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Posted on 9/29/15 at 9:55 pm
Posted by RileyTime
Gulf Breeze, FL
Member since Oct 2008
7125 posts
Posted on 9/29/15 at 9:55 pm
Background: I am in the Air Force and I have orders to move to North Carolina. My wife's ex husband waited to the final hour to contest us taking my step son to North Carolina with us. So at 4:04 pm today we get an email saying we have to appear in court at 9 am tomorrow because he's contesting the relocation.

So my question is, can this happen? And what exactly is he doing? Per the courts he has 30 days to appeal and we notified him on 28 August that we're moving... Today is day 32.

He's a single dad also in the Air Force. He has no family in WA. It was so late we can't even contact my wife's lawyer.

She has majority custody and in the divorce dicree if she moves over 2.5 hours away everything defaults to the mother.
This post was edited on 9/29/15 at 9:59 pm
Posted by zelman
Bogan Walk
Member since Feb 2015
2400 posts
Posted on 9/29/15 at 9:57 pm to
Free legal advice board
Posted by O
Mandeville
Member since Oct 2011
6801 posts
Posted on 9/29/15 at 9:59 pm to
Need pics of wife before anyone can make a recommendation.
Posted by RileyTime
Gulf Breeze, FL
Member since Oct 2008
7125 posts
Posted on 9/29/15 at 10:00 pm to
Jeez haha if you don't wanna give advice that's fine but courts in 13 hours and we just wanna be prepared.
Posted by abitabrewed4LSU
Houston, TX
Member since Feb 2009
1078 posts
Posted on 9/29/15 at 10:04 pm to
Posted by lsuwontonwrap
Member since Aug 2012
34147 posts
Posted on 9/29/15 at 10:06 pm to
Leave the kid.
Posted by 7thWardTiger
Richmond, Texas
Member since Nov 2009
24670 posts
Posted on 9/29/15 at 10:09 pm to
Can you be served via email? I thought a constable had to serve you court papers
Posted by RileyTime
Gulf Breeze, FL
Member since Oct 2008
7125 posts
Posted on 9/29/15 at 10:11 pm to
That's what I thought too... We served him certified letters stating I had orders and we did it with at least 60 days prior to my report date
Posted by SlowFlowPro
With populists, expect populism
Member since Jan 2004
481222 posts
Posted on 9/29/15 at 10:17 pm to
there are 2 problems

1. you're in WA and i don't think we have many (if any) WA attorneys

2. you're in the military, which creates a whole new set of issues
Posted by tiger rag 93
KCMO
Member since Oct 2007
3193 posts
Posted on 9/29/15 at 10:19 pm to
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I am in the Air Force


quote:

My wife's ex husband


quote:

He's a single dad also in the Air Force


Pay for your own legal advice, Jody.
Posted by okietiger13
From Sea to Shining Sea
Member since Jan 2007
10283 posts
Posted on 9/29/15 at 10:22 pm to
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tiger rag 93
Posted by retired trucker
midwest
Member since Feb 2015
5093 posts
Posted on 9/29/15 at 10:25 pm to
was the email from the courts?
if not, you may want to remind him how many days are in a month.

if it came from the courts

u better go

courts [ which can be evil ] will likely allow it being last minute.

I'd also protest this last minute disruption.

good luck man...
This post was edited on 9/29/15 at 10:31 pm
Posted by theenemy
Member since Oct 2006
13078 posts
Posted on 9/29/15 at 10:26 pm to
How close is the son and his dad?
Posted by RileyTime
Gulf Breeze, FL
Member since Oct 2008
7125 posts
Posted on 9/29/15 at 10:30 pm to
They are close but he never wants to leave our house or go over there.
Posted by USMCTiger03
Member since Sep 2007
71176 posts
Posted on 9/29/15 at 10:31 pm to
Contact the Washington state bar to see if they have attorneys that can give pro bono advice.
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This post was edited on 9/29/15 at 10:33 pm
Posted by upgrayedd
Lifting at Tobin's house
Member since Mar 2013
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Posted on 9/29/15 at 10:32 pm to
Posted by East Coast Band
Member since Nov 2010
67017 posts
Posted on 9/29/15 at 10:37 pm to
How would they know you received and read an email?
I'd just go as planned and make the guy fight extradition, or whatever you would call it.
Posted by Tortious
ATX
Member since Nov 2010
5771 posts
Posted on 9/29/15 at 10:44 pm to
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Free NC legal advice board
Posted by FalseProphet
Mecca
Member since Dec 2011
11723 posts
Posted on 9/29/15 at 10:56 pm to
Does the Servicemembers Civil Relief Act act not apply to this? I was always under the impression that once active duty hits, all legal proceedings stop. Then again, I don't know.
This post was edited on 9/29/15 at 10:59 pm
Posted by Five0
Member since Dec 2009
11354 posts
Posted on 9/29/15 at 11:11 pm to
$20 says your edit was the last sentence. I was allegedly thinking the same thing.
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