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re: Parents under 35, do you spank your children?

Posted on 6/28/23 at 12:29 pm to
Posted by DownshiftAndFloorIt
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Posted on 6/28/23 at 12:29 pm to
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one quite literally can't get a handle on their kid any other way thank spanking them, then that's a solid sign of a pretty shitty parent.




Thinking this way is the sign of a shitty parent.
This post was edited on 6/28/23 at 12:31 pm
Posted by DownshiftAndFloorIt
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Posted on 6/28/23 at 12:31 pm to
Aint nobody talking about beating the shite out of their kid with an extension cord or anything.
Posted by ReadyPlayer1
Clown World
Member since Oct 2020
1084 posts
Posted on 6/28/23 at 12:32 pm to
Over 35 but found a trick to get them to stop grabbing electrical plugs. Son wouldn't listen and kept playing with them so I would wait and as soon as he grabbed it I would give him a good hard pluck on his hand. He learned fast from that. Spanking really doesn't work or timeout since he is still to young to understand. He is wild and while it has been amazing it has also been a shite show
Posted by shel311
McKinney, Texas
Member since Aug 2004
112624 posts
Posted on 6/28/23 at 12:32 pm to
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I think you're one of the top 3 dumbest people on this website
Bless your heart, I have zero clue who you are, but glad to see you seem to hang on every word I say and have your weird opinion you can't back up if you tried. This is the part where you won't try, again, because we both know you can't. So you can run along now.
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So forgive me for not giving a frick about your opinion. It's as wrong as all your other opinions.


Imagine calling me dumb then actually arguing that a 1.5 can understanding reasoning on that level. That lack of self awareness, woo boy...not good.
This post was edited on 6/28/23 at 12:33 pm
Posted by Tigersonfire
Pville
Member since Oct 2018
3027 posts
Posted on 6/28/23 at 12:32 pm to
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9 out of 10 times its your issue not the kids


You do know EVERY statistical fact in the downfall of American families and children is directly linked to the stopping of “spankings” and participation trophies??? Look at the world of the 70-80’s when it was normal and look at the world now. Wake up open your eyes look around and stop regurgitating liberal propaganda. Jesus Christ
Posted by GreenRockTiger
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Member since Jun 2020
58505 posts
Posted on 6/28/23 at 12:34 pm to
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Imagine calling me dumb then actually arguing that a 1.5 can understanding reasoning on that level.
then how do you discipline a 1.5 year old that is doing something he’s not supposed to? And I don’t mean spanking - but otherwise?
Posted by Indefatigable
Member since Jan 2019
35723 posts
Posted on 6/28/23 at 12:34 pm to
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Aint nobody talking about beating the shite out of their kid with an extension cord or anything.

Exactly. Like the guy a couple posts below you with the kid reaching into electrical plugs.

Sometimes a love tap can be effectively to send a message quickly.
Posted by LSUfan4444
Member since Mar 2004
56623 posts
Posted on 6/28/23 at 12:34 pm to
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nobody talking about beating the shite out of their kid with an extension cord or anything.



Yeah, children definitely understand that open hand slaps are all out of love and that an extension cord is aggravated assault.

I'm sure they also believe mom really fell on the coffee table.
Posted by shel311
McKinney, Texas
Member since Aug 2004
112624 posts
Posted on 6/28/23 at 12:34 pm to
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Thinking this way is the sign of a shitty parent.
Thinking that spanking is not the literal only way to discipline a kid is a sign of a shitty parent?

Posted by mthorn2
Planet Louisiana
Member since Sep 2007
1527 posts
Posted on 6/28/23 at 12:34 pm to
Little over 35 but not 40. All three of my kids have gotten spankings. The first one got the most and youngest the least amount of spankings. I've become a better parent and don't spank for stupid shite but spankings are still needed from time to time.

I will admit my oldest is our best child so maybe I should have spanked them all the same.....but its probably just the kids personality.
Posted by LSUballs
RayVegas LA
Member since Feb 2008
39883 posts
Posted on 6/28/23 at 12:36 pm to
I pray that you don't have children. Because if you do the only chance of them not being a stain on society is if they ignore every fricking thing you tell them. You are a disease.
Posted by LSUfan4444
Member since Mar 2004
56623 posts
Posted on 6/28/23 at 12:36 pm to
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how do you discipline a 1.5 year old that is doing something he’s not supposed to?


