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re: Poster who lost his young son about a year ago

Posted on 11/22/20 at 10:54 pm to
Posted by Ted2010
Member since Oct 2010
38958 posts
Posted on 11/22/20 at 10:54 pm to
quote:

So sorry! As much as it hurts, thanks for sharing to give perspective.


Thank you
Posted by GreenRockTiger
vortex to the whirlpool of despair
Member since Jun 2020
60558 posts
Posted on 11/22/20 at 10:57 pm to
quote:

I do know I’ll see my boy again and that helps


You will, and that’s the best thing.

I am so sorry for your loss. And Redstick. We will pray for y’all. My heart hurts so bad for y’all right now.
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
53516 posts
Posted on 11/22/20 at 10:59 pm to
quote:

I always appreciate this comment, but also follow up on it. What would you do differently, knowing what you know? Feel like I have a good grasp on time and perspective and that really emphasizes how I interact with my kids, but interested to hear your thoughts.

Teach them things that your grandparents taught you. Plant a garden, take them fishing, hiking or outdoors. Play games in the backyard, build a swing set. I think young kids need to be more unplugged than they are on average and I didn't do a good enough job with this.

But if you're already worried about how to be a better dad (or mom) your kids already have a great advantage in life, which is loving and caring parents
This post was edited on 11/22/20 at 11:09 pm
Posted by List Eater
Htown
Member since Apr 2005
23701 posts
Posted on 11/22/20 at 11:07 pm to
I also think about him. I was treated in the exact same walk in ER the week before his thread. He apparently knows Owl personally as do I and hope we cross paths sometime. I'm a hugger and a big softy, so it would probably get ugly.
Posted by OWLFAN86
Erotic Novelist
Member since Jun 2004
196497 posts
Posted on 11/22/20 at 11:19 pm to
quote:

I also think about him. I was treated in the exact same walk in ER the week before his thread. He apparently knows Owl personally as do I and hope we cross paths sometime. I'm a hugger and a big softy, so it would probably get ugly.


H-town as a whole hugs a lot at our meat swaps
Posted by Lickitty Split
Inside
Member since Apr 2017
4161 posts
Posted on 11/22/20 at 11:40 pm to
I hope redstick ended up having a large settlement from that tragic event. Money can never replace a person and definitely not a a child. I do know that it can help with having some closure and possibly allow some healing from such a devastating thing.

I also know that there was a human or multiple humans on the other side who either were so inexperienced or potentially negligent that they have to live with the consequences of their actions. This is one of those situations that no one will ever be the same and you only hope that all parties can heal and ask, give, accept and receive forgiveness.

I’m going to keep both redstick, his family and the health care providers in my prayers.
Posted by Havoc
Member since Nov 2015
39227 posts
Posted on 11/22/20 at 11:44 pm to
Sorry to hear that. Words escape.
Posted by Solo Cam
Member since Sep 2015
35037 posts
Posted on 11/22/20 at 11:44 pm to
quote:

I couldn’t read the thread. My son passed away at 10 years old. I just can’t read threads like that. God bless that man and his family. It’s pure hell
Goddamn man. I’m sorry for your loss. That’s rough.
Posted by Napoleon
Kenna
Member since Dec 2007
74227 posts
Posted on 11/22/20 at 11:55 pm to
I never saw the last post and he was replying to me. I think about the situation often.


So sad. I could never deal.

Posted by Napoleon
Kenna
Member since Dec 2007
74227 posts
Posted on 11/22/20 at 11:56 pm to
This is a great idea.
Posted by TimeOutdoors
LA
Member since Sep 2014
13428 posts
Posted on 11/23/20 at 12:00 am to
When I hear stories like this I always think back to a family in our community whose small plane got caught in ice fog and ended up making an emergency landing on a semi frozen lake. The parents got out just as the plane went through the ice with their three daughters on board. Ages 6-9.
Posted by TheDeathValley
Louisiana
Member since Sep 2010
20607 posts
Posted on 11/23/20 at 12:05 am to
I just read that thread for the first time and I am nauseated. I feel so deeply for him and his family.
Posted by FLBooGoTigs1
Nocatee, FL.
Member since Jan 2008
59270 posts
Posted on 11/23/20 at 12:28 am to
Sorry but I go down with that plane trying to save my kids. Life without them and knowing how they died would haunt me the rest of my life.
Posted by TimeOutdoors
LA
Member since Sep 2014
13428 posts
Posted on 11/23/20 at 12:41 am to
It’s tough all around. I go down a rabbit hole that’s hard to get out of everything time I think being in this position.

I will say they have 3-4 boys now and seem to be an extremely happy and loving family.
Posted by offshoretrash
Farmerville, La
Member since Aug 2008
10768 posts
Posted on 11/23/20 at 4:45 am to
Jose Wales, Sid, and Redstick's son were some tough losses on here. All were taken way too soon, RIP.
Posted by Perfect Circle
S W Alabama
Member since Sep 2017
7904 posts
Posted on 11/23/20 at 4:55 am to
My most sincere condolences.
Posted by Tempratt
Member since Oct 2013
15183 posts
Posted on 11/23/20 at 4:59 am to
Oh shite. I wish I had not read that again.
Posted by tiger91
In my own little world
Member since Nov 2005
40226 posts
Posted on 11/23/20 at 6:45 am to
Jose Wells and Sid??

I well remember redstick13 post — and during hurricane Laura he mentioned checking on his sons grave — I had forgotten the backstory

His son was named after his brother who died as a young adult iirc and they’re buried beside each other.

My kids are 28, 23 and almost 20 (2 boys and then a girl). There’s nothing I wouldn’t do to keep them safe — son number 2 just got engaged. Talk about times flies.
Posted by tiger91
In my own little world
Member since Nov 2005
40226 posts
Posted on 11/23/20 at 6:47 am to
Oh parent to parent, I’m so sorry. I’m a mom of 3 older kids but this is still a fear of mine.

God bless.
Posted by Shanegolang
Denham Springs, La
Member since Sep 2015
4978 posts
Posted on 11/23/20 at 6:49 am to
quote:

Ted2010

and just like that my silly "problems" are truly meaningless........prayers for you and your family brother.
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