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re: Sad news to report from Money Talk board regarding fellow OT poster

Posted on 9/2/16 at 2:20 pm to
Posted by slackster
Houston
Member since Mar 2009
91320 posts
Posted on 9/2/16 at 2:20 pm to
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I didn't realize so many posters were friends with this guy.


I believe the obit says he was the president of the Acadiana chapter of TAF, a member of Theta Xi, and he went to LSU for 6 years total, so he's pretty well engrained with this place. I think a lot of people knew THF and they knew Will, but they now know they were one in the same.
Posted by tigerskin
Member since Nov 2004
44808 posts
Posted on 9/2/16 at 2:21 pm to
I didn't know him but I think "successful", "type A," "perfectionist" type of people can have a difficult time that may not be visible to people on the outside.

Actually on the contrary, it appears that every thing is going great. It can become more difficult for those with high expectations to deal with the bad things that happen in life.

It doesn't appear to me that a lot of people with low expectations commit suicide. Just trying to make sense of things. Obviously without knowing him, I have no idea if this applies to him.

May he RIP.
This post was edited on 9/2/16 at 2:22 pm
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
296157 posts
Posted on 9/2/16 at 2:29 pm to
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I didn't know him but I think "successful", "type A," "perfectionist" type of people can have a difficult time that may not be visible to people on the outside.


Absolutely. People with a lot of drive are also the ones who can hide the most demons. They have invested a lot in their future and their career is a huge part of their identity. Disillusionment, being passed over for a promotion or anything that derails them even temporarily can have devastating consequences.
Posted by USMCTiger03
Member since Sep 2007
71176 posts
Posted on 9/2/16 at 2:31 pm to
I knew him here. Read about him IRL after first seeing the news this morning (I was driven by thinking it may have been an old friend of mine).

Awareness. THF had every indication of having everything in the world going for him relatively speaking. If someone like that can fall into this hole, seems like almost anyone could. So sad. We've got to find a way to break through on this issue. Don't know what else to say just can't fathom it. Maybe later would be a better time.
Posted by G Vice
Lafayette, LA
Member since Dec 2006
13154 posts
Posted on 9/2/16 at 2:41 pm to
Ton of truth in that Roger. When other people have high expectations of you, or you have high expectations of you, you can be knocking it out of the park on many fronts, but shortcomings and temporary setbacks can seem insurmountable in ones own mind. So sad.
Posted by fatboydave
Fat boy land
Member since Aug 2004
17979 posts
Posted on 9/2/16 at 2:50 pm to
didn't know the guy but way to young!
Posted by OMLandshark
Member since Apr 2009
119977 posts
Posted on 9/2/16 at 2:53 pm to
Really sad to hear this. I liked him as a poster. As people have said, it's hard to know what goes through someone's mind, especially someone who has closed himself off from the world.

If anyone else is struggling with it, just talk to someone about it rather than holding it in and snapping like this. There's someone out there more than willing to help and guide you to the light. Just don't stay down in the darkness alone, because you'll drown yourself.

My prayers go out to his friends and family.
Posted by thegreatboudini
Member since Oct 2008
7088 posts
Posted on 9/2/16 at 3:21 pm to
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I believe the obit says he was the president of the Acadiana chapter of TAF, a member of Theta Xi, and he went to LSU for 6 years total, so he's pretty well engrained with this place. I think a lot of people knew THF and they knew Will, but they now know they were one in the same.


I knew Will years and years ago as I previously stated in this thread, then a year or two ago there was one of those weird "post your picture" threads and he posted a real picture of himself, to which I realized who he was. I laughed at the time.
Posted by Tiger Ryno
#WoF
Member since Feb 2007
107519 posts
Posted on 9/2/16 at 3:41 pm to
quote:


If anyone else is struggling with it, just talk to someone about it rather than holding it in and snapping like this. There's someone out there more than willing to help and guide you to the light. Just don't stay down in the darkness alone, because you'll drown yourself.


This 100%. If someone you know is struggling or if you yourself are...get tested.
Posted by tidalmouse
Whatsamotta U.
Member since Jan 2009
30706 posts
Posted on 9/2/16 at 3:55 pm to
RIP Flask.

Sorry to hear of anyone in our community here passing.God Bless and Comfort his family.
Posted by Weaver
Madisonville, LA
Member since Nov 2005
28041 posts
Posted on 9/2/16 at 3:59 pm to
Think he had a Clemson logo. RIP
Posted by Keys Open Doors
In hiding with Tupac & XXXTentacion
Member since Dec 2008
32775 posts
Posted on 9/2/16 at 3:59 pm to
If I recall correctly, he and Maximus were MBA students at LSU around 2010-11 at a time when lots of students were regualrs
Posted by SlowFlowPro
With populists, expect populism
Member since Jan 2004
465858 posts
Posted on 9/2/16 at 4:02 pm to
shite that means some of my friends probably were in MBA school with him at the time
Posted by terd ferguson
Darren Wilson Fan Club President
Member since Aug 2007
113904 posts
Posted on 9/2/16 at 4:04 pm to
quote:

SlowFlowPro


You know if you ever need to talk we're here for you...
Posted by SlowFlowPro
With populists, expect populism
Member since Jan 2004
465858 posts
Posted on 9/2/16 at 4:05 pm to
thank you, terd
Posted by MSCoastTigerGirl
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2008
35525 posts
Posted on 9/2/16 at 4:20 pm to
quote:

quote:
SlowFlowPro



You know if you ever need to talk we're here for you...



This.

Other than joking around a few times with you, I don't really know you, but any one here wold be willing to listen including me.

I'm so sorry to hear about THF. Terrible.
Posted by RedStickBR
Member since Sep 2009
14577 posts
Posted on 9/2/16 at 4:22 pm to
This is the second person I've really known to commit suicide, the first being ten years ago or so now. I'm having the same exact feelings this time around. It's simply torturous trying to rationalize what may have happened. It's utterly incomprehensible, and the brain has an extraordinarily difficult time coming to grips with that. He had just passed L3, had a fiancé and child, was on a good pace professionally, and had football season right around the corner. There's simply no reason for him to end his life under those circumstances. The first person I knew who did it did it under circumstances that were at least a little easier to rationalize. But this ... this is a tough one to take.

It just goes to show you never know what someone else may be going through. The person you flip off and honk your horn at on the road could be the person on the edge of the cliff looking for some semblance of human compassion to convince them this world is worth staying in. Don't ever forget that. Cherish every minute and every memory. Treat everyone with kindness.

Will, you will be sorely missed. But even in your hour of death, you've been able to share some insight with each of us here. My sincere hope is that you've found your peace now.
Posted by SlowFlowPro
With populists, expect populism
Member since Jan 2004
465858 posts
Posted on 9/2/16 at 4:27 pm to
y'all don't have to worry about me and this thread isn't about me

i was just trying to help people who don't understand the issues at play

the board is usually harsh just b/c it's impossible to understand unless you know the biology or have been there
Posted by glassman
Next to the beer taps at Finn's
Member since Oct 2008
117822 posts
Posted on 9/2/16 at 4:28 pm to
Great points, SFP..
Posted by Cosmo
glassman's guest house
Member since Oct 2003
129250 posts
Posted on 9/2/16 at 4:28 pm to
I remember Rocks talking about committing suicide and North drove all the way to his house to talk him down

This was lon ago
This post was edited on 9/2/16 at 4:29 pm
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