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People dating while they are only separated

Posted on 7/13/17 at 10:33 am
Posted by RedRifle
Austin/NO
Member since Dec 2013
8328 posts
Posted on 7/13/17 at 10:33 am
I'm starting to see this happen more often. What happened to actually waiting until you were divorced before moving on.
Posted by knowingabyss
Vermont
Member since Aug 2016
2700 posts
Posted on 7/13/17 at 10:34 am to
Lol, you don't come back from separated
Posted by PiscesTiger
Concrete, WA
Member since Feb 2004
53696 posts
Posted on 7/13/17 at 10:35 am to
Posted by UncleRuckus
Member since Feb 2013
7622 posts
Posted on 7/13/17 at 10:35 am to
Typically the people that are seperated were already smashing the person they are now dating
This post was edited on 7/13/17 at 10:36 am
Posted by Boudreaux35
BR
Member since Sep 2007
21394 posts
Posted on 7/13/17 at 10:35 am to
quote:

People dating while they are only separated


We're probably "dating" before they were separated also.
Posted by 79
Welp...
Member since Aug 2013
1029 posts
Posted on 7/13/17 at 10:35 am to
Damn it, Boudreaux35, we had the exact same response...

This post was edited on 7/13/17 at 10:37 am
Posted by Bunk Moreland
Member since Dec 2010
52792 posts
Posted on 7/13/17 at 10:36 am to
I got burned by this once, but I kind of knew it might happen. Proceed with caution, my friends, and just realize you may be the side dick for a short time.
Posted by RedRifle
Austin/NO
Member since Dec 2013
8328 posts
Posted on 7/13/17 at 11:03 am to
quote:

I got burned by this once, but I kind of knew it might happen.


What happened?
Posted by Sao
East Texas Piney Woods
Member since Jun 2009
65559 posts
Posted on 7/13/17 at 11:04 am to

Ha! You're on Match.com...
Posted by Cjscore
Prairieville
Member since Dec 2016
591 posts
Posted on 7/13/17 at 11:15 am to
quote:

What happened?


He got burned, probably went to the doctor. What details are you looking for?
Posted by Tigeralum2008
Yankees Fan
Member since Apr 2012
17123 posts
Posted on 7/13/17 at 11:18 am to
I was forced to remain separated for a year because our divorce involved children.

I started dating about 3 months after the split. I used that time to get my head right and get back on my feet.

No Damn way I was waiting a year to smash.
Posted by specchaser
lafayette
Member since Feb 2008
2582 posts
Posted on 7/13/17 at 11:23 am to
so you expect a person to have to wait 12 months before dating? if you have kids it's 12 months from the date you file before you're officially divorced
Posted by BeerMoney
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2012
8355 posts
Posted on 7/13/17 at 11:38 am to
Nobody waited for the divorce before moving on ever. If separation happens, one half of the equation will be getting strange within 30 days.
Posted by TigerPaul
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2006
2948 posts
Posted on 7/13/17 at 12:33 pm to
I did it. But I am a terrible person.

Divorce took over a year to be finalized and we both knew it was over. Didn't actively go out looking to date but was open to the idea and met some nice people in the process. I did however keep it somewhat quiet until the divorce as official.
Posted by dpd901
South Louisiana
Member since Apr 2011
7504 posts
Posted on 7/13/17 at 12:43 pm to
The other issue is that there is no "legal separation" in Louisiana (at least there wasn't 15 years ago when I went through it); therefore your spouse can technically sue for adultery and be awarded alimony as a result if it's found out you were banging the new SO before the divorce was final. It's also retroactive, so if it comes out after it's finalized, they could take you back to court.
Posted by Eli Goldfinger
Member since Sep 2016
32785 posts
Posted on 7/13/17 at 12:43 pm to
quote:

What happened to actually waiting


Grace periods
Posted by keakar
Member since Jan 2017
29817 posts
Posted on 7/13/17 at 12:59 pm to
separated is just a tool women use so you support her fully while she fricks 20 other dudes trying to find someone else to support her arse
Posted by chinhoyang
Member since Jun 2011
23246 posts
Posted on 7/13/17 at 12:59 pm to
They were already dating long before the separation.
Posted by Quarterite
The Lower Quarter
Member since Oct 2016
959 posts
Posted on 7/13/17 at 12:59 pm to
quote:

I'm starting to see this happen more often


It's been happening forever. You just decided to pull your head out and notice.
Posted by RedRifle
Austin/NO
Member since Dec 2013
8328 posts
Posted on 7/13/17 at 1:33 pm to
quote:

It's been happening forever. You just decided to pull your head out and notice.


No, now people are acting like separated doesn't still mean "technically" married.
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