.
Posted on 3/17/24 at 10:09 am to Turnblad85
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I stopped watching swu when all the interviews were of insane drug addicts spewing their life story. How about interviewing some people who aren't losers?
Yeah, T, the Host has been credibly hammered for his potential 'exploitation' of these people. The "Whitakers" at the fore. The "Update" that I had clicked on and found this particular Interview deals with the criticism of his 'clickbait' "losers" presentation, and going forward he makes appeals to all manner of positive life stories wherein people have successful stories to tell. For those who deem their own life 'extraordinary' in some way (and if one doesn't, condolences, because it should be perceived as such) he asks for people to send in a video clip of their story for assessment and a possible interview and airing.
Just passing it on. Whatever.
Posted on 3/17/24 at 10:15 am to RCDfan1950
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The Link is an interview by the Soft White Underbelly guy Mike Latitia with a Marriage Counselor. It's cutting edge and explosive in ways that will affect the overall cultural ethos re relationships, IMO. As I mostly frequent the Politics Forum, and knowing how 'sex=minded' the OT is, I was wondering if yall had dealt with this. Note: Watch the entire Video, if you can, as the Counselor's first and inflammatory premise seems not to affect good, stable and rational people who are NOT (edit for not) impaired with sex-based 'psychoses'. It will affect the very idea of long-term relationship for a lot of people. It's gas on the male-female relationship fire. My apologies up front for posting this mind 'virus', or if it has already been discussed.
What in the frick are you talking about man?
Posted on 3/17/24 at 10:17 am to Turnblad85
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Is it better to go through life without experiencing this emotional takeover, or experience it and deal with the consequences?
Is it better to partake of the "fruit of the forbidden Tree of Knowledge", or to remain ignorant? I think that ship has already sailed, and it's like some philosopher said: "one is faced with being on the top of a mountain in a horrendous snowstorm, and one has the option of either remaining and freezing to death or attempting to climb down blind". Not knowing may not be a viable option.
IMO, the "Truth shall set you free", for some...while it will destroy others. I didn't create that, I just describe it. Like the Counselor guy and the Host/Artist.
Posted on 3/17/24 at 10:41 am to RCDfan1950
Are you AI?
Posted on 3/17/24 at 11:09 am to RCDfan1950
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it is 'slutty sex' that even the most 'virtuous' of women employ to successfully "hunt" the man whose power they intend to exploit, via marriage or a long term relationship.
And men use our power to "hunt" the woman whose slutty sex we intend to exploit. It's a Yin and yang. The goal of course is to eventually find a woman that you still like being around even after the post nut clarity steps in
Posted on 3/17/24 at 12:02 pm to OysterPoBoy
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Are you AI?
I really don't know what in the actual frick he is talking about. I think he's on some shite.
Posted on 3/17/24 at 12:05 pm to RCDfan1950
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Are you AI?
Yeah, you write really well to be impressed with this guy. He’s Andrew Tate with a college degree talking about red pill things. One must really understand how men and women have operated for thousands of years and put that into context of modernity.
Go read David Buss, he is this generations leading expert in the field.
LINK
Also Chris Williamson has had 30 legit experts in this field in the last year on his show modern wisdom.
This post was edited on 3/17/24 at 12:09 pm
Posted on 3/17/24 at 12:08 pm to Will Cover
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Will Cover
I can’t take you seriously with your sig picture. Police are not running around shooting innocent black men in the back, nor did the Kenosha Kid do anything wrong. He simply shot a guy who pulled a gun on him.
Posted on 3/17/24 at 12:38 pm to Rust Cohle
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He’s Andrew Tate with a college degree talking about red pill things. One must really understand how men and women have operated for thousands of years and put that into context of modernity.
I'm a total novice in this field, RC, and my interest was primarily that of the cultural influence going forward as it will affect marital dynamics, and therein, my beloved Granddaughters specifically. It's bad enough already out there, and this may make it worse.
The guy (Orion) posits the idea that if men realize that their power will increase re their potential to increase their "marketable value" toward acquiring a more 'quality' (quality being subjective) mate (for whatever reason) as they grow in age and power, whereas a women's "market value" and leverage will decrease, such will weigh heavy in a male's rational decisions to increase their stock by deferring marital commitments. To me, this means a further erosion of familial stability and a threat to my Beloved's happiness. So, I attempt to educate myself, and I came to the OT because I know there are a lot of good and smart people here. Somebody losing their canine friend and expressing the pain of loss, proves that per the responses. Tons of real empathy.
I might peruse your suggested (Academic?) sources, but really like the raw truths, personally expressed as in the SWU artistic format.
Thanks. Hope your relationships are fruitfull.
This post was edited on 3/17/24 at 4:40 pm
Posted on 3/17/24 at 12:42 pm to RCDfan1950
I put this on in the background while working. There is literally nothing new here. The guy espouses the same red pill theory that's been around for years (although it might make a good primer for the uninitiated).
What would be more interesting would be a take on the post-feminist relationship world where the status of men has been challenged in society and women are taking on more significant roles in the workforce. What is happening/will happen to men who no longer have resources/lifestyle enhancement to offer to women who do? In other words, what happens to all the men that women no longer need? Generations of lost, disillusioned men have never been good for societies throughout history.
ETA: I think your thread has been anchored due to its non-descript title.
What would be more interesting would be a take on the post-feminist relationship world where the status of men has been challenged in society and women are taking on more significant roles in the workforce. What is happening/will happen to men who no longer have resources/lifestyle enhancement to offer to women who do? In other words, what happens to all the men that women no longer need? Generations of lost, disillusioned men have never been good for societies throughout history.
ETA: I think your thread has been anchored due to its non-descript title.
This post was edited on 3/17/24 at 12:48 pm
Posted on 3/17/24 at 1:35 pm to shutterspeed
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a take on the post-feminist relationship world
Chris Williamson show modern wisdom has dozens of these episodes in the last few years, discussing exactly this. With mostly academic experts in the field. He does have journalist on the topic that speculate a lot, but the academics don’t speculate and talk narrowly about their expertise.
Chris has his own male sedation hypothesis, derived from what you mentioned about lost men being bad for society. Throughout history when there has been an uneven number of men and women, these men have started violence in society, or cultures sent them out to war or conquest. But today he suggest that men are sedated with video games, porn, and weed.
Posted on 3/17/24 at 7:40 pm to RCDfan1950
quote:My wife of 15 years just found out I had not watched the video. She left me.
Good luck with your relationships.
Just kidding. She's not a weak-minded idiot either.
Posted on 3/17/24 at 8:49 pm to Turnblad85
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Is it better to go through life without experiencing this emotional takeover, or experience it and deal with the consequences?
Limerence can be good for singles, if you are both good for each other. If one person is going to be bad for you, and other people are trying to tell how they are going to impact you negatively, you won’t believe anything they say. Limerence is bad in this sense because it kind of blinds you.
Limerence is bad if you are already in a committed relationship (affair). Limerence will pull you out of a committed relationship into a different relationship.
And when it finally goes away, then you start counting the cost of your choices. What did it cost me?
This post was edited on 3/17/24 at 8:50 pm
Posted on 3/17/24 at 8:50 pm to Penrod
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I can’t take you seriously with your sig picture. Police are not running around shooting innocent black men in the back, nor did the Kenosha Kid do anything wrong. He simply shot a guy who pulled a gun on him.
I'm illustrating the false narrative that is often found in today's news media.
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