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re: Relationship Advice / PI Recs?
Posted on 9/24/21 at 3:53 pm to AlexBillings
Posted on 9/24/21 at 3:53 pm to AlexBillings
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Thanks for all of the advice guys! She is away on a bachelorette trip (go figure) this weekend, but I'm going to text her, and tell her we need to talk when I get off work Monday. Pray for me, and I'll try to post an update soon.
No need to text her
Just gather her stuff up and start to move on mentally. Next time she comes by the house let her know its over. I’m sorry, its not working out. No further explanation needed.
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Posted on 9/24/21 at 4:52 pm to AlexBillings
Brah. Get her to pay some of the energy bill and pitch in some groceries. Then, at least you’ll have a roommate that blows you every once in a while. That’s a lot of people’s porn fantasy your living. All about perspective.
Posted on 9/24/21 at 5:01 pm to AlexBillings
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This post was edited on 2/14/22 at 5:47 am
Posted on 9/24/21 at 5:11 pm to scottfruget
Troll action
.....or she gettin the Whopper from
BK
.....or she gettin the Whopper from
BK
Posted on 9/24/21 at 5:11 pm to AlexBillings
She's most likely got a side piece! But even if she doesn't, she's leaching off you and not doing her duty in the bedroom: sounds like you're getting nothing out of this and it's time to cut your losses!
Posted on 9/24/21 at 5:13 pm to AlexBillings
Kick her big bubble-butted arse out. Tell her she fricked around and found out.
Posted on 9/24/21 at 5:18 pm to AlexBillings
Move her out quick. Believe it or not if she stays long enough you might have to legally evict her.
Also anybody that can’t get along with their parents has conflicts you do not want them be drawn into.
Also anybody that can’t get along with their parents has conflicts you do not want them be drawn into.
This post was edited on 9/24/21 at 5:19 pm
Posted on 9/24/21 at 5:18 pm to AlexBillings
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my gf (no pics but she's about an 8 lol
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I live on Northshore, if that helps.
Hey, I live on the Northshore and I've been banging an 8.
Posted on 9/24/21 at 5:19 pm to AlexBillings
PI? programming increment?
i’d go with a max of 5 iterations (10 weeks). Anything longer than that and you’re work forecasting accuracy is going down the drain.
i’d go with a max of 5 iterations (10 weeks). Anything longer than that and you’re work forecasting accuracy is going down the drain.
Posted on 9/24/21 at 5:22 pm to caro81
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The last time we did it August 18
not even a year in and 1 month with no sex. pft. time to throw that shite in the trash my man. dont worry about the PI. just toss now.
im married 9 years next month and the wife and i have had more sex than you many times over in the last month.
This is one of the lesser noticed posts ITT, but easily the best point.
You're 6 months into a relationship, living together or not y'all should be fricking like rabbits at this stage. Even if she's a good, reserved, shy, whatever girl - y'all should be going at it like crazy right now and hardly able to spend time apart without wanting to be near the other (if she were the RIGHT one for you and vise-versa).
Cheating aside, the fact that she goes and spends nights away and takes these long periods without you should be a red flag regardless. You're in the hot and heavy stage right now no matter your age, she should WANT to be around you and you her. That in itself is a huge 'no-go' for me.
My wife and I have been together for 2 years, married for one year in a couple weeks. We haven't gone 3 days since she moved in (about 6 months into our relationship) without intimacy. And here's the real shocker - because we're in a loving relationship, are eachothers best friends, and are attracted to eachother, she wants intimacy as badly as I do and can't stand to be away from me for too long. That's how you know it's the right one.
Cheating or not, you need to cut this off ASAP. I had a relationship just like yours and we wasted 5 years together unhappily living as roommates because it was comfortable, there were trust issues and no intimacy for months at a time. It was one of the biggest mistakes of my life and you should learn from my mistakes OP.
Nicely send her packing right now, cheating or not.
Posted on 9/24/21 at 5:26 pm to AlexBillings
You should text her and tell her what storage unit her stuff is in and change the locks.
Why text her and tell her you want to talk???? There is nothing to be gained with that. You can nicely tell her the storage unit address.
Why text her and tell her you want to talk???? There is nothing to be gained with that. You can nicely tell her the storage unit address.
This post was edited on 9/24/21 at 5:28 pm
Posted on 9/24/21 at 5:40 pm to AlexBillings
Tell her “put out or get out”
Posted on 9/24/21 at 5:45 pm to I B Freeman
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You should text her and tell her what storage unit her stuff is in and change the locks.
Why text her and tell her you want to talk???? There is nothing to be gained with that. You can nicely tell her the storage unit address.
For once, I agree with I B Freeman. It doesn't feel right because he doesn't say anything about China in his post, I don't like it.
But OP should use this time while she's on her "bachelorette trip" to lessen the mess and get her shite out. It would make everything INFINITELY easier to do it while she's gone and just send her the storage unit info. That way weak-arse OP doesn't have to live with her for a couple weeks (turning into a couple years at least) while she finds a new place.
RIP OFF THAT BANDAID NOW and have a few drinks while moving her shite out, make it fun for yourself and a new beginning
Posted on 9/24/21 at 5:46 pm to AlexBillings
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Thanks for all of the advice guys! She is away on a bachelorette trip (go figure) this weekend, but I'm going to text her, and tell her we need to talk when I get off work Monday. Pray for me, and I'll try to post an update soon.
Bad idea. Just wait until she returns and then talk with her. There's no need to give her a heads up.
You could pack up her things, though, so can leave as soon as she returns.
Posted on 9/24/21 at 6:01 pm to AlexBillings
Sounds like you're getting sex once a month for rent.
Posted on 9/24/21 at 6:08 pm to AlexBillings
quote:too late
I just don't want to be played like a fool.
Posted on 9/24/21 at 6:17 pm to AlexBillings
You paying for her girls' nights and bachelorette parties too?
"I love this free loader I met 6 months ago more than anything even though she won't even frick me anymore."
"I love this free loader I met 6 months ago more than anything even though she won't even frick me anymore."
Posted on 9/24/21 at 6:28 pm to AlexBillings
Look into Cheaters TV show and put her on blast.
Posted on 9/24/21 at 6:31 pm to AlexBillings
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AlexBillings
But if you're serious about hiring a private investigator even after reading all the legitimate advice here, I'll do it for $3500 and get you all the info/proof you need. Most of the cost would be because I have to take time off, travel from FL, and rent a hotel room.
I work for FedGov in law enforcement and have the credentials, just let me know if you need my cashapp account info to deposit your first installment. Results are guaranteed to be results, or 1/4 of your money back. Guaranteed!
Posted on 9/24/21 at 6:45 pm to AlexBillings
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We dated for about 3 months before the move but she got kicked out of her parents house (long story) and we decided it was time to take the plunge to cohabit.
Why did her parents kick her out? Also how old is she? Who's idea was it for the two of you to move in together?
You're clearly ignoring glaring red flags. I did the same thing and married the crazy bitch only to get divorced not long after. Be smarter and get out now.
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