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re: People that don't go by their first name

Posted on 2/18/20 at 10:50 pm to
Posted by scrooster
Resident Ethicist
Member since Jul 2012
43506 posts
Posted on 2/18/20 at 10:50 pm to
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Your company should use email addresses that use the name people go by.

Bingo .... or go by last names and then let the company email client offer a drop down of available choices. First initial, last name.
Posted by Twenty 49
Shreveport
Member since Jun 2014
21312 posts
Posted on 2/20/20 at 7:37 am to
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I hate my mother for naming me but knowing she wanted me to go by my middle name. Why not just put it first? It causes so many fricking issues.


Yes. My only lecture to expecting parents is to make the kid's first name the one you will call him or her. Please don't make it their middle name.

Otherwise, the child will have to deal with every schoolteacher, professor, doctor, airline, government agency, IT or HR department, etc. calling them by a first name that they do not use and may not even recognize when it is called.

The child will always resent that their parents did this to them.
Posted by Flyingtiger82
BFE
Member since Oct 2019
1621 posts
Posted on 2/20/20 at 8:07 am to
quote:

My parents decided this for me


Yep. Had no choice on this one. Never needed nor used my first name until I went to college. Now only telemarketers and doctors call me by my first name. Kinda handy actually.
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This post was edited on 2/20/20 at 8:11 am
Posted by Dawgwithnoname
NE Louisiana
Member since Dec 2019
4278 posts
Posted on 2/20/20 at 8:52 am to
I can't help what my parents did. I've never seen you, but I assume you use that reasoning a lot, too.
This post was edited on 2/20/20 at 8:53 am
Posted by jchamil
Member since Nov 2009
19452 posts
Posted on 2/20/20 at 9:34 am to
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Otherwise, the child will have to deal with every schoolteacher, professor, doctor, airline, government agency, IT or HR department, etc. calling them by a first name that they do not use and may not even recognize when it is called.


This is not a big deal. What kind of mouth breather wouldn't be able to recognize their own first name?

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The child will always resent that their parents did this to them.


Posted by Eric Stratton
Faber College
Member since Mar 2015
2056 posts
Posted on 2/20/20 at 10:13 am to
Ya, we all decided at the prime age of 0 months which name we would be identified as.

Posted by The Torch
DFW The Dub
Member since Aug 2014
29450 posts
Posted on 2/20/20 at 10:14 am to
Raises Hand

I've always gone by my middle name
Posted by wheelr
Banned
Member since Jul 2012
6008 posts
Posted on 2/20/20 at 10:20 am to
I go by my middle name. I actually enjoy the confusion it creates. Anyone who matters knows what I go by.

ETA: I didn't realize so many did this. Also, my company is not so rigid they can't give me a correct email address.
This post was edited on 2/20/20 at 10:22 am
Posted by FearTheFish
Member since Dec 2007
4450 posts
Posted on 2/20/20 at 12:23 pm to
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fricking millennials.
I know more Gen X that go by "Skip" or "Buddy" than any millennial.
Posted by Rabbs and QStick
Texas
Member since Apr 2012
3033 posts
Posted on 2/20/20 at 12:38 pm to
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I know more Gen X that go by "Skip" or "Buddy" than any millennial.


I even know a Turtle
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