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re: Relationship Advice / PI Recs?
Posted on 9/28/21 at 9:31 pm to TexasTiger08
Posted on 9/28/21 at 9:31 pm to TexasTiger08
quote:This move is illegal to do in Louisiana without her knowledge & approval.
Have you considered placing a tracking device on her car?
If it were your vehicle, different stirry brah. It’d be aight to do so.
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Posted on 9/28/21 at 9:35 pm to Wolfhound45
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You cannot be this stupid. If you are, my recommendation is that you marry her. You deserve everything that happens to you.
God no. They might breed.
This post was edited on 9/28/21 at 9:36 pm
Posted on 9/28/21 at 10:06 pm to AlexBillings
So wait you dated for 3 months than decided it was time to move in together because she got kicked out her parents house? Umm how old is she to still be living at her parents house? And after 3 months you think it’s a good idea to have her move in with you?
Next she is staying at a friends house and having girls night atleast once a week? First girls don’t get along with other girls that much to be around each other for that long. So that means there is and have always been a dude tapping that before you. And the 2 hr walks those are called “lunch break quickies”
She not wanting to get with you and has a “headache or exhausted” because she already been used up that day and don’t have it in her to take more, her drive is the same but she had to cool it down with the side dude to make sure she was settled in with you.
Dude your being used don’t be that dumb she hasn’t offered to help one single bit your being used..
My advice next “friends” night out when she leaves pack her stuff and put it outside change the locks and save the money you were going to spend on a PI and go out and find some new hole to play in
Best advice to get over a old chick get under a new one!
Next she is staying at a friends house and having girls night atleast once a week? First girls don’t get along with other girls that much to be around each other for that long. So that means there is and have always been a dude tapping that before you. And the 2 hr walks those are called “lunch break quickies”
She not wanting to get with you and has a “headache or exhausted” because she already been used up that day and don’t have it in her to take more, her drive is the same but she had to cool it down with the side dude to make sure she was settled in with you.
quote:
It's hard for me to feel like I'm not being used.
Dude your being used don’t be that dumb she hasn’t offered to help one single bit your being used..
My advice next “friends” night out when she leaves pack her stuff and put it outside change the locks and save the money you were going to spend on a PI and go out and find some new hole to play in
Best advice to get over a old chick get under a new one!
Posted on 9/28/21 at 10:46 pm to Jh22586
It's not that difficult OP....if you're footing the bills for everything as you say, and she isn't putting out.....what the fuxk does it even matter if it's because of another guy. Who would put up with that shyt in the first place? Much less worry about a PI to see if she's cheating. Kick her arse to the curb. JFC
Posted on 9/29/21 at 12:26 am to AlexBillings
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Thanks for all of the advice guys! She is away on a bachelorette trip (go figure) this weekend, but I'm going to text her, and tell her we need to talk when I get off work Monday. Pray for me, and I'll try to post an update soon.
“We need to talk” means “I’m gonna say some things you don’t like”.
The true alpha way to handle it is Be an adult. Wait till she gets home. She how she acts. If it’s still cold then ask if something is bothering her. She’ll either tell you the truth in a “polite” manner, make up an obvious lie, or ask why you’re asking her.
1 or 2 is “hasta la vista” obviously
If she answers with 3, respond that you’re concerned about her, she’s seems a little distant lately and you want to make sure she’s ok and see if there is anything she wants to talk about.
If you start out by making accusations or saying you don’t trust her, she goes on the defensive and it becomes an instant argument. It makes you look insecure and jealous. She will say or do shite to attempt to hurt you.
Posted on 9/29/21 at 12:33 am to lsusa
All this advice y’all are giving this dude is a waste of time and I’ll tell you why… two reasons:
1) Listen to his story in the OP. The dude is head over heels in love with this chick already and anyone even thinking that this dude is gonna leave her is an idiot. He’s gonna stick around like a sucker until she either leaves HIM or he catches her red handed for the second time.. that’s it
2) OP, you’re already considering hiring a private investigator to snoop around on a chick you’ve been with for 9 months… what in the actual frick? also, she brings nothing to the table other than her good looks. Her personality can’t really mesh with yours obviously because she’s getting all her entertainment elsewhere
Chalk this one up as a loss buddy and move on now. It’ll save you a ton of time, money, and heartbreak
1) Listen to his story in the OP. The dude is head over heels in love with this chick already and anyone even thinking that this dude is gonna leave her is an idiot. He’s gonna stick around like a sucker until she either leaves HIM or he catches her red handed for the second time.. that’s it
2) OP, you’re already considering hiring a private investigator to snoop around on a chick you’ve been with for 9 months… what in the actual frick? also, she brings nothing to the table other than her good looks. Her personality can’t really mesh with yours obviously because she’s getting all her entertainment elsewhere
Chalk this one up as a loss buddy and move on now. It’ll save you a ton of time, money, and heartbreak
Posted on 9/29/21 at 12:42 am to TheRouxGuru
If she won't put out anymore after 6 months she doesn't even like the dude. At all.
Posted on 9/29/21 at 12:52 am to AlexBillings
I’m not going to read this thread but I read your OP. The answer to your questions is PIIHB
Posted on 9/29/21 at 2:05 am to AlexBillings
You must really be smitten if you think this is semi-normal behavior. I’d have her stuff boxed on the driveway and locks re-keyed ASAP.
Posted on 9/29/21 at 8:34 am to BamaGradinTn
quote:Good point.
They might breed.
Posted on 9/29/21 at 9:07 am to TheRouxGuru
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All this advice y’all are giving this dude is a waste of time and I’ll tell you why
Because OP isn't real. I can't believe he got so many responses
Posted on 9/29/21 at 9:13 am to AlexBillings
It's 2021 man... there are 50 apps you can use to track her location. If she doesnt want to share her location with you for those apps then kick her to the curb. It's pretty simple.
Posted on 9/29/21 at 9:20 am to AlexBillings
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She is away on a bachelorette trip (go figure) this weekend, but I'm going to text her, and tell her we need to talk when I get off work Monday.
This is the dumbest thing to do in all of the dumb things you've done so far. Texting her while on a bachelorette trip gives her and her friends time to plot and plan for this talk. You have to catch her off guard and hit her with it as soon as she walks back in the door from the trip.
Posted on 9/29/21 at 9:21 am to TigerIron
quote:
My oldest sister is a first-rate whore
Dad says she can't come home anymore
He means it
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