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Posted on 7/13/17 at 1:42 pm to dpd901
No they can't. Once papers are filed, that's it. The rest is fighting over custody and assets. Judges don't give a shite who you frick after papers are in the system.
Posted on 7/13/17 at 1:47 pm to andwesway
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No they can't. Once papers are filed, that's it. The rest is fighting over custody and assets. Judges don't give a shite who you frick after papers are in the system.
Judges in Louisiana don't give a shite who you fricked while married.
Louisiana is a "no fault" divorce state
Louisiana is very formulaic in regards to child support and alimony.
I've been told that custody is 50/50 unless you demonstrate a severe case of endangerment. Judges do have discretion when it comes to how the 50/50 split is set up and who is awarded "domicilliary custodian".
Posted on 7/13/17 at 3:27 pm to specchaser
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if you have kids it's 12 months from the date you file before you're officially divorced
Don't know the law now but that was not the case in 1990. 6 months if you were living apart for at least a year. I know several things have changed since then.
Posted on 7/13/17 at 3:28 pm to RedRifle
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What happened?
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I got burned by this once
sounds like he got an STD
Posted on 7/13/17 at 3:29 pm to RedRifle
When I lived in Baton Rouge years ago, my neighbors broke up all the time. Both would have dates the next weekend. If it was she who left (with their kids!) instead of him, he'd even bring a girlfriend into their house. Later, once they made up, they acted like they were the most loving couple in the world. They did eventually divorce.
Posted on 7/13/17 at 3:30 pm to andwesway
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Once papers are filed, that's it. The rest is fighting over custody and assets. Judges don't give a shite who you frick after papers are in the system.
i haven't looked this up in a bit but can't this affect permanent spousal?
Posted on 7/13/17 at 3:44 pm to RedRifle
some states have minimum waiting periods before a no fault divorce can be finalized. I wouldn't want to wait a year or two to get back on the dating scene if I was in that situation, 3 months is even too long as once the divorce has been filed it's as good as being over at that point......in MOST cases...
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Posted on 7/13/17 at 3:46 pm to SlowFlowPro
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People dating while they are only separated
The better question is why one would even consider dating while going through a divorce/separation? People truly don't know how to be introspective and deal with being alone and finding oneself.
The very last thing on someone's mind while separated should be getting into a new relationship.
Posted on 7/13/17 at 3:48 pm to Paul Allen
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People truly don't know how to be introspective and deal with being alone and finding oneself.
oh for sure
most people have been warped and programmed to be way too self-centered, but in the most pathetic, stimulus-based way possible
Posted on 7/13/17 at 3:53 pm to SlowFlowPro
Yep, I agree
Posted on 7/13/17 at 3:59 pm to RedRifle
Many times I notice that married/divorced people just don't know how to be single. They get out of a shitty marriage but are back in another serious relationship in a couple months. They just don't know how to be single.
Posted on 7/13/17 at 4:00 pm to SuperSaint
i think that's a problem and it's just the habit and avoiding self doubt (which means you avoid self analysis)
much easier to "live a lie" if it's comfortable without as much conflict
much easier to "live a lie" if it's comfortable without as much conflict
Posted on 7/13/17 at 4:06 pm to RedRifle
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What happened to actually waiting until you were divorced before moving on.
Early bird gets the worm. When opportunity knocks....
Posted on 7/13/17 at 4:06 pm to SuperSaint
quote:Yeah, you get divorced because you want to screw random people, but you marry the first piece you get
They get out of a shitty marriage but are back in another serious relationship in a couple months. They just don't know how to be single.
Posted on 7/13/17 at 4:17 pm to RedRifle
I definitely should've waited longer than I did. I didn't intend to get serious when I met my current BF like a month after separating. In hindsight, I needed a lot more time to be alone and get my priorities in line. We're still together a couple years later, but yeah. Dumb.
That said, I was already 34, so what little stock I had was rapidly depreciating. Had to lock down the next one before my looks were too far gone.
That said, I was already 34, so what little stock I had was rapidly depreciating. Had to lock down the next one before my looks were too far gone.
Posted on 7/13/17 at 4:17 pm to dpd901
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The other issue is that there is no "legal separation" in Louisiana (at least there wasn't 15 years ago when I went through it); therefore your spouse can technically sue for adultery and be awarded alimony as a result if it's found out you were banging the new SO before the divorce was final. It's also retroactive, so if it comes out after it's finalized, they could take you back to court.
Not sure if true, but a girl I was seeing about 10 years ago thought it was and was very careful about not wanting anyone to know she was even dating someone, mainly because they had a child. She was the friend of a friend and her husband was cheating on her, so she filed for divorce. I met her about 2 months into process...we didn't go out together or even go to restaurants together because she didn't want to accidentally be seen with another guy by someone who her husband knew. She was very afraid of losing full custody of her kid. We dated for about 6 weeks then she cut it off (the relationship, not my penis, you sick fricks). She said I was too nice and she wasn't ready for a new relationship so soon and blah blah blah
Now if you would like to discuss the wishy washy mental state of a woman just recently separated/divorced, then that is a whole 100 page thread unto itself.
Posted on 7/13/17 at 4:17 pm to Evil Little Thing
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was already 34,
Ouch. I hope you're funny.
Posted on 7/13/17 at 4:19 pm to LucasP
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Ouch. I hope you're funny.
Right?
Posted on 7/13/17 at 4:24 pm to SlowFlowPro
Pretty sure no. But i'm not 100%. I don't pay shite. 50/50 joint legal.
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