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re: Parents of the OT: How do you deal with child going to grandparents for the summer?

Posted on 6/9/23 at 1:52 pm to
Posted by Artificial Intel
Member since Jan 2023
210 posts
Posted on 6/9/23 at 1:52 pm to
What’s the youngest acceptable age to send your kid to their grandparents for the summer? Asking for a friend.
Posted by WhoDatNC
NC
Member since Dec 2013
11733 posts
Posted on 6/9/23 at 1:54 pm to
My kids would spend the entire Summer in nola with my family from ages 3 until covid. My 15 y/o is asking to go spend July there. They absolutely love it simply b/c it's a different way of life from here in NC. We absolutely loved it b/c it also gave us a break.
Posted by Ralph_Wiggum
Sugarland
Member since Jul 2005
10671 posts
Posted on 6/9/23 at 1:57 pm to
That's awesome. I spent about a month with my grandma each summer. Grandpa died when I was a toddler. It was great. Small town in the country. Got to know a lot about my family roots and get to know my great uncles and great aunts. It was fun. Grandma would take me out to lunch almost everyday and cook dinner and then I got to spend time with my uncle when he came home from work.
Posted by danilo
Member since Nov 2008
20212 posts
Posted on 6/9/23 at 1:59 pm to
She’ll be gone for months? How about saying No to that?
Posted by cheobode
Member since Dec 2017
1171 posts
Posted on 6/9/23 at 2:05 pm to
I spent two weeks every summer at my grandparents. My grandpa put my arse to work. Cutting grass, hauling dirt. He liked junk so he, my cousin and I went pick up a refrigerator in Mermentau in his 1972 Ford Courier pick up. My cousin and I had to stand in the back of the pickup and hold this heavy arse fridge while he drove back to Jennings. No straps, no nothing.

That little truck struggled and we couldn't even make it up the Mermentau River Bridge. He had to coast back down and bring the fridge back. He was pissed.

Posted by Tigre85
Louisiana
Member since Feb 2019
1920 posts
Posted on 6/9/23 at 2:20 pm to
Wife and I keep our 3 year old grandson all summer . I pretty much missed seeing my kids grow up due to work . I enjoy the heck out of my redheaded blue eyed little man .
Posted by LSU-MNCBABY
Knightsgate
Member since Jan 2004
24369 posts
Posted on 6/9/23 at 2:21 pm to
shite my mom bitches about keeping them for an afternoon
Posted by sprefontaine7
Member since Jun 2023
115 posts
Posted on 6/9/23 at 2:29 pm to
Says a dumb bitch
Posted by shel311
McKinney, Texas
Member since Aug 2004
111092 posts
Posted on 6/9/23 at 2:35 pm to
quote:

What’s the youngest acceptable age to send your kid to their grandparents for the summer? Asking for a friend.
Mine started at 5 after Kindergarten. Never had any issues at all.
Posted by ellunchboxo
Gtown
Member since Feb 2009
18808 posts
Posted on 6/9/23 at 2:36 pm to
My little girl goes to camp in TX for four weeks. This is her 3rd year and she started when she was 8. No phones, but there’s an app where they take pictures and post them so at least we can see what’s going on.

It’s a little rough on us because we miss her but she would stay all summer if we would let her. It’s her favorite thing in the world.
Posted by shel311
McKinney, Texas
Member since Aug 2004
111092 posts
Posted on 6/9/23 at 2:38 pm to
quote:

She’ll be gone for months? How about saying No to that?
Or saying yes.
Posted by tigerfoot
Alexandria
Member since Sep 2006
56428 posts
Posted on 6/9/23 at 2:38 pm to
I wouldnt agree to all summer, but a couple weeks would be nice.
Posted by LSUBoo
Knoxville, TN
Member since Mar 2006
101927 posts
Posted on 6/9/23 at 2:42 pm to
quote:

What’s the youngest acceptable age to send your kid to their grandparents for the summer?


My kid has done 2 weeks at ages 3, 4, and 5. I'd have no problem adding a few more weeks on when he's older.

quote:

Asking for a friend


Hi friend!
Posted by keakar
Member since Jan 2017
30098 posts
Posted on 6/9/23 at 2:43 pm to
quote:

Think about how special it is for your child to have time to spend with their grandparents. Not all kids get that.



this ^^^^^^

and enjoy all the extra sex and peace and quiet
Posted by tigerpimpbot
Chairman of the Pool Board
Member since Nov 2011
66985 posts
Posted on 6/9/23 at 2:59 pm to
quote:

My 8 year old just left to go spend the summer with her grandparents


The title of this chapter of your book should be: The Summer of Hookers and Blow
Posted by SirSaintly
Uptown, New Orleans
Member since Feb 2013
3136 posts
Posted on 6/9/23 at 3:10 pm to
I went to summer camp in Maine for 6 weeks every summer from 7 to 14. I loved it and I'm sure my parents enjoyed having alone time. They went to Europe one summer, lots of golf trips etc. It's good for the parents to have some free time away from the kids
Posted by i am dan
NC
Member since Aug 2011
24808 posts
Posted on 6/9/23 at 3:12 pm to
We used to do this when our son was younger.

It sucked to begin with and we would miss him.

Next day we realize we are by ourselves and get to do things we used to do when we were younger.

and we have a good time.
Posted by Geauxld Finger
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2005
31764 posts
Posted on 6/9/23 at 3:14 pm to
Let me tell you how lucky you are. I don’t trust my kids grandparents enough to leave them alone for more than a day or two.

Be appreciative that you could trust two people to mind your kid for a summer. As a father of two with zero help, you have no idea how envious I am. I just think about all the things I could do and enjoy without putting up with their bullshite. Would I miss them? Absolutely! But it would be a welcomed break from the stress
This post was edited on 6/9/23 at 3:16 pm
Posted by Hobie101
Member since May 2012
474 posts
Posted on 6/9/23 at 3:26 pm to
Two weeks of freedom start for me tomorrow!! Woohoooo!
Posted by Quatrepot
Member since Jun 2023
4059 posts
Posted on 6/9/23 at 3:44 pm to
All summer?!?! That’s nuts. My kids would not have left more than a week
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