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Relationship Advice. Girl problems brah.

Posted on 9/1/14 at 11:09 pm
Posted by GeauxTime9
Baton Rouge, La
Member since Dec 2010
6412 posts
Posted on 9/1/14 at 11:09 pm
What's a better place to come then the OT for some woman problem help. I'll try to make this short and sweet. I've been with the same girl going on 3 years. I love her dearly and can see myself marrying her. She loves me and I know that. The problem is she has a problem trusting me. I did some things when we first started dating that I regret. We have since moved on from then but lately she has had some problems trusting me. What are something's I can do to win this girl back? I am 100% faithful and want no one else, I literally give her the world. Anyone been similar situations? I'm honestly thinking about going through couples counseling to get us over this hump.

I know some will give me hell but I appreciate the honest feedback.
Posted by HempHead
Big Sky Country
Member since Mar 2011
55499 posts
Posted on 9/1/14 at 11:10 pm to
quote:

What are something's I can do to win this girl back?


Lick her starfish.
Posted by DollaChoppa
I Simp for ACC
Member since May 2008
84774 posts
Posted on 9/1/14 at 11:10 pm to
Be single and spend more time with your friends, traveling, and meeting random chicks
Posted by Double Oh
Louisiana
Member since Sep 2008
17866 posts
Posted on 9/1/14 at 11:10 pm to
give her a ring
Posted by Jcorye1
Tom Brady = GoAT
Member since Dec 2007
71465 posts
Posted on 9/1/14 at 11:11 pm to
If it's been a while and she still doesn't trust you... you might have permanently fricked it up back in the day and have no shot of ever fixing it.
Posted by Lightnin Hopkins
Member since Dec 2013
559 posts
Posted on 9/1/14 at 11:11 pm to
the one, true answer
Posted by BACONisMEATcandy
Member since Dec 2007
46644 posts
Posted on 9/1/14 at 11:11 pm to
What exactly did you do that she can't trust you?
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
136831 posts
Posted on 9/1/14 at 11:11 pm to
but lately she has had some problems trusting me.

Your answer lies within this fragment
Posted by jtran1988
Corndog U
Member since Oct 2008
5321 posts
Posted on 9/1/14 at 11:12 pm to
Maybe shes the one that is doing shady shite.
Posted by eric4UA08
Member since Nov 2008
2017 posts
Posted on 9/1/14 at 11:13 pm to
There isn't anything you can do. It is up to her. You cannot do anything to change how she feels. I would know.
Posted by Breesus
House of the Rising Sun
Member since Jan 2010
66982 posts
Posted on 9/1/14 at 11:13 pm to
quote:

If it's been a while and she still doesn't trust you... you might have permanently fricked it up back in the day and have no shot of ever fixing it.



/thread.
Posted by HoustonChick86
Catalina Wine Mixer
Member since Dec 2009
57356 posts
Posted on 9/1/14 at 11:13 pm to
Trust is hard to win back. If y'all have trust issues marriage does not sound like a good idea.
Posted by TigerinKorea
Member since Aug 2014
8292 posts
Posted on 9/1/14 at 11:13 pm to
You can only be as good to her as you can possibly be. If she can't trust you, that's her problem. You can't control her.
Posted by Robin Masters
Birmingham
Member since Jul 2010
29893 posts
Posted on 9/1/14 at 11:13 pm to
quote:

literally give her the world


No wonder she doesn't trust you. Ive known you less than a min and you've already lied to me.
Posted by djangochained
Gardere
Member since Jul 2013
19054 posts
Posted on 9/1/14 at 11:13 pm to
You literally give her the world?
Posted by WoWyHi
Member since Jul 2009
23339 posts
Posted on 9/1/14 at 11:14 pm to
quote:

I did some things when we first started dating that I regret.


Which was what exactly?
Posted by lake2280
Public intellectual
Member since Nov 2012
4291 posts
Posted on 9/1/14 at 11:14 pm to
Tell her to fricking get over it, if she can't get rid of her she sounds bitchy and apparently will hold shite over your head forever.
Posted by LuckyTiger
Someone's Alter
Member since Dec 2008
45321 posts
Posted on 9/1/14 at 11:14 pm to
Unfortunately there may always be a part of her that will never completely trust you again. The two of you may be able to live with that; relationships are not perfect. However, it will crop up and cause problems from time to time.

The only thing you can do is talk to her and use your powers of persuasion, if you have any. You will need to have an excruciating, gut wrenching, emotional conversation with her whereupon you make her feel how committed you are to her.

Another option is to pay some random chick to tell your girl that she tried to seduce you and you refused.
Posted by Professor Parks
AZ
Member since Jul 2013
1112 posts
Posted on 9/1/14 at 11:16 pm to
Bang out her friends

If you feel bad after, you know you love her.

If she finds out and forgives you, then well cool.

If she finds out and breaks up with you, she really couldn't trust you after all.

It's a win-win situation.
Posted by ShermanTxTiger
Broussard, La
Member since Oct 2007
10888 posts
Posted on 9/1/14 at 11:16 pm to
She has to put it behind her and trust you. If she can't ( she has reasons ), she needs to let you move on. This shite dragging on is BS. If she wont move forward, you have to move on.
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