First, you protect and prevent. Narrate what is and isn't allowed. Then, go back to protect and prevent. Show/give them what they can do. Narrate that, then go back to protect and prevent. Praise good behavior.

Spanking is a form of punishment not parenting.
Posted by cheobode
Member since Dec 2017
1493 posts
Posted on 6/28/23 at 12:37 pm to
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You'll have lots of people with no kids telling you how to raise yours.


I love arguing with these retards on Reddit. You'll have some neckbeard saying even the lightest tap on the hand is abuse and when you ask them how many kids they have, they'll say "well...none, but that's irrelevant"
Posted by Indefatigable
Member since Jan 2019
35723 posts
Posted on 6/28/23 at 12:37 pm to
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Yeah, children definitely understand that open hand slaps are all out of love and that an extension cord is aggravated assault

I mean, I’ve been a child before, and I certainly knew the difference between getting a swat vs if my parents had hit me with an extension cord (they didn’t)
Posted by shel311
McKinney, Texas
Member since Aug 2004
112624 posts
Posted on 6/28/23 at 12:38 pm to
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then how do you discipline a 1.5 year old that is doing something he’s not supposed to? And I don’t mean spanking - but otherwise?
Are you insinuating spanking is the only way?

You try to teach them what is right and wrong, but again, at 1.5 years old, they 100% do not have the ability to reason to these levels...it's wild that other posters think otherwise. They simply don't have the capacity for rational discussions, explanations and if you do this then this happens. Anyone who tells you they smacked their 1 year old for doing something and then the 1 year old knew never to do it again is simply lying to you. This should be obvious to everyone, but apparently it isn't.

You want to be consistent in the method of discipline you choose to pay off down the road, but again, it's not really doing much good in that very moment at 1 year old. It's what you're instilling in them going forward.
Posted by tigafan4life
Member since Dec 2006
50635 posts
Posted on 6/28/23 at 12:39 pm to
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irst, you protect and prevent. Narrate what is and isn't allowed. Then, go back to protect and prevent. Show/give them what they can do. Narrate that, then go back to protect and prevent. Praise good behavior.
You never met a strong willed child? LOL Good luck with talking to them when they are 3 and dont give a frick what you want to protect and prevent.
Posted by ThuperThumpin
Member since Dec 2013
9046 posts
Posted on 6/28/23 at 12:39 pm to
We did very seldom in the 3-5 range. It was usually when they were doing something we told them specifically not to do that was dangerous like running in a parking lot. We would warn them, then did time out and finally on the third strike we may give the a pop on the rear before sending into them time out. I never went to town with a belt like my parents did and never will.
Posted by GreenRockTiger
vortex to the whirlpool of despair
Member since Jun 2020
58505 posts
Posted on 6/28/23 at 12:40 pm to
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First, you protect and prevent.

First I was asking shel since he knows so much

Second, you are advocating for helicopter parenting? I’m not saying you shouldn’t watch your kids - but stuff happens when you are not looking.

Plus, you tell a 1.5 year old NOT to stick keys in an outlet - guess what they’re going to do … if you take away the keys, then they will lick the outlet
Posted by shel311
McKinney, Texas
Member since Aug 2004
112624 posts
Posted on 6/28/23 at 12:40 pm to
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I pray that you don't have children. Because if you do the only chance of them not being a stain on society is if they ignore every fricking thing you tell them. You are a disease.
I can't imagine letting another message board poster affect me as much as I've affected you, and yet I still have zero recollection of every seeing a post of yours.

Prayers sent, you have a lot of coping to today it seems. I'm pulling for you, I think you have a chance to get through it.


Also, notice how I directly called you out and you didn't respond, exactly like I said you would not because you simply couldn't? Funny how that works, with me being correct and making you look silly, ain't it?
Posted by Indefatigable
Member since Jan 2019
35723 posts
Posted on 6/28/23 at 12:40 pm to
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Are you insinuating spanking is the only way?

No, she isn’t. And no one in this thread has. So shut up with this strawman shite.
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