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Seeking Career/Job Advice for a Millennial Job Hopper

Posted on 8/15/19 at 2:53 pm
Posted by MisslePig
Member since Jul 2018
961 posts
Posted on 8/15/19 at 2:53 pm
I've made some great progressive moves in my career and I'm about to make another one. My issue is that I feel like your cliche, stereotypical Millennial Job Hopper.

I'm afraid that I don't know how to maintain a relationship with my boss/company and keep it healthy to the point I could stay there for over 5 years. I don't have that experience on my resume, the relationship with my current boss has turned cold and I'm worried maybe it's me and there's something I can do to maintain a better relationship going forward.

I'm reaching out to the wisdom of the OT for some best practices, mantras and mindsets that I can take into my new job to start off great and to keep that relationship improving and growing with a longer term mentality.

I don't have much so far, it might sound stupid, but one thing I want to do is say "bye" to my boss everyday with a little quick chit chat or something...I dunno. What's the OT got to say? Would love a book suggestion or anything you've got.
Posted by Manzielathon
Death Valley
Member since Sep 2013
8951 posts
Posted on 8/15/19 at 2:54 pm to
Just have El Gaucho teach you to weld

Then you’ll be a millionaire
Posted by TH03
Mogadishu
Member since Dec 2008
171036 posts
Posted on 8/15/19 at 2:55 pm to
Are you asking how to build a relationship with another human being?


I say this a lot as a joke, but you might be on the spectrum.
Posted by MrJudgeSmails
B Wood Baw
Member since Jul 2011
298 posts
Posted on 8/15/19 at 2:56 pm to
Everyone goes through highs and lows in office relationships. If you’re comfortable with everything otherwise, just buckle down and do the work, act like everyday is an interview and you’ll be fine. If you’re dissatisfied with other more crucial aspects of the job (hours/commute/upward mobility), consider leaving.
Posted by el Gaucho
He/They
Member since Dec 2010
52973 posts
Posted on 8/15/19 at 2:56 pm to
You millennials will drag up and go down the road when somebody offers you more tide pods

Us boomers gave 40 years of dedicated service to our respective companies
Posted by IAmNERD
Member since May 2017
19213 posts
Posted on 8/15/19 at 3:02 pm to
quote:

I'm reaching out to the wisdom of the OT for some best practices, mantras and mindsets that I can take into my new job to start off great and to keep that relationship improving and growing with a longer term mentality. 

That sentence sounds like you have been brainwashed by some corporate robot. It's like a caricature of the corporate lingo threads we have here from time to time.
Posted by LSURussian
Member since Feb 2005
126962 posts
Posted on 8/15/19 at 3:03 pm to
Learn to code....
Posted by El Segundo Guy
SE OK
Member since Aug 2014
9586 posts
Posted on 8/15/19 at 3:10 pm to
If you enjoy being outside, get trained to be a surveyor. They work on their own and are backlogged on jobs. I do real estate appraisals and those guys are always busy and always seem to enjoy doing it.

I'm 44 and will be retired for good in about 2-3 years but if I were young, I would transition to surveying.
Posted by tigerinthebueche
Member since Oct 2010
36791 posts
Posted on 8/15/19 at 3:10 pm to
quote:

I'm reaching out to the wisdom of the OT





why don't you ask Volod?
Posted by TexasTiger90
Rocky Mountain High
Member since Jul 2014
3576 posts
Posted on 8/15/19 at 3:10 pm to
quote:

Us boomers gave 40 years of dedicated service to our respective companies

Anything for that watch!
Posted by Freezus22
Da Boot
Member since Aug 2016
1609 posts
Posted on 8/15/19 at 3:11 pm to
quote:

the relationship with my current boss has turned cold and I'm worried maybe it's me

quote:

there's something I can do to maintain a better relationship going forward.

PIIHB - interpret as you may
This post was edited on 8/15/19 at 3:13 pm
Posted by tigerinthebueche
Member since Oct 2010
36791 posts
Posted on 8/15/19 at 3:12 pm to
quote:

Anything for that watch!



what do you have to show for your effort?

Other than a bad haircut.
Posted by RPtoDoubleT
Dallas
Member since Oct 2007
505 posts
Posted on 8/15/19 at 3:16 pm to
This is the type of stuff people cant figure out these days? Holy shite. You a Mingo alter?
Posted by ksayetiger
Centenary Gents
Member since Jul 2007
68305 posts
Posted on 8/15/19 at 3:18 pm to
This thread will be a disaster for the OP
Posted by TexasTiger90
Rocky Mountain High
Member since Jul 2014
3576 posts
Posted on 8/15/19 at 3:37 pm to
quote:

what do you have to show for your effort?

Other than a bad haircut.

I have a lovely haircut, thank you very much
Posted by Mkay 84
Member since Apr 2018
506 posts
Posted on 8/15/19 at 3:48 pm to
Get you cdl. Ain’t no boss in the truck with ya out doing Flatbed all over the country.

Just don’t answer the phone lol “bad reception”
Posted by Monday
Prairieville
Member since Mar 2013
5005 posts
Posted on 8/15/19 at 3:50 pm to
I find it beneficial to check in periodically. I give my boss a status report on a few projects if I feel that he needs to know that information. I make an effort to tell the boss when I'm heading out or if I have something coming up that he would be interested in knowing.

All in all, your boss may be different depending on the profession but it probably would be beneficial have a respectful rapport with your boss. I know that I would appreciate it if I was your boss.
Posted by BlackCoffeeKid
Member since Mar 2016
11714 posts
Posted on 8/15/19 at 3:50 pm to
quote:

I'm 44 and will be retired for good in about 2-3 years

Man, that sounds nice.
I have 13,455 days left. ...not that I'm counting or anything
This post was edited on 8/15/19 at 3:51 pm
Posted by JohnDoe00
Houston, TX
Member since Feb 2019
814 posts
Posted on 8/15/19 at 4:10 pm to
Not everyone in the office is liked. You sound like that person.
Posted by PearlJam
NotBeardEaves
Member since Aug 2014
13908 posts
Posted on 8/15/19 at 5:21 pm to
If you aren't the type of person your boss would normally hang around outside of work, chit chat isn't going to be endearing. If you are, then you likely wouldn't be having these issues. That being said, the other way to have a good relationship with the boss is to be an excellent producer. Effect the bottom line positively and you will remain in the good graces of your boss.
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