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re: Real Talk About Bullying

Posted on 10/17/18 at 12:16 pm to
Posted by Bard
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Posted on 10/17/18 at 12:16 pm to
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Father is demanding that the school "do something". Plenty of other parents chime in, backing his calls, and sharing their own stories of these kids being bullied. It's all very sad. Other parents also demand school "do something".


If it's truly bad then it sounds like the parents need to do something. Whether it's teach their kids to band together and administer group arse-whippings on bullies or talking to the bully's/ies' parent(s) this may be something the school isn't equipped to handle.
Posted by AA77
Member since Jan 2016
3832 posts
Posted on 10/17/18 at 12:16 pm to
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Then I as the father would go to his house, beat the shite out of his dad infront of the kid


That's probably going to be worth about 4-12 weeks in jail. But I guess you got your message across.
Posted by HeyHeyHogsAllTheWay
Member since Feb 2017
12458 posts
Posted on 10/17/18 at 12:17 pm to
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Social media has made bullying worse. The kid can't go home and escape from the bullying without it continuing online. I'm not saying I completely agree with this theory, but in some cases i suppose it has some merit.


There have been multiple documented cases of children killing themselves over social media bullying , so that point is dead on.

Now myself, I believe bullying to a point is just part of growing up, but only to a point and far too few parents seem willing to step in when their child becomes a bully.

Posted by lsucoonass
shreveport and east texas
Member since Nov 2003
69702 posts
Posted on 10/17/18 at 12:17 pm to
Time for wrestling and jiu jitsu
Posted by EA6B
TX
Member since Dec 2012
14754 posts
Posted on 10/17/18 at 12:17 pm to
quote:

Social media has made bullying worse. The kid can't go home and escape from the bullying without it continuing online. I'm not saying I completely agree with this theory, but in some cases i suppose it has some merit.


Bullying today is more than getting shoved around on the play ground, it is often taken to the point of destroying a kid's life, especially among girls.
Posted by sfdurst
New Iberia
Member since Dec 2009
195 posts
Posted on 10/17/18 at 12:18 pm to
1) Embrace Darwinism

2) Homeschool is the only option
Posted by lsucoonass
shreveport and east texas
Member since Nov 2003
69702 posts
Posted on 10/17/18 at 12:20 pm to
It has evolved with social media

Blackmailing is happening a lot too
Posted by Anonymous95
Member since Sep 2014
2101 posts
Posted on 10/17/18 at 12:21 pm to
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Kid has done karate for a few years.

I had a friend growing up that would get bullied from time to time. He was smaller than most but he was trained in Karate. He would never challenge anyone who bullied him.

On one occasion, this dumb oaf fricked with him and went too far and my buddy beat the living shite out of him. Totally kicked his arse without getting touched in return. Never had another problem with a bully again.
This post was edited on 10/17/18 at 12:21 pm
Posted by MBclass83
Member since Oct 2010
10115 posts
Posted on 10/17/18 at 12:21 pm to
Someone was messing with my kid in middle school. I approached kid and told him if he didn't stop, I was gonna rip his arm off and beat him with the bloody end. I said your choice. Nice way or not nice way. He chose wisely.
Posted by dixiechick
Member since Sep 2017
918 posts
Posted on 10/17/18 at 12:28 pm to
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This post was edited on 10/1/20 at 10:17 am
Posted by Oilfieldbiology
Member since Nov 2016
41367 posts
Posted on 10/17/18 at 12:31 pm to
Displaced,

I agree with you on getting rid of zero tolerance policies and letting boys be boys in terms of fight and get it over with. Serious question though, what do you do if your daughter is bullied? I’m struggling to imagine the proper response to a 9-15 year old girl being bullied other than ignore them, they don’t mean anything.
Posted by Lsupimp
Ersatz Amerika-97.6% phony & fake
Member since Nov 2003
85309 posts
Posted on 10/17/18 at 12:31 pm to
Bullying can frick you up. I had a brother (rest his soul) 4 years older than me and he tormented me all through childhood until I was like 13. It gave me a lot of unresolved anger into adulthood. It made me really aggressive towards bullies so I was always fighting bullies and loud mouths in HS and I was ready to go at Murpheys fighting guys twice my size, and I had problems at work up the chain if I felt disrespected. Getting beaten up constantly as a kid by my brother (I mean bloody) didn't make me cower but it made me way too aggressive. I seriously didn't resolve it until I was in my 30's and it hurt my life. And to this day I have the same recurring nightmare.

I say this because if something cuts your soul enough it can linger. My brother, btw made amends around the time I was 13/14 and was a great brother until his death.
Posted by rantfan
new iberia la
Member since Nov 2012
14110 posts
Posted on 10/17/18 at 12:32 pm to
Beat bullies dad up and that bully will stop
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
32982 posts
Posted on 10/17/18 at 12:32 pm to
quote:

I approached kid and told him if he didn't stop, I was gonna rip his arm off and beat him with the bloody end


This some trashy shite. What's your plan if he calls your bluff, hardo?
This post was edited on 10/17/18 at 12:33 pm
Posted by TheFonz
Somewhere in Louisiana
Member since Jul 2016
22772 posts
Posted on 10/17/18 at 12:34 pm to
quote:

My daughter was tormented/bullied in middle school by one boy


A female relative of mine was being bullied by a boy back in the early 90's. Not to the extent your daughter has been bullied, but it was still bad. So one morning she drank a shite-ton of orange juice and milk, and got on the bus. He started up with his shite, so she puked all over him. Acted like it was an accident, etc. and got cleaned up, but she later told him she would puke on him every day until he stopped.

He stopped.

Just a suggestion...
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
32982 posts
Posted on 10/17/18 at 12:35 pm to
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I’m struggling to imagine the proper response to a 9-15 year old girl being bullied other than ignore them, they don’t mean anything.

Yeah, girls are a different animal. Grab that weave and pull!
Posted by HeyHeyHogsAllTheWay
Member since Feb 2017
12458 posts
Posted on 10/17/18 at 12:42 pm to
quote:

This some trashy shite. What's your plan if he calls your bluff, hardo?


If my child were hardcore being beat up by a bigger kid, I would not be above hiring a bigger kid to whip that kid's arse.
Posted by Sofa King Crimson
3rd Ward
Member since Nov 2008
4135 posts
Posted on 10/17/18 at 12:45 pm to
hmmm this popped up on FB a bit ago...


Posted by NotoriousFSU
Atlanta, GA
Member since Oct 2008
11968 posts
Posted on 10/17/18 at 12:49 pm to
Kick the shite out of the bully's father. Then frick his old lady.
This post was edited on 10/17/18 at 12:50 pm
Posted by i am dan
NC
Member since Aug 2011
30429 posts
Posted on 10/17/18 at 12:51 pm to
quote:

Bullying is good for social growth. Prove me wrong


Like when a kid gets beat up and picked on in the caf by 6 other kids?

That's good for social growth? Okie dokie.
This post was edited on 10/17/18 at 12:59 pm
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